Im Thinking About Letting Go Of PE

Lastnight I had one of the worse panic attacks of my life. I have just added another .5cm and I’m afraid the extra stretch might be enough to damage my unit. Like most here I’m not an actual doctor, I graduated with my degree in urology from thundersplace. To make sure I’m safe I have developed this routine where I check my erection quality every morning and night to make sure I haven’t damaged my penis. Last night it took me about 4hrs to get an erection. I’m sure to a great extent my being unable to get hard was caused by anxiety, but it still worries me. Once I enter panic mode it’s a wrap. I fear not being able to get an erection, my thoughts start racing, and after that it’s damn near impossible. I ended up having to walk to the nearest 7-eleven for some sleeping pills because I absolutely could not sleep. Once I took a walk and popped some Advil’s tho’ I felt much better and sorta back in my head. I watched some porn, got a super strong erection, and everything was well. I’m not too sure why I’m sharing this. I just feel like I need to vent after last nights nightmare. I have a family history of anxiety and obsessive thinking so I’m kinda feeling like it might be in my best interest to lay off this shit. But I haven’t cemented and I may lose my gains. I’m actually already very happy with my gains but they came so quick that I’ve become eager for more. Beyond that tho this morning I woke up perfectly fine and I was able to get super hard. Hopefully it’s all in my head, I’ve experienced temporary impotence due to panicking several times before. Most likely I’m just a fucking nut. I never have any residual pain once I take the device off, but at the end of the day I’m still not a fucking doctor and sometimes I just deeply obsess over the damage I may be doing to my unit. I hate myself for strapping back in after lastnight but I’m kind of addicted to this shit. But yea, just thought I’d share that.

If youdon’t feel comfortable in doing it then don’t. Who needs more stress in their lives?

Drop the device and do newbie routine

Consider a daily meditation practice.

Thanks man. I should start mediating. As far as my penis is rn, I think I’m fine. No pain. I’m able to get erections when I relax. Having ED at 21 is something I honestly couldn’t live with tho. I’d have to off myself. I try to be very careful in this shit.

Nice one hahaha.

Oh Red Flag right there!

2nd Red flag!

Ding ding ding ding ding oh my Red Flag alarm went crazy! The problem is not PE, believe me. I am 21 just like you and for my experience with lack of sleep is just the same as yours the only difference is that I don’t have anxiety, but the consequences for lack of sleep are the same: you feel depressed, apathetic, erection problems etc. Man your body just needs to rest, look when you have anxiety it makes your brain turn in high speed and simultaneous thinking that is why you don’t sleep, or don’t sleep enough even though it passed 8 to 10 hours on the bed. Your body respond in various negative ways to force you to rest, even though you try your best and it doesn’t work. My advice? Go see a doctor with good recommendations on generalized anxiety.

Hey man!

I’m 21 myself too!

And I have some advice to you about ED and all of this situation!

First of all, I usually overthink everything and it’s messes me in everyway. The way I feel around other ppl, my EQ etc.

The key is you have to face the problem in your head. Discuss with yourself that it’s only in your head. You would think it’s nonsense the your thoughts influence your body, but it’s hard to realize it’s true!

Sit back, relax think about it and calm yourself down without Advil.

It’s a progress so it’s takes time.

About ED.
I had 2 girls who I slept with. In the first 2-3 weeks I couldn’t get hard and cum in minutes. After I discussed myself everything is ok, just don’t think before the action, don’t panic. And it’s working really great.
Just enjoy PE enjoy life and DO NOT STRESS about these problems, face them!

you young guys, once you grow older,
everything becomes relative, believe me.

just relax. :-)

Your issue isn’t physical, it’s psychological.

Whether or not you decide to keep working on your hog or not, it’s anxiety that’s messing with your head and your hard-on.

You will never damage your penis with the extender. Its one of the safest methods. You should be happy with your gains.

Dont let stupid and unrealistic thoughts win you over or find another hobby.

We all have bad days.

Stick to what’s real. Stick to logic. Stick to reason.

Hey Brother,

I do not suggest taking any medication that will be prescribed from your doctor for your anxiety. I had one too many clients of mine at my business where the medication leads to ED problems, especially medication for mood enhancing. Whatever your Doctor prescribes, just always check online for people who experience side effects of that drug. That is the most biggest pet peeve of mine when it comes to the Pharmaceutical Medication, it creates more problems in my opinion.

Lack of sleep is what is causing your T-levels to be low to begin with and you need to make sure you are eating enough as well to promote healthy hormone production as well. If you are at a point where the mental issues you got going is blocking you from eating the right things, exercising in general, or sleeping, then you need to get away from all this and take a vacation or something. Don’t blame your unit for not performing when the captain of the helm is not at 100%. So good luck and I hope this is just a bump in your journey.

So you stretch for a while and then immediately try to get hard.WRONG!

Dude there is simply no way! Your penis is in shock and needs time to repair its self for a few hours after an exercise before you can get a real good erection.

Are you adding in jelqing to stimulate blood flow during your breaks with the device off and after taking it off for the night or whenever? Any time it comes off you should jelq or massage the penis to get good blood back into it. This doesn’t mean try to get a hard on right away!

Wait a few hours after removal and then get your wood or use your tool on some poor unsuspecting girl.. Wait that came out wrong.

From what you wrote I’m going to bet that you measure every day too. STOP IT! Measure once a month. Be aware that PE takes time and you shouldn’t force it to happen overnight.

On the other hand if you are forcing it to happen you should really stop and read some! You’re setting your penis up for failure and possibly injury!

I had ED before using an extender. Key word being ‘had’

And as for suicidal thoughts? Having consistent erection issues from the age of 14 till I was 28 still didn’t make me think about suicide. I’ll save telling you how I feel about people committing suicide. I was miserable for sure though haha. It shaped my life. I put that shape in an extender and made it a better one :)