Your measurements & actual responses from women

Thank you. Apology both accepted and honestly appreciated.

Had 1 girl tell me she didn’t really feel anything. I told her I believe her because I couldn’t feel anything either.

Had another tell me she had 2 guys that were smaller than me (micropenis?). I know one of those guys, and I know she loved him very much. He broke up with her, and went back to his wife. Then she and I got together. We had great sex. She was not shallow at all, but she had many penetrative orgasms. Even told her friends about it. I ended up sleeping with 1 of her sisters and 1 of her friends.

Had 1 try to kill herself when I broke up with her. Another tried to trap me by lying about being pregnant. Had 1 virgin, and she felt the way a virgin should. Incredibly difficult to penetrate, but a glorious journey. She bled for 2 days bless her heart. She also had problems doggystyle saying it hurt. We were together 3 years, and she never had a penetrative orgasm. She did tell me she got close several times.

I’m now NBPEL 5” BPEL 6.25” BPFSL 7” EBG 5” on a good day, and married with concubines.

My wife has told me to stop making it bigger. I can hit her cervix with her legs on my shoulders. She’s 4’11” 100lbs, Asian, has had 2 kids. 1 via c-section.

I have yet to fully penetrate 1 of my girlfriends. We have only had sex 2 times, and both times she said I started her period. Both times she started bleeding immediately. I have gotten as far as 3/4 penetration. That last 1/4 should be glorious. She’s 5’0” 90lbs, Asian, has had 1 kid via c-section

As my penis has grown things have changed. The sounds they make are different now. More strained is the best way to put it. I imagine they love the stretch from the girth.

The fact is. Women really do love big cock the same way I love tight vagina. They love rock hard cock. The same as the way I love soaking wet vagina.

Wigz

I’ve been with one woman my whole life. Since I was 17. I’m 37 now. She has been with 3 other guys before me, although she was young when she was 14-16 years old. She said they were all average and she has never made me feel like I’m not big enough for her, although I have never felt big enough. I think the main thing that keeps me trapped in the small penis mindset is my flaccid is and always has been ridiculous. It turtles up to basically nothing, leaving me shy and scared in a locker room or urinal situation. I have done a great job hiding it my whole life, my wife has never seen it in its smallest state. Hopefully I can fix it before she ever does lol.

I think this needs further research. Based on a lot of personal experience I don’t think it’s as simple as that and if you think it is you’re a novice.

Vagina will always feel tighter when we’re excited as sh*t and we’re truly wound up about the woman… RIGHT? [I know many hands will come up]. A late night stand in will never excite you as much as someone you’ve been after for a while, has made you laugh, has made you feel infatuated. Come on. The best pussy is the one you’re genuinely infatuated with. The one you look in the eyes and you think “I am a lucky motherf*cker, can’t believe I am inside this amazing woman.”

Why wouldn’t women be the exact same? Why wouldn’t they think your dick is the best if they simply think you’re a fantastic dude?

Guess what: They do. The greatest dick enhancing move is to be a great partner in life to them.

The rest is BS.

Thank you. Took me years. Then went on an extended break. But I’m back for good now to see what can be achieved when a person is truly dedicated.

Thanks for you response Smooth99. You are correct. It is wrong to say all women like large cock (relatively speaking). 1 of my girlfriends truly believes I’m big. I have not completely penetrated her yet. It’s also true that most women do not like their cervix being pounded. My wife is one of them.

I based that part of my post from my own experience to date, research I’ve done, and questions I’ve asked from females before our initial intimate encounter and after our initial intimate encounter.

I did have a girlfriend that said I was the perfect size for her before I started PE. I even overheard her telling one of her friends about it. Her words were “I could have sex with him forever.” I’ll never forget those words.

“Why wouldn’t women be the exact same? Why wouldn’t they think your dick is the best if they simply think you’re a fantastic dude?”

They will think something like that bro. No argument there.

I believe that when you are in love with your partner nothing else really matters. I believe this is why the sex between me and 1 of my exes was so great. She never said I was the best she ever had, but she did say it was close. I was about 4 inches long, I weighed 127lbs @ 5’8”, and I smoked that pussy.

Generally speaking I believe most women like to be filled up. This does not mean you cannot have great sex with a below average penis. You can still be a beast in bed. There’s also things you can both do to tighten her up. Foreplay will do it, and female kegals.

I’m here because I love the new noises I’m hearing them make since I started PE. Those noises are in fact due to my increased size. I have no doubt of that. I’m also seeing bigger smiles after sex. Vagina even feels different in a fabulous way. It’s as if I have more control or something.

It should be noted that I often pick up hookers in various countries, have several girlfriends at any given time, and I’m married. I work overseas.

Wigz

With reference to what is big and why: CBateman - Penis Size: The True Average

NBPEL: 5.91 Girth: 5.51

Length: top 28% girth: top 3%

I had sex with about 100 women, nearly all in their twenties or younger.

No girl or women EVER said I was small. I live in europe.

Some said I was big or very big, maybe 20%. From the rest, I did not get a lot of comments.

Everybody is entitled to his opinion and I cannot change their view.

Please take a look at my post above regarding good statistics of real measured sized (NOT self-reported).

My first big goal is to gain 1.1. Inches to reach 7 inches NBPEL. I will update you with comments then but I assume this is the absolute perfect size.

Some women might have so little experience that they simply don’t know what is big. Additionally, if a women is 6 foot 1 and rather muscular it is different from 5 foot obviously.

It feels different in her hands and mouth for her. My current belief is if asked, 95% of women will say 7 REAL correctly measured NBPEL inches is very big.

Will update you :-) . And will also let them guys my measurement to see if they can guess the size (I assume they will say 0.8 inches more than it really is on average).

I am currently in the process of seducing my ex sister in-law. We talk a lot about sex, I’m always asking questions about her likes, her desires and her lust.
I asked her if she liked big dicks inside of her, we have been extremely straightforward with each other, she said not really. I asked her what would be her perfect size. She said between six and seven inches. But she also said she likes thicker dicks because they fill her up more than a long thin dick. I’m happy to hear that she likes thick dicks between 6 and 7 inches, because my dick is thick and measures 6.5” BPEL. Since I live quite far away from her we haven’t had sex, but we’re making arrangements.

I’ve been doing PE for about 6 years now, not consistently but enough to get some results. I have a friend with benefits that I see maybe twice a year, but there was a time when I hadn’t seen her for about 3 years. I had been doing PE using a penis pump, doing jelqs and stretches during this time. When I finally made it down to see her we began having sex. After foreplay she decided to ride me, so I let her take control. As she started to insert my penis into her, she said with shock, it’s hurting a little bit, I didn’t think you were so big. I offered to pull out but she said no, although it hurt a little it also felt good. Prior to my doing PE she always said I had the perfect dick for her pussy, she said it was a perfect fit. For a woman who had two children, she was pleasantly tight. But then she stands 4’ 10” tall with a very petite body. I once asked her if she would like to have sex with a man with a big dick, she asked how big. I told her 8 inches, she grimaced and said “hell no, too big and it would hurt to much.”

My point is, both my sister in-law and friend with benefits like to watch big dicks in porn, but they understand that huge dicks would be to painful for them at this point in their life.

Here’s one other thing they both have in common, they would much rather have a rock hard dick in them than a bigger soft penis in them. I fortunately get rock hard, even at my older age. I just turned 60.

Honestly, I am of the mind that for the majority of women, the particulars of a man’s penis are mostly irrelevant. I expect that so long as you fall within a couple standard deviations of average, then how your size compares to her other partners is academic. I suspect that the steep ends of the curve are where most women take particular note, and from what I’ve experienced through conversation and interviews I’ve read, most women don’t much appreciate either extreme. I myself have been told more than once that I’m just too girthy, at around 6”.

Even those women who are self confessed size queens seem often to relish the psychological effects of a partner with a huge one, rather than because it feels better. I know there are those who enjoy the feeling of fullness etc, but as many seem to appreciate it as a challenge, or because they like pain during sex. Some like the social status that comes with their friends knowing that their partner is hung.

My wife likes feeling full and stretched, and it’s one of the reasons we have great sex. Not the most significant reason, by far, but not an inconsiderable one either. I can stretch her far more with my hands than my penis ever will though, and she enjoys fisting on her more adventurous nights. That’s part of why I’m here. I know she enjoys larger than I am, so nothing to lose.

Despite all that though, She also doesn’t think of herself as a size queen at all. Dick had never been a consideration for her choice of partners in the past, or with me. She has admitted that it’s a nice perk in a partner. As I’ve said here before though, she enjoys what I do with my hands and mouth significantly more than anything I can do with my dick, that I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t lose any sleep if I went totally impotent, so long as I could still sing and play piano.

You’re a wise man Gurks.

I can’t claim to have been with lots of women, so without that feedback, I never considered myself to be big. Comparing my flaccid average — about 5 x 5 — with say other guys in a locker room, I seemed to be pretty average, not small but average. The light bulb came on in the 90s when internet porn became so available that I realized I was as big as a lot of the actors.

I started PE, however, to defeat declining EQ and its been working. Hey working your muscles at the gym boosts strength and performance, so why would the right kind of exercise help EQ — thanks to a bunch of you at Thunders. The increase in size is the icing on the cake, again thank you for lots of good advice. I gained an inch in length and 5/8 to 3/4 in girth in a year or so (newbie), but gains since then are small and slow.

The only woman who’s seen — me erect — or slept with me post PE is my wife and she encourages me and says she’ll let me know when to stop.

I looked up howlongismyschlong.com and I’m in the top 2 percent in length and girth. Still find it hard to believe though.

Start 3/18 7.25 bpel x 5.25 mseg

Now 8.25 x 6.25

Goal 9 x 7

Much appreciated, but any wisdom gained has come hard earned after years of foolishness. Foolishness punctuated by moments of spectacular insecurity, remarkable stubbornness, and embarrassing ignorance.

Very little that is worth having comes quick or easy though, does it?

It seems like I cannot edit my post. I made a mistake because the website calcSD - Penis Size Percentile Calculator works with BPEL and I entered my NBPEL.
That being said, the measurements change to:
BPEL:6.57 inches girth and NBPEL stay the same
On the other hand, I only use the western data now because I live in the west and most women will have primarily experience with western men in my country.
I want to be conservative with the numbers. For the western average dataset, this means
Length: top 12% girth: top 6.6%
However, as Gurks has stated here : Gurks - Penis Size: The True Average
It MAY be the case the average woman has contact to rather above average guys. See the arguments in the thread.
After seeing the new numbers and thinking about my rather vast experience, I tend to wonder. Even in Europe, women seldomly seem to comment on size at all
OR I’m not big enough yet. I really hope to gain 1 inch relatively quickly (as everybody here perhaps wishes haha) and update my experience.
Assuming I would gain the 1 inch both in BPEL and NBPEL equally, that would put me at 7.57 BPEL and in the top 0.5% for western men accordingly.
Additionally, I thought about the commenting a bit longer and think only 10% of the woman commented on my size.
I really wonder what will be the case when I have gained my first inch and will update you guys! But I assume it would be rather disappointing if you are waiting for a lot of comments.

No it doesn’t. I’m positive most women don’t really care about size. It’s more about can you make her cum and stay hard.

I make my wife cum with a finger. Surely must men have a dick bigger than my finger.

Exactly.