Your measurements & actual responses from women

I`m pretty sure such topic is extremely complex. Take paper and pen and try to draw how big is your dick. I’m pretty sure result would be quite off after measuring and we actually see our dicks everyday. There is no way to remember how big was someone exactly even after short time, it becomes some vague “like this” and after long time its completely distorted. So even when women don’t lie, impression of size would differ much. If we wanna sort out it more, it`s better to start from the reason why person thinks something is really big.

When I was teen, I thought my dick is quite small or average at best. Reason for that is because any other dick I saw or heard of was from porno or wrong measuring with a bit exaggeration. Even when girls said I have big one, I didn’t trust them much and thought about that more like flattering. You can clearly see how opinion is formed in comparison and how hard to change that. I visually don’t see it bigger, when I grip its easy to form O-shape with fingers and even some extra space is left. That way I don’t have any indicators my dick is big. In reality I have quite big hands, for me thump-index distance is 8in and even when I form ring, its huge ring.

For woman to think its huge, that has to have stunning indicators. Its like surprise effect. Woman had 5-10 small partners then appeared someone with decent size and she thought he is huge. Now that word is associated with him and even if we pop up many similar or slightly bigger, it becomes only common. If you ask what was her biggest she might remember that ex, because she still has impression he is huge. To overcome that we need absurdly big size and you can see it actually doesn’t have anything to do about actual size, but just impression she had when saw it. For sure there are many such indicators. It might be length, thickness, body size, her feelings and so on. Make her squeeze, she feels tightness and thinks its huge. Nothing about size, just her feelings, some woman can squeeze even pencil.

Pre PE: BPEL 5.0”, MEG 4.6”
Wife of 18 years never complained, but I knew she wished I was longer. I bought her a vibrator that was about my same thickness but a little longer, years ago, and she said it’s cool because it can reach spots I could not. It must be frustrating having an itch you can’t scratch. Then she had kids, and I wished I was thicker. She was stretched out, and I was basically picking a side and trying to rub against it. I fingered her, inserting more fingers until she seemed to really enjoy it, and made a note of how big that was: about 6” girth, maybe a little more. I bought her another vibrator with that girth and she tried it several times and that was fun. But while she enjoyed it she eventually had me throw it away. She knew it was keeping her stretched out and that was making sex with me less fun. She has tightened back up some since then.

Shortly after starting PE: BPEL 5.5”, MEG: 5.0”
Wife knew I had discovered PE, was giving me a BJ, and said, “Well someone is a growing boy!” Big smile on both of our faces.

A little while later: BPEL 5.75”
Wife thanks me for doing PE, says she really hopes I don’t shrink back. (Not that I needed any additional encouragement.) :)

BPEL 6.1”
Wife riding me cowgirl, looks at me in surprise, says, “You’ve never reached that spot before!”

A couple months ago: BPEL 6.4”
First time having sex after I started hanging, had quickly picked up another 0.1” length. Wife riding me cowgirl again, another look of surprise, says, “I feel full.” Multiple orgasms over the next minute, and a contented smile on her face for the next several days.

FS,

Outstanding post and congrats on those great gains!

So… I am personally still frustrated trying to crack the 7” barrier but it makes it all worth it when after 30+ years of marriage I still get text like this when the wifey is outta town for a few days:

So, I am lying in bed thinking about your big, hard cock and how much I want it inside me and my pussy is so wet….

I never received those text prior to PE.

Never had a complaint even before PE even if i was significantly smaller (i grew up a lot naturally also since i started PE at 20 yrs old). After my first year of PE my gf at that time was cumming super hard 3 to 4 times every single intercourse, sometimes just by putting it in by how turned on she was. Jesus crazy good times, best sex connection i had with a girl so far.

Nice wish I get texts like that from the wife 🙂

I’m a mere 6 1/2 x 5 5/8 and nearly all of the women who I’ve been with have found it impressively large, and in fact in high school I had a girl who was clearly interested back down after seeing it hard - she was a pretty shy girl though so I wouldn’t be surprised if it was the first she saw. One girl did respond with an “oh”, which totally killed the mood of course. Of the ones I’ve asked about past men, only one claimed to have been with a guy clearly larger, and most said I was the biggest (although I always took that with a grain of salt).

Btw this is not a huge number, I’ve been with 8 women (if you include just oral or handies, otherwise 6) over 14 years, most of them in the first 5 (so they hadn’t had many partners yet). I’ll be 30 in a couple months, just for scope.

As far as the stuff earlier in the thread about American women cutting men down about their size, I’ve never experienced that except maybe that once. But then again I’m not the ‘player’ type at all and don’t even pretend to be, so they probably feel no need to kill my ego to keep me to themselves.

Started at 7.25 BP X 5.25 MG

Now at 7.5 BP X 5.5 MG

I have heard from girls that I’m huge, that I’m big , that I have a porno dick, that it’s the perfect size. I’d say for function 7.5 X 5.5 is ideal. My flaccid always makes me feel small though.

Of the women that I’ve slept with (something like 15?), I would say that most of them thought that I was on the larger side. A few found it too much when I went in deep. Some thought that I was the perfect size. A couple said that I was big. The only negative feedback that I ever received was from my current girlfriend, who when I asked said that I was about average and that she ideally liked longer dicks. I guess she’s not too wrong, though at 6” NBP I would still argue that compared to the statistics I’m bigger than 75%. Though I was looking at binomial probabilities yesterday and for example the probability of her having slept with a guy over 7” is about 50% (that’s assuming about 40 partners, she didn’t have that many but she got a 3x multiplier because she’s hot and would then likely attract bigger, more confident guys). Having slept with 2 partners over 7” comes to almost 14% with same assumptions. I guess she was one of the lucky 14% :P

My whole sex life, at a pre-PE original size (started PE 13 months ago) of 7.25-7.5” BPEL (depending on EQ) and 5.625-5.75” MSEG, I had recieved direct and indirect (they told their girl friends who then made not so subtle jokes in front of me) feedback that I was everything from “bigger than average” to “big” to “huge” from most of the 20 women I had been with. One or two said nothing and gave no outward reaction. One said her last boyfriend was “enormous, but don’t worry. It’s not like your small or anything”. Was NOT expecting to hear that because I never had before. That really destroyed my confidence. On the other hand I never actually truly believed the girls that said it was big, I thought they were just telling me what they thought I wanted to hear. I have been married now for over 26 years (got married at 24). My wife is an admitted size queen and had always said “bigger is better” and told me she wouldn’t have married me if my dick wasn’t big. I also took that with a grain of salt. It wasn’t until i found thunders place a little over a year ago, as well as the penis statistics calculator websites that I began to truly realize that perhaps they were all just being honest. I have been doing stealth PE for just over a year - just warmup, stretch, and pump. I am glad I didn’t tell my wife because she is now a “blind study” for me in terms of would PE work, and could she or would she notice the difference? Well if anyone is on the fence wondering if it works - it DOES! 3-4 months in she started talking about “why is it bigger?”, making noises during sex that I had never heard her make, sending texts telling me she was in love with my “huge cock”. Needless to say I loved hearing that and knowing that it was genuine because she had not been prompted and does not know about the PE. 6-8 months in, she began making more audible pleasure noises during sex, complains about TMJ after trying to give blowjobs and gagging much more often. Now after 13 months, a first. After we had sex tonight she said “I don’t know what your doing or how your doing it, but you can stop because it’s kinda too big for me.” I said length or girth? She said “Both. It stretches me to my limit and I just feel so full and so much pressure and also is hitting my cervix if we are at the wrong angle for it to kind of slide past it.” “You have a horse cock”. Horse cock!? Too big?!? That’s definitely a first and certainly unexpected. For reference I am currently sitting at 7.75-7.875” BPEL and 5.875-6.125” MSEG, 5.75” head girth, 6.625” BEG - again a range depending on EQ. At least for my self proclaimed “size queen” wife, the legendary and coveted 8.0” x 6.0” may actually be a little too much. Just my experience. Hope that helps others know what to expect from the different sizes I have been, both naturally, and after a year of dedicated PE. Oh more positive side affects of the PE. I had a pretty decent left curve to start PE, but now it’s almost perfectly straight as well. She noticed and commented on that. She also noticed and commented that it seems to much thicker at the top half and that the top and bottom are much more uniform thickness than before and my head is much bigger. She says all the time too that my flaccid is so much longer and thicker most of the time. All characteristics I had hoped to change when I started. My self esteem and confidence in my size have all been improved and I absolutely LOVE the comments my wife makes. It’s addicting to hear these things.

Excellent work! Thanks for sharing your story.

What a cool story. Congratulations.

Thanks Titleist and Freelancer!

I feel kind of stupid for never really trusting in positive comments and hanging my hat on the no comments or the one negative one. I think part of it comes from looking at a lot of porn from an early age - mainly hustler and some of the more hard core ones and then movies with the internet becoming a big thing.

I believe another reason is I was always a grower and not a shower. When you see the other guys who are showers in the locker room, you are certain it grows as much as yours and they must all be huge - way bigger than me.

It all results in this weird place where you sometimes suspect you are big and start to believe it, but at the same time you have lingering doubts that tell you you’re not. When a girl does not react or says “you’re not small but my last guy was enormous” you just go right back to believing that.

From reading on this forum, I realize how common this psychological phenomenon is among men - even guys with a penis much bigger than mine. We all think we’re smaller than we really are. Not sure why it’s easier to believe the negative. I think I may have had a form of body dysmorphia but PE, Thunders place and the various statistical websites are helping me get my head right.

For any of the guys after girth, I feel like both my bathmate and my Leluv air pump made a big impact relatively quickly in girth and improved erection quality. In my experience, my wife noticed the girth increase relatively quickly, but the extra length was not noticed as much until now. Also she really liked the girth increase for awhile, but last night was the first time she mentioned it was bordering on too much. That’s unfortunate because my goal was much bigger for both. I still want that because my insecurity wants to know I always have the biggest dick in the room but it may be detrimental to my sex life which is not a good situation for me either. Trying to decide on maintenance mode or keep going. When I started this I really wanted to at least solidly hit that magic 8x6 even on my worst day. I must admit, I live for the comments from wife and I am addicted to the way she looks at it now!

“When you see the other guys who are showers in the locker room, you are certain it grows as much as yours and they must all be huge - way bigger than me.”

“but PE, Thunders place and the various statistical websites are helping me get my head right.”

Exactly the same for me what you have described.

Maybe your lady will get use to your new girth. If you stay at that and she shows signs of getting more comfortable you can then aim to increase a little more and adjust from there.

Trust what she says. You’d hate to have less frequent sex because you simply make her sore from something that should make her feel good.