Your measurements & actual responses from women

Problem is, doing that doesn’t account for progress you make but is masked by a weight problem. Losing weight will look like gains when in fact it isn’t. Gaining weight will look like losses when it in fact isn’t. You can and should keep track of both measurements. This way you know what is working and what isn’t.

Non-Bone Pressed Erect Length is great but you need to keep track of your real progress and keep your body fat and PE progress separate.

I think even measuring BPEL some people with more fat cant get a good reading. From when i started PEing to now i probably have lost 40lbs or so. I have gained .75” bpel in about 4 months and probably 1.5” nbpel. However i wonder if some of the bpel is because i am actually getting further down onto the bone now. For example no matter how tightly i squeezed a belt on before it would never come close to the notches i now easily can reach. I suppose its because your fat will only compress so much. I hope the .75 is all real gains lol but i do wonder. Makes me kinda happy if thats the case though cause i easily still have 1.25”+ fat pad left if not more.

Was thinking about this. At the end of a session I’m passing the 7” mark inside the tube. I’m overweight and that is the tube pressing into the fat as much as it can… I bet if I were to lose weight I would just p to 7.25 or 7.5.

Yeah i can see that happening. What sucks is that you really need to lose ALOT of weight to affect the fat pad substantially. I am down to 20% body fat which isnt athletic or anything but isnt too terrible and yet my fat pad is probably 1.25-1.5”. Has been the most stubborn area to lose fat in. Over the next 6 months i plan to get down to 10% bf or so and hopefully see no more then a .5” fat pad. Thats a free nbpel inch that will certainly help.

Overweight too, noticed the same issues with measuring discrepancies. If I use a small dowel rod vs a wide based ruler, there is an ~0.25” longer reading with the dowel. It gets closer to the bone than the wide base ruler. I guess the best move is to pick what you measure with and stick with it.

Lol i bought a super thin aluminum ruler for that exact reason. Hurts like a bitch but im pretty sure i get as close to the bone as humanly possible. Makes consistent measuring easier.

i strongly believe that girth plays a huge rule in a woman’s perception of what is ”big”….even with 6 ” nbpel if you have 6 ” girth a lot of women will see it as big

My glory days were before internet, females watching porn, and the sex toy explosion.
Back then I was 5-1/4 BP by 5” mid girth.
Was with a crap load of females and they always came back for more and had a great time. I never thought about size.

Currently I am ~6-3/4 BP by 5-5/8” mid (and a touch over 6 base) and I just got back from being with my FWB and she literally thanked me a half dozen times. I had to tell her to stop saying it… FWB is 20 years younger then me and hot as hell.
For the wifey, I do this in stealth mode but she absolutely loves the changes (she credits my bodybuilding supplements, lol). She has become extremely sexual again and this is after 35 years. I literally have to make up excuses just so I can get in my PE workouts.
That benefit has been the best.

My personal goal is to break the dang 7” barrier. With my starting stats this goal has been extremely challenging for me but I have come this far… I mean, how difficult can it be?
LMAO!!!!!

I just discovered this place randomly, and the whole idea of PE is entrusting to me but I’ve never heard of most of this, nor tried it yet. I’ve got 7.5”x6” and I always thought it was small. My first attempt at sex in high school failed because it wouldn’t go in, I thought it was due to the girl being nervous or something but she didn’t say literally a word. I didn’t get with TOO many girls before meeting my wife, I got a few comments of “it’s kinda thick” but I still just thought it was small and they were being nice.

My wife was a virgin when we met, although she had seen her share of penises prior and she said I was the only one she wanted to have sex with. Aside from one “freakishly large” penis she said mine was above average but as far as sex she has no reference. She is NOT the type to give compliments at all so again I figured she was just being nice, but for a while at first, she would bleed after sex and I felt much more bad than “triumphant”. We’ve been together for 9 years now so maybe it’s time for a little bit of enhancement to keep things interesting, a little gift for her. I have to admit the prospect of her noticing a difference is enticing. Maybe just a 1/4” both length and girth more might be good for now. Cool site!

Last night I was told that I have more than adequate size and was also complimented on my preference to make love rather than just sex. To me it’s a whole pleasure experience and both people need to get off and enjoy themselves thoroughly and I have 2 main reasons for believing that.
1. Why on earth would anyone have sex with me if they don’t enjoy it?
2. When a woman is enjoying themselves and gets off, it makes it better for me as well.

I read last night that on average a man can thrust for 2.5 mins before ejaculating, if the penetration part is all we focus on (which we tend to do thanks to porn etc) then yeah, we get worried about size as shit needs to happen quick for the woman. Even with big size, I highly doubt 2.5 mins is going to be enough!

Much better to focus on foreplay - do not underestimate how valuable this is! - and the entire sexual experience rather than just the banging part. It’s bloody hard when horny AF but delaying your own gratification and focusing more on her is way better for both of you. The female body is an awesome and amazing thing, explore it!

I’m beginning to really believe that size issues are a male ego driven thing for the vast majority of guys. Having said that, I’m still going to try and make gains, I need the ego boost as much as the next guy does on here!

Hi Mike are you CHEATING on your wife or I read it wrong.
And what do you credit your success size or skill.
What I’m hearing is so divided, some say 6 bp is enough and others claim 7.5 nbpel isn’t I’m confused. Plus you have a huge girth.

To answer your second question first,
Yes, it is contradicting and that was my point in my reply… when I was smaller then you are now (and by the way, you have great stats and congrats on the gains) I didn’t think of my size and it was never an issue.
I admit that seeing gains has been nice and the wifey’s sex drive has kinda been restarted because it is like she has a new toy to play with, lol. But, we also had a shit load of years with great sex when I was on the smaller side of average and she has always had vaginal orgasisms even back when.
Don’t get too caught up in everything you read online, it isn’t worth all the mind games it can play. Do PE for you but yes, they do notice.

For your first question…. It definitely isn’t size as I started on the low end of average (being a little generous).
As for skill, I highly doubt I understand what women want/like any more then any other guy (those ladies are confusing),
I do have sex conversions with all my partners (be attentive/interested) and I know how to talk and get them engaged during sex. Not sure that counts as skill but… as someone who has always enjoyed sex, this has just been a part of my normal routine.
For example on why I wouldn’t say size or skill,
The wifey loves being fingered every bit as much or maybe more so then being eating and I know that with that and as long as we do a couple of positions, she is sending me sext the rest of the day.
For the FWB, it is silly how quickly I can get her off with my tongue (to the point it is now a game and I won’t let her cum) but what sends her over the edge and gets me sext after sext the rest of the week is adding basic 50 Shades shit. Not really my thing but hey… I really like knowing it drives her crazy.

There isn’t any one number or one size or one move and this reply is really long… so, sorry about that but we are talking about sex… so just have some fun!

Thanks for the reply, I wish my experience with women is similar, I know the importance of using mouth and fingers.
Also I am still confused how you have a Wife and an FWB :D or I’m just slow

LOL!
Again, congrats on your gains and size, damn well done.

7,5BPEL x 5,5MSEG +-

Slow please.
This is really big.
Not the biggest I,ve ever seen but for me is perfect.

When she say that You’re not the biggest that she had have, 99% of times is lie.
A self-confident man with an average penis can satisfy equal or more than one with a large unsafe penis and is also much happier. My best wishes

My guess never ask about other dicks, no more insecurity and enjoy YOU ARE THE BEST YOU HAVE THE POWER FOR BE THE BEST.