Why the quest for larger when you already have enough

Thats the question that I’ve been walking around with for some time now. Here I am at a PE site with the intent to increase the dimensions of my dick. No, thats not correct. A better description would be: to SIGNIFICANTLY increase said dick. Which would make total fucking sense if I had a dick of smaller proprotions,but I don’t. My starting stats are: 7.7” bnp length and 5.5” girth. Mind you, I’m not saying this to brag or any of that; I don’t think there is room for that when posting at a PE site that undoubtedly already has a good number of members who feel insecure about their dick-dimensions thanks to a lot of the mass hysteria that the media bestows on the Big Dick Issue. I’m mentioning my measurements to make a point, that point being: why go for larger when you already have enough?

I can understand wanting more when your wife has a pussy that can simply accomodate more without pain, but lets face it, the moment you go beyond 8” length and 5.5” girth - for most thats looking for trouble. Depending on your partner, you can either say “Goodbye” to a nice blowjob and anal, and feel her hand push you away instead of pulling you to her as you are trying to go “pubic bone to pubic bone”. My gf, who I hope will be mine for life, already thinks that I’m huge, and is in fact scared of my dick. In other words, I can’t use the “I’m doing it to please my gf” as an excuse. Still, I’m nothing short of obsessed with getting what I myself consider a large cock. Which to me would be somewhere around 9.5” length and 7” girth. Am I crazy or what?!

Anyways, I did a lot of reading here and I noticed that I’m not the only one with this desire to get what can only be called “truly hung in every fucking sense of the word”, at the possible expense of the quality of their future sex life; don’t tell me that having a dick that is so large and fat that you can’t get a decent blowjob or go balls deep, let alone anal, is not a total downgrade of the quality of your sex life, oki. So, why is that? Why do you want more when more most likely equals less pleasure?

Unbeliever! Infidel!

There is no such thing as enough. In the immortal words of PE great Charleston Hesston, ”I’ll stop Jelqing when they pry my pecker from my cold, dead fingers!”

That’s a very interesting question. I understand your point, though my starting dimensions are not quite what yours are (mine being NBP 7.25” X 5.25”). I believe it has to do with the male psyche. For some of us, I believe the measure of our unit is sometimes thought of as the measure of the power we posses. Not suggesting all men with normal sized dicks think they’re no more than average, but, if you do have a larger than average dick, you feel like you have a little something over the competition. And, that competition isnt necessarily limited to men competing over a woman. We find it at work, amongst friends, at the gym, everywhere. I believe it to be something deeply rooted. I mean, there aren’t too many guys out there that would be deeply scorned if they were told by a woman that their muscles where small. However, if the same woman reminded a man that he has a little dick, he’d probably find it a little unsettling. Just my two cents.

Welcome to Thunder’splace Mule!

Each person has to define “enough” based on their own circumstances.

:-k

Having a dick larger than 8” x 5.5” is not trouble NOR does it equal “less pleasure.” That size is what many women I know call “comfortably large.” Having a large penis does NOT make sexual relations go “Goodbye” as you put it. Over the years, a friend of mine & I have shared many women. He is over 9” x 6” and NEVER has a woman refused sex with him. A few of the women just stared wide-eyed at first but were all eager to go for a ride! I don’t remember ANY of the women who was not able to suck him or take him vaginally or anally. Heck, a couple of the women were virgins when he had sex with them and it was all up to technique to make things pleasurable.

I think we need to look at things differently. Making sex pleasurable instead of painful for the woman is your responsibility and the larger the penis, the larger the responsibility. Pain during sex is NOT dependant on penis size. If the technique is wrong, ANY size penis can hurt. As long as the woman is sufficiently sexually aroused AND WILLING TO TRY, she will most likely be able to accomodate the penis size. For larger penises, it will take longer for her to stretch and feel comfortable with the size.

I don’t recall any member here having goals that would make sex with their partner impossible like the statement you make here. Even a rather large penis like 11” x 7” is not too much for a person to handle with enough patience & training.

Just look online and you will see women who take guys like Mandingo & Lex Steele all the way orally, vaginally and anally. There are also sites where women can be seen pleasuring themselves with dildos 13” x 9” and bigger vaginally and anally (sorry, too big for the mouth).

So all this to say:
1.) Do PE for yourself; it’s the only reason you need.
2.) Make it as big as you want, with proper technique your partner will be able to accomodate your size.
3.) ALWAYS be respectful and patient with your partner until they can accomodate your size without pain. If you are in a permanent relationship and they’re not willing to try, then you may not want to waste your time on PE. If you’re not in a permanent relationship, make it as big as you want and only use what they can handle!

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Enough? Everyone is deifferent, everyone wants different, thats why

I want to beat the world record of 13.6 inches. :mutley:

Mule,

I’ll give you my story, as short as possible.

I started PE about a year ago at 6.75” BP x 5.25” and now I’m at 7.5” BP x 5.875”. I’ve been with my wife for 3 years now so, she ”experienced” the change and she loves it. Before gaining, sex was great and now it’s even better. Before gaining, anal sex was not happening, her poop hole was out of bound and still is. Oral was great, still is but she says her jaw hurts more now. Intercourse was good but it is far better now but I know there is still more room both in length and girth department.

So, yes, I still want to grow but not that much, maybe up to 8” BP x 6.25” or until I see that she cannot handle it no more.

I read all the time here that us guys, should do this for ourselves, not for our gf. That’s ok but I want to add my own little twist to this, for me. Mrs Snoop is happy = Snoop is happy = Snoop grow penis because Snoop wants to be happy. In other words, I do it for me to have an even better sex life. And if one day I reach my goal and see that Mrs Snoop can handle more without pain, I will keep on pullin’.

Cheers.

Like DLD? Lol

Do you guys think it’s men’s competitive nature or a deep seated feeling of inadequacy with regards to what women really desire?

I have a feeling it’s about each guy’s idea about what is “ideal” to women and since we’ve all seen the biggest and fattest dicks in porn bottoming out some petite 5’1” porn actresses to these girls’ delight, we all figure it’s essentially a bottomless pit for a lot of girls. Not only can they handle more than what we have to offer, they will likely enjoy it even more.

Of course I’m only average sized, so it’s obvious why I’m here. I should probably let the big guys speak for themselves. :)

Both. Inadequacies will happen to all but THE MOST self confident, and they prob get thoughts too. And for competitiveness, everyone wants the biggest dick, consciously or subconsciously.

Too funny!

One of these “ideal size” threads popped up a few months ago. I’ll try to find the link. Many of our female members commented. I think it was DW who said that 8x6 is “perfect,” but she wouldn’t want to touch anything over 9”. She said she recognized that she could probably “adjust” to it, but so no reason to and had no desire to.

Once you break the 8” milestone, you take a fairly significant risk that the woman of your dreams simply won’t be able to handle you and will actually take more pleasure in someone smaller.

I remember that… Hehehehehehe:D

:( YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY. A lot of women will be happy with their man NO MATTER WHAT SIZE THEY ARE. Even if you are over 9”, that doesn’t mean you have to use the whole thing. Some guys want large penises whether they can use the whole thing or not.

Excellent thread.