Originally Posted by grx
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Originally Posted by grx
Each person has to define “enough” based on their own circumstances.
That’s why I said “why the quest for larger when you already have enough”, implying that “enough” is determined by the individual.
Originally Posted by grx
Having a dick larger than 8” x 5.5” is not trouble NOR does it equal “less pleasure.”
I said “for most”, not “by definition”. My reasoning is that seeing how most women have a pussy that is about 6” deep, it stands to reason to say that an 8+” will cause discomfort with most women when going balls deep.
I made a typo though that gave room for the misinterpetation. I said: “for most thats looking for trouble. Depending on your partner, you can either say “Goodbye”
What I forgot was the “or”, as in “or you are just plain lucky!” In my case, I’m not lucky since my gf has a pussy that is at best 4” to 5” deep when aroused. She’s asian.
Originally Posted by grx
That size is what many women I know call “comfortably large.”
Then you are simply plain lucky. Except for one woman, all the women that have had sex with, not that many, thought it was already too big.
I’m curious, those women all based this figure on measured dicks they had sex with or was this a “guessestimate”?
Originally Posted by grx
Having a large penis does NOT make sexual relations go “Goodbye” as you put it.
Again, I never said that. I said that having a dick that is too large will downgrade the quality of your sex life, a significant difference.
Originally Posted by grx
Over the years, a friend of mine & I have shared many women. He is over 9” x 6” and NEVER has a woman refused sex with him. A few of the women just stared wide-eyed at first but were all eager to go for a ride! I don’t remember ANY of the women who was not able to suck him or take him vaginally or anally. Heck, a couple of the women were virgins when he had sex with them and it was all up to technique to make things pleasurable.
GRX, I’m not arguing that there aren’t women who can and do enjoy a dick in the 8+” x 5.5+” range, there undoubtedly are, but that for most women that is too much. And this based on the figure that I use that says that on average a pussy is between 5” to 6” deep when aroused.
Originally Posted by grx
I think we need to look at things differently. Making sex pleasurable instead of painful for the woman is your responsibility and the larger the penis, the larger the responsibility. Pain during sex is NOT dependant on penis size. If the technique is wrong, ANY size penis can hurt. As long as the woman is sufficiently sexually aroused AND WILLING TO TRY, she will most likely be able to accomodate the penis size. For larger penises, it will take longer for her to stretch and feel comfortable with the size.
You got a point there. Still, there is a limit, and personally I think that with the vast majority of women we reach that point before reaching the 9” length stat.
Originally Posted by grx
I don’t recall any member here having goals that would make sex with their partner impossible like the statement you make here. Even a rather large penis like 11” x 7” is not too much for a person to handle with enough patience & training.Just look online and you will see women who take guys like Mandingo & Lex Steele all the way orally, vaginally and anally. There are also sites where women can be seen pleasuring themselves with dildos 13” x 9” and bigger vaginally and anally (sorry, too big for the mouth).
I totally disagree. I don’t see how porn is representative of reality. Those girls are paid to put on an act. Pretend to enjoy themselves even when their cevix is banged to pieces and fake an orgasm. Besides, those guys are what? Around 10” and I can’t remember them putting it all in very often. Neither can I say that the blowjobs they get look very appealing; just the head and maybe an inch.
Originally Posted by grx
So all this to say:
1.) Do PE for yourself; it’s the only reason you need.
2.) Make it as big as you want, with proper technique your partner will be able to accomodate your size.
3.) ALWAYS be respectful and patient with your partner until they can accomodate your size without pain. If you are in a permanent relationship and they’re not willing to try, then you may not want to waste your time on PE. If you’re not in a permanent relationship, make it as big as you want and only use what they can handle!
Good advice. Thank you. :)
I don’t think I will be able to not pe, as I said, I’m obsessed with getting what is in my eyes a big dick — I’ll just have to be very careful with my gf.