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Why the quest for larger when you already have enough

I agree with grx.

Where do I begin. I’ve been influenced by hearing females from school and nightclubs and work and tv and personal experiences, and culture, and seeing how a bulge draws female attention. Yes, porn has been an influence too as I’ve watched women take amazing lengths, even petite women, and they were very responsive. I don’t put blow jobs and anal ahead of vaginal.

Originally Posted by ModestoMan
One of these “ideal size” threads popped up a few months ago. I’ll try to find the link. Many of our female members commented. I think it was DW who said that 8x6 is “perfect,” but she wouldn’t want to touch anything over 9”. She said she recognized that she could probably “adjust” to it, but so no reason to and had no desire to.

Once you break the 8” milestone, you take a fairly significant risk that the woman of your dreams simply won’t be able to handle you and will actually take more pleasure in someone smaller.

When reffering to these numbers, are they BP or NBP ? Because I do PE for me, but also for my future partner, wife.

Well, you can always gain weight and increase your fat pad later.


regards, mgus

Taped onto the dashboard of a car at a junkyard, I once found the following: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." The car was crashed.

Primary goal: To have an EQ above average (i.e. streetsmart, compassionate about life and happy) Secondary goal: to make an anagram of my signature denoting how I feel about my gains

Originally Posted by grx
Welcome to Thunder’splace Mule!

Thank!

Originally Posted by grx
Each person has to define “enough” based on their own circumstances.

That’s why I said “why the quest for larger when you already have enough”, implying that “enough” is determined by the individual.

Originally Posted by grx

Having a dick larger than 8” x 5.5” is not trouble NOR does it equal “less pleasure.”

I said “for most”, not “by definition”. My reasoning is that seeing how most women have a pussy that is about 6” deep, it stands to reason to say that an 8+” will cause discomfort with most women when going balls deep.

I made a typo though that gave room for the misinterpetation. I said: “for most thats looking for trouble. Depending on your partner, you can either say “Goodbye”

What I forgot was the “or”, as in “or you are just plain lucky!” In my case, I’m not lucky since my gf has a pussy that is at best 4” to 5” deep when aroused. She’s asian.

Originally Posted by grx
That size is what many women I know call “comfortably large.”

Then you are simply plain lucky. Except for one woman, all the women that have had sex with, not that many, thought it was already too big.

I’m curious, those women all based this figure on measured dicks they had sex with or was this a “guessestimate”?

Originally Posted by grx
Having a large penis does NOT make sexual relations go “Goodbye” as you put it.

Again, I never said that. I said that having a dick that is too large will downgrade the quality of your sex life, a significant difference.

Originally Posted by grx
Over the years, a friend of mine & I have shared many women. He is over 9” x 6” and NEVER has a woman refused sex with him. A few of the women just stared wide-eyed at first but were all eager to go for a ride! I don’t remember ANY of the women who was not able to suck him or take him vaginally or anally. Heck, a couple of the women were virgins when he had sex with them and it was all up to technique to make things pleasurable.

GRX, I’m not arguing that there aren’t women who can and do enjoy a dick in the 8+” x 5.5+” range, there undoubtedly are, but that for most women that is too much. And this based on the figure that I use that says that on average a pussy is between 5” to 6” deep when aroused.

Originally Posted by grx
I think we need to look at things differently. Making sex pleasurable instead of painful for the woman is your responsibility and the larger the penis, the larger the responsibility. Pain during sex is NOT dependant on penis size. If the technique is wrong, ANY size penis can hurt. As long as the woman is sufficiently sexually aroused AND WILLING TO TRY, she will most likely be able to accomodate the penis size. For larger penises, it will take longer for her to stretch and feel comfortable with the size.

You got a point there. Still, there is a limit, and personally I think that with the vast majority of women we reach that point before reaching the 9” length stat.

Originally Posted by grx
I don’t recall any member here having goals that would make sex with their partner impossible like the statement you make here. Even a rather large penis like 11” x 7” is not too much for a person to handle with enough patience & training.

Just look online and you will see women who take guys like Mandingo & Lex Steele all the way orally, vaginally and anally. There are also sites where women can be seen pleasuring themselves with dildos 13” x 9” and bigger vaginally and anally (sorry, too big for the mouth).

I totally disagree. I don’t see how porn is representative of reality. Those girls are paid to put on an act. Pretend to enjoy themselves even when their cevix is banged to pieces and fake an orgasm. Besides, those guys are what? Around 10” and I can’t remember them putting it all in very often. Neither can I say that the blowjobs they get look very appealing; just the head and maybe an inch.

Originally Posted by grx
So all this to say:
1.) Do PE for yourself; it’s the only reason you need.
2.) Make it as big as you want, with proper technique your partner will be able to accomodate your size.
3.) ALWAYS be respectful and patient with your partner until they can accomodate your size without pain. If you are in a permanent relationship and they’re not willing to try, then you may not want to waste your time on PE. If you’re not in a permanent relationship, make it as big as you want and only use what they can handle!

Good advice. Thank you. :)

I don’t think I will be able to not pe, as I said, I’m obsessed with getting what is in my eyes a big dick — I’ll just have to be very careful with my gf.

So, Mule,

Why do YOU want to be bigger? What fantasy is driving your desire to do PE?


Enter your measurements in the PE Database.

Mule,

Do you believe the cul de sac (cds) can be a factor?

Andgrowing, I think there is certainly an element of truth in your theory. It seems to me that a large dick is mainly the obsession of the male, not the other way around. As if to us our dick is if not the main than at least a very important representative of our very manhood.

Do PE for yourself, women shall adapt. You think your 9.5 x 7” penis will compare to that of childbirth?

XL,

Have you ever seen those syringes they use, the spinal anaestetic and the happy gas? Not to mention being sewed up…


regards, mgus

Taped onto the dashboard of a car at a junkyard, I once found the following: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." The car was crashed.

Primary goal: To have an EQ above average (i.e. streetsmart, compassionate about life and happy) Secondary goal: to make an anagram of my signature denoting how I feel about my gains

mgus, don’t get him started. :)

Originally Posted by Mr. Nine
mgus, don’t get him started. :)

Too late! ;)

Originally Posted by mgus
XL,

Have you ever seen those syringes they use, the spinal anaestetic and the happy gas? Not to mention being sewed up…

I was making a point that a woman’s body can adapt to many sizes, small and large. Now being painful or not is a different tale. All women are different, and you will be able to find a girl that will take your 9.5 x 7 dick comfortably.

Mr. Nine,

Put THAT in your pipe and smoke it!

ModestoMan, the idea of having a really big dick, I’m talking Rocco-and-the-likes here, just turns me on. In addition, I can’t say I’m particularly happy with my dick as it is.

I guess it’s like a dream that I want to come true. How many guys haven’t at least fantasised about having a large dick? Wished for it? Simply because they don’t like what they were dealt by nature. Well, I’m one of them. When I see my own dick, I don’t see anything impressive. I see something that to me is just ‘so-so’, and I want to change that into something that I feel good about.

I will have to do some reading on the “cul de sac” before I can reply to that. Will do that later as it’s getting time for bed over here. :)

Originally Posted by beenthere
Mule,

Do you believe the cul de sac (cds) can be a factor?

Do you know how much pain a woman suffers while going through childbirth? Enough to curse her man to hell and be serious about it!

Originally Posted by xlmagnum
Do PE for yourself, women shall adapt. You think your 9.5 x 7” penis will compare to that of childbirth?

Originally Posted by Mule
Do you know how much pain a woman suffers while going through childbirth? Enough to curse her man to hell and be serious about it!

My point wasn’t stressed on whether she’d enjoy it, but rather that she could indeed do it. A baby is much larger than 9.5x7.

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