Originally Posted by pumpedmember
Man it could take a long time depending on your use and reliance on it to get hard, and what it does to your brain as you self-pleasure. For me, it took about 5 weeks or so. I could get hard in a room all alone and masturbate but this anxiety would hit me like brick and I never felt that when I’d self-pleasure with porn on. Around 8 weeks or so I felt like I did in college, over 20 years ago. Now its been like 17 months since I quit porn, or more I don’t count it was March 2021, and while I do rarely look at it or just catch some photos here and there, when I think about being with my wife in any capacity, I start to get hard without touching myself. Last night we spooned in bed before going to sleep and my flaccid was pushed against her nude vulva and my cock started twitching and pulsing uncontrollably, she could feel it, simply said to me “I love your beautiful cock so much” and I grew to full size with it just barely making contact with her. When I watched porn daily this NEVER EVER HAPPENED. I’d have to have more stimulation to even get a semi.

Porn is poison it makes us impotent. I know it does because it happened to me! You have to give it time. Fall in love with your body and cock again, then your cock will fall in love with your wife again all on its own ;)


Thanks for your response. I guess your right. It depends on how frequent I watched it. Week 1 of detox completed.