Size Does Not Matter Because of Female Anatomy but Why Do We Want to Be Bigger!?

All of us want thicker and longer cock . I am 7.5 x 5.5 . but I wish to have a thicker cock.at least 6 inch girth. some times I do wet JELQING with erected penis.I do PE for my own not my wife. why!?
Because I think cock size does not matter for my wife and she can not reach orgasm even by huge size. I do too many search in internet and read too much article about women anatomy and sexology. I want share my knowledge with you to have more discuss about this topic.
Only 15% of all women can reach orgasm solely through penetration. -> by this link : Her Orgasms: 5 Things You Need to Know
WebMD is a Is a reputable medical site.
But what is the reason that some of the women can reach orgasm solely through penetration !?
“The Rule of Thumb” – Women who have less than 2.5 cm (or, the distance from the tip of a thumb to the knuckle) between their clitoris and their vaginal opening are more likely to orgasm from penetration alone.
Only about 25% of women are able to orgasm through vaginal penetration. The Rule of Thumb suggests that this is because of physiology, not psychology! The closer a woman’s clitoris is to her vaginal opening, the more stimulation it receives through penetration. So, neither vaginal nor clitoral orgasms are superior to one another, as a vaginal orgasm is really mostly a clitoral orgasm through a different kind of stimulation!

Maybe some men like me think that cock size is very important for G-Spot stimulation. Especially thicker cock is very important for hit the G-Spot .
But The G-spot certainly exists in some women. However, not all women will find the stimulation of the G-spot pleasurable. Just because a woman is not aroused when the G-area is stimulated, this does not mean she is in any way sexually dysfunctional. Sexuality and arousal have clear physiological and psychological links. But, as human beings, we are all made slightly anatomically and physiologically different.

For example my wife can not reach orgasm by penetration and need direct clit stimulation for orgasm. I want her to have a vaginal orgasm, I want her to cum without direct contact with the clit. But in 4 years after marriage I can not do that with any trick. even with long foreplay and too much penetration. some times she have orgasm in cowgirl(on top) position. which I think because she rub her clit to my pubic bone and abdomen.
In another article I read this from HealthDay News site from Dr. Maureen Whelihan. She’s an obstetrician and gynecologist in West Palm Beach, Fla., and an expert with the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists : "Between 70 percent to 90 percent of women are unable to achieve orgasm with penetration alone, Whelihan said. Of those that claim they can have purely vaginal orgasms, 90 percent of them say they have to be on top, she added. Guess what? When you’re on top, sitting on the partner’s erection and grinding on his abdomen, it’s really not just a vaginal orgasm. You’re rubbing your clitoris on his abdomen or pelvis .Nine out of 10 women in her practice have had an orgasm during their life, Dr Whelihan said, but nearly all needed direct clitoral stimulation to achieve it. What about the G-spot, the erogenous area purported to exist inside the vagina? Autopsies haven’t consistently supported the existence of the G-spot, the evidence review said. A majority of sex experts don’t believe there is such a thing, Dr Whelihan said. According to most of the experts, we believe if the G-spot exists then it only exists in a few women ".
When The ability to have vaginal orgasms is not dependent on sexual technique. It’s dependent on her physiology. And when more than half of all women are unable to have vaginal orgasms, no matter how big her partner, how long he can last, and how well he can screw.
Why we want bigger and thicker cock !?
For me it goes along with improving my body, I workout everything neck down and the penis is part of that so in my head it makes sense to work my penis too .I think Increasing my penis size turns/ turned me on sexually.
I do bodybuilding, and the thought of working out my dick feels no different than the care I take with the rest of my appearance.
But when already I have 7.5x5.5 inch cock and I am big for my wife and she felt pain in some position or rough sex and she can not reach orgasm by penetration and she have climax only by direct clit stimulation. And I don’t want to have many partners and I want have sex only with my wife. And when PE have risk of injuries and need time to do.

*** If you had my position, would you do any PE exercise? !?
*** So for the purpose of motivation, what are some of the reasons you guys are doing PE?

Do PE because if done safe is healthy and fun.

That’s why I do it nowadays at least, size concerns me the least after reaching my goal.

Take her hands away. Try bondage. My wife after almost 20 years of being together always wanted to use clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. I started by taking her hands out of the game. And introducing more foreplay. She has to be totally trusting and submitting. And having an orgasm was taken off the table. The act of sex was just that. Orgasm was a side benefit if it happens. Just some food for thought.

I know from your post that your wife do masturbation simultaneous with you do penetration.

My wife dont touch herself in sex. After my ejaculation i rub her clitoris until climax.

One of the problem with most women is that they don’t take enough time to explore their bodies. My wife is the same way.

Women do not seem to prefer one type of orgasm over another. 🙄 Some women never have orgasm and enjoy sex.

I have stopped worrying about orgasms if they happen great if not it was still a fun exercise. I pass on finishing from time to time. Now it seems as if each time is better than the last. Go figure!

My wife only masturbates her clit, never anything inside her (although the rare times she does penetrate herself, she loves it…go figure?!). But she can have intense and constant multiple orgasms from penetration alone from my cock. Her glans clitoris is pretty damn close to the top of my cock when I’m in her, sometimes it is rubbing on her clit. But, several positions do not make contact and she cums from penetration only, and a lot. There have been plenty of nights where she doesn’t even want foreplay, no clit anything, and just me in her and she’ll cum from just me entering her sometimes, or a few thrusts, not even that fast or deep. And I’m like 5.25” girth. So girth doesn’t equal penetrative orgasms (although 5.25” is not a small girth, at least I don’t think so, my wife can barely get me in her mouth…)

I think she cums so easily because she so madly in love with me! She wants ME, I just happen to have a cock for her, but she cums from me, not just my cock. She never had an orgasm before she met me, and barely made out with guys and the few she had they didn’t ever touch her or even successfully penetrate her. I gave her her first orgasm, and then she started masturbating and learned a whole lot out about herself!
She cums from anything, even just tweaking one nipple midday randomly, she’ll cum from it. She spends good time masturbating herself, knows exactly what she likes and how to make it happen on her own, and has “3rd eye” orgasms on her own quite a lot.

I know anatomy has a part in all of this. But honestly, I think the more crazy she is for the man, the more likely she is to cum from almost anything. She’s gotta be hot for it! I know girth stimulates the opening and the internal housing of the clitoris. But I’m convinced that not all women are designed to cum from internal penetration. Maybe they have a clit for a reason, then? To still cum even if they can’t internally? I’ve always wondered this. I teach human evolution in college classes so, yah its something on my mind!

I just think big dicks look cool. I’m sure porn has “warped” my perspective some.

My wife prefer a cheap (2 dollar) Vibrator to my cock ! She can reach intensive orgasm from vibrator or by my hand that rub her clit.She even prefer clit stimulation to G-Spot stimualtion.Some times I do “come here” technique with my hand for gspot stimulation but she don’t like fingering and she say only rub my clit i don’t like fingering.Most time I don’t do fingering and if I do that only use one finger for enter her vagina.

There is atleast 6cm between the tip of my thumb and my knuckle.

I don’t understand why you are tripping. She’s having orgasms. With you, with you and a toy, by herself with just a toy. You’ve created a problem in your mind, that somehow the orgasms she’s having aren’t the “right kind” or something. Neither you, nor her, are going without sex, or without orgasms. You should count yourself lucky, and be grateful. Why are you so fixated on the idea she needs to experience penetrative orgasms? Maybe she will, maybe she never will. You have created this problem, out of thin air. It’s in your head, and of no real substance. At all. You are not going to ever change anyone’s physiology, nor can you change their psychology. So drop it. It is unhealthy, and unnecessary. Go have fun.

I know that my wife physiology is not bad in all aspect. Because she don’t need big cock or good stamina for reach orgasm. She only need one finger for clit stimulation to have intense orgasm.cock size for my wife is not important and i do PE just for fun and for my ego!

But if you have my situation would you do any PE exercise?

I’m in your situation. My girlfriend comes from penetration only but as you wrote before there is some clitoris stimulation in most positions anyway even if you don’t use fingers or toys. And like your girl is in love whit you my girl is really in love in me witch I think plays a big part.

But I enjoy PE and it is good for EQ as well when doing it in decent amount. I don’t do it for hours or every day but I hope some small gains still is out there. I doubt I ever will reach 8x6 but that’s ok. Most important is EQ.

So my answer is YES!

Is there a reason for giving us this information?

I don’t think i would stop PE if i were in your position , i do PE for myself and divorces are a reality of life for a lot of people so don’t stop for the sake of one women , if its something that makes you feel better about yourself continue on .

I do high erected wet Jelq 15 to 20 minute in week for only girth increase. I know 20 minute Jelqing is not enough for gain girth. But girth size is not my first priority in my life.I hope some small gains still is out there. I doubt I ever will reach 6 inch but that’s ok.And i think my leg or chest excercise in week is not more than 30 minute in week. Then i don’t think that cock size is more important than chest muscle or leg or bicept muscle.Every one can saw my muscles but only my wife can see my dick and cock size for her is not important !