Size doesn't matter, but bigger is better

First off I would like to thank ThundersPlace.org and it’s awesome community for providing me with so much information about PE and it’s effectiveness, your ups and downs and twists and turns, I have read so much here and this is my first post!

If I had not found this website through so many internet searches, I would have abandoned my dream of a bigger penis.

Sice my teen years I had always worried that my penis was small, not so much in length but mostly in thickness. Today I am 22 with a 7.0 in. BPEL (6.5 NBPEL) x 4.2 in. EG penis.

I haven’t gotten into the routine of a steady PE workout yet, though when I do I try and stick to the newbie routine (although I’ll admit I have thrown in the occasional Uli squeezes and 440’s) and haven’t seen much of a difference besides my penis feeling a little heavier when erect or flaccid. I haven’t seen a difference when measuring with a string or tape either.

The first time I had sex was very difficult due to my feelings of having a small penis. I’m assuming most of us have seen porn as teenagers via the internet or some porn video we came across, and have seen the thick and long dongs that made the pornstar moan and groan. This I think is a huge factor in some of our feelings of inadequacy regarding the size of our package, though these days I know when it somes to porn, the bigger it is the sweeter the eye candy (at least to the producers?) which in turn makes us think that every other man has a bigger penis than we do.

Moving on though (I know this post is going in all sorts of directions, at least to me it seems it does) I have been with my current girlfriend for about 3 years now and our sex is great, even from the start. 90% of the time I get her off before I get off. She doesn’t even feel as tight as other women I have been with and yet I can get her off. Maybe it’s because I know her sweet spots? I don’t know, but long before I lost my virginity I thought that I could never please a woman with my thin penis and I have proved myself wrong (I’m pretty sure I give her orgasms due to the clenching her vagina makes before she tires out from release).

I guess what it comes down to is that a bigger penis is really eye candy for us and her. I’ve read that the majority of women like a thick penis over a thinner one, but what about the thinner smaller one that does just as good of a job?

Someone has gotta do a Pepsi Coke test with smaller and larger penises!

Anyways, I am still going to try and work towards a thicker penis, even just for the eye candy, or even better, more sensation for her if thats what it will provide.

Even if I don’t gain a fraction of an inch, I think I will be fine.

I’d like to see what some of the community here thinks about size vs performance.

Thanks for reading!

LOL, you’ll find about a thousand other threads on your topic :D This is a penis size forum, you know!

My general take on your question is that yes, for most women, a larger penis provides more sexual pleasure, all else equal, BUT the vast majority of variation in women’s sexual responses is not due to your cock size — or, really, anything to do with you — but rather, their own physiology and psychology. It sounds like you have a woman who cums easily — lucky you!! That is terrific, and you might find that she cums even more as you grow your penis, but just remember that there are other women out there whom you would NOT be able to make cum with your dick alone (or, perhaps, through any means), no matter how large you were. PE for your own ego satisfaction — do it until you feel good sexual self-confidence — but realize that as long as you have decent erection quality, don’t have premature ejaculation problems, and have a skilled tongue, 90% of the variation in a woman’s sexual response is going to be about her, not about you.

This topic has been beaten to death. If you want to hear an opinion from someone who matters, some women, check out this link . I just read through it all today and gave me some insight what type of penis women desire and their take on sexual performance. (Reading their posts will confirm what you already know but it’s still entertaining).

I read the discussion thread on size and it is an entertaining read; BUT, it also provides more proof (if any more were needed) that women know shit when it comes to estimating dick size.

This about "women are genetically incapable to measure".

So many women claiming to have husband above 8", not to mention the diffused idea that 7" is average. :)

My favourite:

Only?
:D

seems fishy

you notice almost EVERY woman on there had a boyfriend that’s 7+ many 9 inchers? Comon, what are the odds?

If you ask me, half of those posts are men posing as women. Just my opinion.

You hit it right on the spot. I’ve done a lot of reading and talked to many women, and I’ve come to the conclusion that sex will be great if
1)you have a very good emotional connection with her
2)you know what you are doing, including good foreplay, know how to give oral sex, good sex positions, etc.
3)and finally, you must have SOME size. You don’t even have to be average, but if you’re less than 4 inches, there’s not much you can do.

Anything more than 5 inches or so is just a bonus!

Not fishy at all, just another example of a group of women who lack the ability to guesstimate penis size. Why would a man go through the trouble of posting hundreds or thousands of times just to mask themselves as a woman to gain access to an women only thread to post an insignificant opinion. The truth is that those were a bunch of women lacking the ability to judge penis size. Which is fine, because I suck at judging breast cup sizes :D ! This is a website for strippers and they have been around more cocks than most people, so I don’t doubt that they have encountered a monster cock at sometime in their lives / careers.

The point of posting that link was that women have greatly varying tastes when it comes to men. Summary of what I read in this thread:

1. Women sensationalize penis size when they gossip amongst each other, but in bed they want a man with girth, stamina, and the skill to put it down.
2. Many women do not need anything more than six inches to get off, which is more than enough. Several times I read that they were visually stimulated by the size of a big penis but that they could do more with six or seven inches.
3. If your penis is less than six inches long, date a small girl, they don't like donkey dicks. Even if she had one in the past she will be much more happier with your 5.5x5.
4. GUYS LIE TO WOMEN ABOUT THEIR PENIS SIZE, what a surprise! That is all they have to go off of. If a woman rides a 6.5 inch dick and the guy tells her he is 8, then the bloke who is a true 8 now has a TEN INCH MONSTER COCK.
5. If you’re anywhere between a thick five inches and seven inches you are fine if you stay away from girls with big coochies.

There was one post that stuck out to me:

The in betweens varied depending on skill. Right now I'm really liking a very attentive 6 incher.”

I don’t believe it is fair for us to expect a woman to know the difference between 6.25 inches and 7.5 inches in a moment of excitement and arousal. They’re going to get it wrong 97% of the time; just let them have their fun and gossip.

Would you be mad if a woman made the mistake of calling your Mercedes a BMW? My girlfriends friends’ and female relatives do it all the time. If they see a guy with a nice car it’s automatically a BMW, and if a guy is in an average sedan its automatically a Honda. I just laugh it off and I do the same when women talk about penis size. They’re judging based on experience if the dick was nice it was big, if the car was nice it’s a BMW. If she says she saw a nine incher that just tells me its bigger than what she has seen before.

It defies common sense that there are all these giant dicks in one thread about dick size. Clearly not a representative sample by any means. 11? 12? We’ve never seen one yet in dick stretching land, where guys obsessed with dick size go. There’s none in porn, where big dicks naturally gravitate. LPSG doesn’t have any. And yet stripperweb has them? Surely we can all agree to take these kinds of reports, such as they are, with about a pound of salt.

Just like other times we’ve had this discussion I think it comes down to exaggeration and flawed measurement. 9 is probably really 7.5, while 8NBP can probably account for the 10, 11, and 12 inchers referred to. If there really were a lot of 9NBP dicks running around surely we’d have some here on ThundersPlace out of 100K+ members?

We actually do Fantom. Just not much. What in the world does a nine incher need to do on a dick enlargment site?

if this were true, then most of those women would be saying they’re not sure of exact measurments and they would be saying things like “average”, “small” medium”, “large, “thin” and “thick”. Instead they were all definitively specific about 7 inches, 8.5 inches etc…

Why would a man spend and hour squeezing, pulling and stretching his dick every day for years just to gain an inch of length? Don’t underestimate the diversity of wacky things that people participate in and get off on in our culture.

Seems like 90% of them likes the 7 incher.

This is true, but the fact that they all have significant others that are at minimum 7 inches says that either every study ever done that says the average erect penis is 5-6 inches is wrong and/or all strippers place penis size at the top of their list when settling on a man, and they all like them 7 inches or bigger.

Also, the fact that this is a forum for strippers makes be feel that it is even more likely that guys would pose as women in these forums to penetrate the conversations of women they pay to watch.

Yeah my wife the other day said that she thought I was 8 or 9 inches long!!! She said that I have a long dick.

I’m only 7.75” BP. And she’s seen my dick for about 7 years.

biggerbone, are you trying to pick a bone with me? I’m joking, but why are you trying to argue with me about how to interpret a silly thread about “favorite penis sizes”; which we can assume most women would respond, “long & thick please”.

The thread included a survey poll where they were given choices of specific measurements (5”, 6”, 7”, etc.) not broad generalizations (average, small, thick, etc.). Therefore they responded with specific measurements. Now if the poll choices had been general descriptions of penis size many women would have probably gone on about how they like their men to have a long and thick members instead of giving specific measurements. Some women even admitted that they did not know exactly how big their biggest was and that they were guessing.

Why, because a man has something of significance to gain! A larger penis and reinforced confidence, or whatever it may be is something many men would sacrifice time and effort for. I do not find PE wacky at all. I find it uplifting that we are in control of our penis size, to a reasonable extent.

So, are you telling me a man has just as much to gain from one insignificant post in a thread for women? There very may well have been some men in there posing as women, but lets be real, the thread is not some hoax conjured up by some wacky men penetrate the conversations of other women and trick them into picking 7 inches as their minimum.

No, 35.88% claimed they liked 7 inchers the best, check the poll results please. I believe I said “varying tastes when it comes to men”, why are you getting hung up on penis length? I am talking about the overall sexual experience which is not directly linked to how long your penis is. You did not read where they spoke about how girth was the real difference maker when it came to getting them off?

Really? All of them said them minimum seven inches? The studies you speak of are accurate to a certain degree, many of these women just have an inaccurate perception of size.

Okay I give up - they were all guys.

mckmas8808 you’re packing dude, might as well call it an even 8 :D . Just goes to show that “big” is subjective.

This thread is not a study, it is a glimpse into what a conversation between women might sound like if the topic of favorite penis size came up. In no way does it reflect the true penis size spectrum. Like Fantom said this report of penis sizes is worthless and not a representative sample.