Psychological aspect of penis size, help!

I don’t think you can generalize - some women like larger and some prefer smaller. All things being “equal”, except penis size, it will depend entirely on her individual physiology. Some women find larger penises painful or uncomfortable so smaller will suit them better. Others are more accommodating. It’s a bit like asking “Which are better - large shoes or small shoes?”

lil1 :lep:

Good point lil.

Although I do think the women who prefer average to below average are in the minority. I think you could generalize about what the majority of women prefer, which is what I was refering to. All things being equal the majority of women prefer a man with an above average sized penis.

During my time at university, a friend of mine and his girlfriend were into swinging. He arranged most of their meetings through one of the many swinging websites on the net. Out of curiosity, I asked him if I could use his password to log into the site to see what kind of adverts were there.

Because this was a pay site (and quite expensive too), the people advertising were obviously serious, and were posting genuine adverts.

I did a quick check, and in just over 80% of the adverts, it was specified that the guy “should be VWE”, “should be VVVWE”, “should be at least 8 inches”, etc.

Obviously these are people looking for SEX, not RELATIONSHIPS. But it showed pretty conclusively that all things being equal, like Nman said, the statistical majority of women would indeed prefer a larger one.

Also, interesting to note that the ads all specified length, but not one of them specified a thick girth.

I do believe if given a mere choice a woman would prefer larger over smaller than average. But it’s a relative thing for the most part. The majority of those prefering larger would likely mean that to be ‘a bit larger’ not ‘horsehung larger, scrape out my uterus’ larger.

The thing that basically gives a woman more pleasure is her own intense feelings towards a man, unless this is a situation where it’s pure sex for the sake of one’s own sensations. Which I am not even going to comment on. Increase how much she cares for you and you generally increase the possible pleasure she derives from sex. Assuming there aren’t psychological blocks in place for her in the bedroom. Now that’s a entire other FORUM!!!

So I wanna be a bit bigger for the ability to reach deep, a bit more girth for that ‘fuller’ feel, and that’s about it. I’ve got alot of other things to develop about myself and I’ll say this: taking this past week off PE for rest and due to a scheduling situation has awakened me to how much of my daily life has been devoted to PE (hanging = 3 total hours a day, hanging + break time) and how much it’s draining time from other activities. I am not bitching about it, but it makes me honestly look forward to completing my ‘growth’ phase of PE, getting into a mere maintenance routine and getting on with life. The goal is worth the sacrifice, but there is just so much to do other than PE!

Damn, i’ve been snubbed! Yeah I guess you’re right, ya can’t generalize. Man, if them swingers want 8 inchers I better get to crackin’. Best just pull out my Super Mega Firemans Hose Pump 5000 and pump me out one of them 12 inchers they promise. Bwahahahaha! In all seriousness you’re right, it all boils down to personal prefrence.

You feel the way you do because you have seen bigger penises at the Y , in the gym etc. and you reason that if you have such a great feeling with yours, imagine how much greater it would be with a bigger one.( AND IT IS!!!!!!)

So now that you have found out about this- do something about it! You can and you will, be happy you did.In one year , I have grown 2 inches in length and 1 and one half inches in girth , and it IS better and does feel deeper and greater and squeezier and , oh hell! Go for it man!

Whoa, 2” length and 1+” girth?!? Dude was that just hand exersizes or using a stretcher device? Now that’s my kinda gains!

I second that. Great work!

Its final now.

I have just lost THE love of my life. I have one of the biggest “ones” on this whole
board.

Guys, it’s irrelevant in real relationships. Irrelevant.

I was specifically referring to sexual pleasure and nothing else.

I sorry to hear that, I hope you are doing OK.

There were some guys talking about what women want and if they prefered a big dick or a small dick. Has anyone wondered what size do you think women think is big? If they are women they don’t have a penis or chance to measured it and most of them doesn’t even care how big or small is it as long as they are cumming. I think we need more girl’s opinions in here.

Most girls IMO often over-react to a penis which is on the big side of average i.e 7x5.

I reckon if you asked 100 women what the size of this 7x5 dick was, nearly all of them would report bigger than what it really is.

-I think long, slightly thin dicks are over exaggerated.

I agree, as with anything it’s all perception. A 7x5 will look longer than a 7x6.

Some time ago in another thread I asked anna nimity to answer the folloeing question:

anna nimity

Her reply is just a few posts down:

luvdadus

Longer, yes, but no where near as intimidating, I assure you.