PE in a dorm

What is the best way to pe in a dorm? My roommate will be gone most of the weekends. I’ve had to stop my peing because I didnt have the time or privacy. This will be the biggest time that I will have to myself. I can’t do my warmups with a wash cloth because the sinks arent close to the showers & there isnt a shower with really hot water. Can anyone give me advice on my problems. Is there any other way how to do my warmup without using a washcloth? Or is it better to jelq without warming up? I need help on figuring out how to pe without being caught or noticed by anyone including my roommate.

Nataki, are you allowed a small microwave in your dorm room? If so, you can use the Rice Sox method for warm-ups and warm-downs.

If not, are you allowed to have an electric hot plate or electric tea kettle or coffee pot? If so, you could then have warm water for your wash cloth.

If these are not allowed, then you can purchase one of the small electric heating pads (you can get them in sizes like 6”x9”) which are small enough to use on your unit.

Do you have closed shower stalls, or ones with a curtain? You can do stretches and jelqs while in the shower. You say you don’t have really hot water in the shower, but you don’t need really hot water. You need it to be just warm enough to loosen things up. You can do this every day, as long as you don’t take so long in the shower that you call attention to it.

I hope you can work thing out. But if not, look forward to the weekends!

Yes. Never look at your situation as a “problem”, only a challenge to be overcome.

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GM

Good Advice! :thumbs:

Idk if he will moniter your time spent in the shower, but i used to go in the shower, let the water warm me up for 3 to 5 minutes, then do the workouts, you will need lotion unless the water is enough.

PE in the shower with less of a warm up if need be. Your roomate might give you shit saying you’re jacking it, but its worth it if you can’t do it otherwise. I can find plenty of time for stretches, and I have to be sneaky when I put on my lead weights, but its not too bad for me. Good luck planning it all out.

I agree with the heating pad which works great for me

And you will be surprised at the exercises you can do under the sheets unnoticed

Pumping may be a different story but when there is a will there is a way

Trust me I’ve been keeping this a secret for a while now

This sorta relates to a ? I have always had..

How many others out there are closet pumpers ?

Boy, isn’t that the truth! During that time of the month, my wife never wanted to have sex, so to relieve myself I would slowly, rub myself until
I had an orgasm, which I did in a sock. since I was in the same bed with her I couldn’t do a normal jerk-off. She said she never knew I was doing it.

And, nataki, in a bed by yourself (unless they are bunk beds), it would be easy to at least do stretches and maybe even some jelqs, if you were very quiet and discreet about it and your roommate was maybe asleep.

I remember when I was at university, we put a bed on each side of the room, and then divided the room with our desks and chest of drawers. The two chests were placed next to each other in the middle, facing opposite ways, and the two desks on each end of the chests, again facing opposite ways. My roommates mother came up with this idea and also an idea of having two curtains, one on each side of the “divide” that could be pulled across one side (or the other, or both for that matter) to give a bit more privacy. It was very good since it kept the study lamps from keeping the other awake at night if one of us had to study late. It worked really well. Of course it will depend on the size and shape of the room. We were fortunate to have a fairly large room and even had two lounge chairs, and a sofa for those occasional dates when we could smuggle them in the dorm.

Closet pumper? A definite YES! Only one person, not with Thunders, knows about my pumping. I want to keep that a definite secret.

Heh, nataki and wookseekerhow about completing your PE Statistics and Routine.

Nataki, don’t jelq without warmup, except maybe in very hot weather. The difference is huge.

Great suggestions from Panos. Add, could you fill a hot-water bottle in the bathroom and bring it to your room, or just a small bucket or dipper of hot water to use with a washcloth?

Hot water bottle is a good idea.

Thanks guys. There are a lot of good ideas. My room is small. We do have beds on the opposite sides of the room. I can jelq & stretch in my bed, & do kegels any time (one of my favorites). I found out that there is one shower that does have hot water that last for a awhile. No one is ever in the showers at the same time as I am so I can warm up & jelq in there. Would it be bad if you couldn’t warm down? Where can I get a rice sox or can you make one? I don’t have much money. I could put my stats in, but I didnt measure girth when I started. I didnt know how to. & Now I don’t have anything to measure myself with. I want to post my pics up, but I feel kind of weird having other people seeing me naked. Oh well.

I’m not saying that I would never discuss pumping (or PE in general) outside of Thunder’s, but it doesn’t seem likely.

Society generally views PE as impossible.
"Grow your penis’ spam is the object of common derision.
Pumping is something that comic characters (such as Austin Powers) do.

So, there’s a lot of misinformation and misconceptions about PE and pumping out there, which would have to be overcome if you were ever going to have a serious discussion about the subject with anyone. The societal ‘party line’ is that you should learn to be satisfied with what you have, so anyone who doesn’t accept that status quo must have some kind of unhealthy fixation on the subject. The same is true of foreskin restoration, and for some of the same reasons.

Could that change? Perhaps. I always thought that a series like Sex in the City had the potential to do an episode where someone in the cast (chances are it would be Samantha) had a positive experience with someone who did PE. Perhaps in the Sex in the City movie …

Well, my friend, in my opinion both warm-ups and warm-downs are extremely important! The heat helps limber up the tissues before you stretch and jelq, and the heat afterwards helps in the healing process. When you stretch and jelq, you are basically breaking-down the tissue so they can regenerate. The warm-downs help in that regeneration and the healing of the tissues.

If you don’t have a microwave, then you will not be able to use a rice sox.
A rice sox is just that, a white cotton sox filled with rice which you warm in a microwave oven.

Take one of your old cotton sox (not one with holes in it) :) , fill it with raw rice but not Uncle Ben’s or any of the par-boiled, partially cooked rice. Tie a knot in the end (top) of the sox and you have a “rice sox.” Don\’t fill the sox too full, maybe about 1/2 full or less so that the rice will spread out and lay flat with a thickness of about 1/2” or less. Lay the rice sox flat in the microwave and heat on high for about 30 seconds. Turn over and heat it again for about 30 seconds. Watch it carefully! Such short periods of heating will be no problem, but watch it carefully since you don’t want it to get so hot that it will catch fire. By the way, you can use this rice sox over, and over, and over again. I have been using the same one now for about 3 months.

I then take the warm rice sox out and roll it in a cotton hand towel (mine are 14” x 28” hand towels) and let it sit for about a minute or two to warm the towel. Un-roll it a bit. I find that lying down on the sofa or the bed it best to do the warm-ups and warm-downs. Wrap the towel/rice sox around your dick and warm it for about 5 to 10 minutes. I just watch TV to pass the time. If it cools off, then just unwrap the towel a bit until you get a new warm spot again and continue.
NOTE:
1) I use the towel around the rice sox just to keep from getting any possible burns. Sometimes when just using the rice sox alone, it can get a bit too hot for the sensitive skin of the penis. It also helps keep the rice sox warm for a longer time.
2) In the warm-downs, since the sox is not filled too full, you can wrap the towel wrapped rice sox around your dick, and do some “massaging” of your dick through it. This is especially useful to keep from being sore afterwards and certainly must be good for the health of your dick.

There is another way that I warm-up and warm-down. I bought a Playtex Insulated Sipping Baby Bottle in the drugstore for about $2.99 and use it with the screw off sipping top removed. Since it is insulated (like a thermos bottle), it will keep the liquid that you put in it cold or warm for upwards of 45 minutes to an hour. I fill it with warm water and then stick my dick inside, tip it up hard against the pubic bone and hold it there for about 5 to 10 minutes to warm things up. Have a towel nearby just in case you leak some water every once in a while. It is a wonderful feeling and does a really good job of warming-up and warming-down. When not in use you just put the sipping top back on and it is then difficult to spill anything.

Regarding measuring, you can get a wooden or plastic school ruler (for measuring LENGTH only) in any drugstore for about 79 cents. You can also get a cloth or soft plastic MEASURING TAPE for measuring GIRTH, at any drugstore or department store (in the areal where they have thread, needles, etc) for about $1.00. Not expensive items at all.

nataki, it really is a good thing to enter you measurements (both erect and flaccid) so that you can keep a record of you progress and gains. So, try to get the ruler and tape as soon as possible and start keeping records. As far as pics, I am way to bashful to do that myself, but who knows, someday I may get the nerve to show them. I have taken pics for my own viewing and records, so that I can “see” the actual progress along with the stats. I think it is a good thing to do.

I hope this has been helpful. Keep pulling that dick and one day you will reach your dream goals.

Thanks guys. You are really helpful! Ill try some of these things soon. I do have a microwave. Ill have to go home & get a few things so I can do this stuff. Thanks for everything guys. Yuns give me confidence to PE!

That’s great if you will have a microwave in your dorm room. That makes a rice sox simple. Don’t forget, DO NOT use anything but RAW RICE in your rice sox.

Figurinig out how to PE while living in a dorm is always a problem. Others might learn something from your experiences. Be sure to share with them.

Let us know how it turns out.