Mental aspect of a pe routine.
Hi, before I get into my question, let me introduce myself to the board as I’m fairly new.
I’ve been a lurker, I guess you could call it, for a few years now. It’s incredible I’ve been looking at pe boards for a long time now and haven’t posted more then a handful of times. I do a little pe experimenting here and there, but I’ve yet to really jump headfirst into a pe routine. I just could never get myself into it, but I’ve always come to these boards because it gave me such an incredible amount of knowledge as far as sexual health, self confidence, and just so many other things. I seriously believe that all males should have access to the knowledge that is being held on these boards by so many members and threads. It’s amazing how much you can learn just from the experiences and knowledge of others. Anyway, here’s a little background on myself and why I looked into pe before I get into my question.
I guess I started off a little late as far as sex, so I was always very worried about how the opposite sex would view my penis size. I’m a 6’2, young black male, who’s heavily influenced by the whole hiphop culture, so you know the perception most females would have of my penis size. Most people call me a pretty boy, and I’ve never had to much of a problem with the ladies. My insecurities with penis size however kept me from getting to far with most females I ever dealt with though until my current girlfriend came along. We’ve been together for a year and a half, and things have gone great. She was my first and has been my only so far, and we’ve had a very healthy sex life which has had a very positive influence on my confidence. I attribute my healthy sex life to the knowledge I learned off of this board and other pe boards, which allowed me to look past my penis size and know I can still pleasure a women without having a small raft sticking from out my pants. At first I was skeptical if I was truly pleasing her like she said, but I never brought up the issue to her. It wasn’t until one of her friends hit on me off the strength of the things my girlfriend was saying about me, that I knew I was truly pleasing her. After that my self confidence shot up.
The only problem now is I’ve had a hard time getting myself mentally in tune with a pe routine. I start off and commit, at the longest, a week to a routine. It is just very hard to get myself to consistently start a routine. Pe, is not life or death to me, but it’s always had the option to improve on my penis and I want to act on it. I’ve always told myself, your sex life is great now, just imagine if you started pe when you first learned about it. I’d be damn near unstoppable.
I just want to know what advice do you guys have in mentally preparing yourself for the start of a pe routine? Wether you’ve been at it for 3 years or 3 weeks, I’m just curious to know how you mentally prepared yourself to start a routine. I know some did it easier then others, but any advice you have would be greatly appreciated.
Sorry for the long drawn out post also. I guess I have 3 years worth of pe posts and replies inside of me.
And to anyone who’s curious, my starting measurements are
6.5” erect nbp length
Not the biggest but not the smallest.