Newbie progress, hooray

Hello, guys!

I have been a TP reader for quite a while now and messed with PE a slight bit about two years ago. However, I wasn’t really consistent with it and eventually stopped. I restarted PE in May 2009 and just measured for the first time. And let’s just say I’m pretty damn excited to see progress!

I started with approximately 5.5” BPEL x 4.375” MSEG (give or take a bit on both because my measurements were not as accurate as my latest). As of July 09, 2009, I am 6” BPEL x 4.675” MSEG! I was not expecting that much of an increase at all in less than two months but I must say that I am not disappointed one bit :)

My current routine is a modified Newbie Routine with 15-20 minutes of jelqing. After each 5 minutes of jelqing, I throw in a Horse 440 (at least I believe that is what it’s called - I make a reverse “ok” grip at the base of my shaft using my thumb and index finger and hold for 8 seconds, then add my middle finger and repeat until I am at my pinky. I then slowly release this and continue jelqing). As far as my stretching goes I just do the regular Newbie Routine with the “Mandingo stretch” recently added. I have been on a slightly erratic schedule that I would like to make more consistent, but it is generally 2 days on and 1 day off.

I am pretty excited about my gains and have become even more motivated now that I have seen progress. I will continue using my routine, adding stretches and jelq-related exercises every once in a while. In the meantime, there are a few size-unrelated things that I need some advice on though.

EQ to PONR ratio: I find that I have my hardest erection when I am the most “on edge” which definitely sucks when it comes to sex. I look down and I am rock hard but I can’t rail out my partner like I want to because I would cum in an instant :/ I have been kegelling for a long time now and while it HAS helped in EQ I haven’t really noticed any change in the time it takes me to cum. I don’t have a set kegelling routine, but I do these throughout the day:

1x30 second hold
10x5 second holds
5x10 second holds

I recently began squeezing as hard as possible while doing this but I haven’t been doing that for long enough to show any change.

Any advice on how to prolong intercourse/keep away from the PONR for as long as possible while being rock hard? That would be MUCH appreciated, as well as any constructive criticism on my routine/pictures/etc.

Thanks in advance :)

That’s great!

Experience is the only thing that will give a substantial aid in prolonging intercourse, I’m afraid of.

Unfortunately that hasn’t helped thus far :/

Maybe edging can help?

I think a lot of guys assume what you see guys doing in porn is what they should do too. The truth is, most girls can not take that kind of hard fucking. Only if a girl is really horny will she honestly want that but she’ll still be sore after.

Personally, I could fuck for an hour or more if my wife is in the mood (and the kids leave us alone). But the first part is all about her. By keeping you dick in all the way and using slow griding, you rub her clit with your pelvic bone. This also gives you time to “connect” - suck her boobs, nibble her ear, etc. Then, after her mind blowing orgasm (since you spent so much time on her), she’ll let you have your way! Then you can choose how to blow your load and you’ll probably be pretty close to doing so.

I understand the difference between porn sex and real sex. My current partner likes me to fuck her pretty hard though. I can do this in the morning/when I’m a bit tipsy/after we’ve had sex many days in succession because it takes me much longer to climax. However, if there have been a few days between sessions I find myself rock hard but ready to cum very quickly. I have recently began edging, so hopefully this will provide some benefit to intercourse. I am thinking of purchasing a Fleshlight to edge with since it is exponentially more vagina-like than my hand and I don’t really like masturbating with lube.

One of my goals is to eventually become multi-orgasmic through strengthening of the BC muscle, but every time I feel like I have successfully held off my ejaculate via kegel it seems to come out anyway and my erection subsides quite a bit. I guess practice makes perfect, eh?

I haven’t PE’d in over a month but I have become multi-orgrasmic which is awesome! However, I seem to lose a bit of my EQ for several minutes after I orgasm and hold my ejaculate via strong kegel. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to counteract this?

Thanks for any help!