For me a big flaccid is a good thing. I will probably never feel a 100 % comfortable with strangers seeing my dick but if they see it I rather have a big then a small one. For example, when I get out of the pool and the wet fabric is stuck to my skin and everyone can see my dick I rather have a big flaccid showing then a small one. Even thou a big flaccid can draw more attention, which sometimes I don’t feel comfortable with.
In a locker room I also rather have a big then a small flaccid. And there are other situations, where there sometimes can be woman present. In a sauna for example, rather have a big flaccid then and draw attention from the ladies.
Some men expose them self nude to women often, at nude beaches etc. I got a GF now and I’m not even sure any other women will see my dick again, soft or hard so the only thing that should matter is the erect size but flaccid matters. My GF loves my flaccid dick and she often comment on the size and it turns her on and that can get me laid. So my flaccid dick can help my erect dick get laid. So even thou I am in a relationship flaccid size does matter to me. It would matter allot more if I was single.
I understand why allot of people don’t care about there flaccid dicks, it’s erect when you use it.
Women like big dicks, big flaccid dicks and big hard dicks. If they see a big flaccid they will think it’s big erect so a big flaccid can help you get laid, don’t need to be nude for it either. A big bulge can give you an advantage. And I have heard women saying they love a big soft dick, fun to play with and make it hard. But in the end, it’s erect when it’s side her so yes, I understand why some don’t care at all about it.
But I’m starting to think more and more, it’s just a dick, who cares. And that’s dangerous, it’s hard to stay motivated with that attitude. It’s not just a dick, people do care, I need to make it bigger - that’s what I should be thinking.