Locker Room Today

For me a big flaccid is a good thing. I will probably never feel a 100 % comfortable with strangers seeing my dick but if they see it I rather have a big then a small one. For example, when I get out of the pool and the wet fabric is stuck to my skin and everyone can see my dick I rather have a big flaccid showing then a small one. Even thou a big flaccid can draw more attention, which sometimes I don’t feel comfortable with.

In a locker room I also rather have a big then a small flaccid. And there are other situations, where there sometimes can be woman present. In a sauna for example, rather have a big flaccid then and draw attention from the ladies.

Some men expose them self nude to women often, at nude beaches etc. I got a GF now and I’m not even sure any other women will see my dick again, soft or hard so the only thing that should matter is the erect size but flaccid matters. My GF loves my flaccid dick and she often comment on the size and it turns her on and that can get me laid. So my flaccid dick can help my erect dick get laid. So even thou I am in a relationship flaccid size does matter to me. It would matter allot more if I was single.

I understand why allot of people don’t care about there flaccid dicks, it’s erect when you use it.

Women like big dicks, big flaccid dicks and big hard dicks. If they see a big flaccid they will think it’s big erect so a big flaccid can help you get laid, don’t need to be nude for it either. A big bulge can give you an advantage. And I have heard women saying they love a big soft dick, fun to play with and make it hard. But in the end, it’s erect when it’s side her so yes, I understand why some don’t care at all about it.

But I’m starting to think more and more, it’s just a dick, who cares. And that’s dangerous, it’s hard to stay motivated with that attitude. It’s not just a dick, people do care, I need to make it bigger - that’s what I should be thinking.

This is your nudist lifestyle speaking, BG ;) By the time a woman sees my dick, it is always at full erection, unless I’m overly drunk or anxious, in which case it probably won’t be getting hard no matter what.

After slaying that pussy with a big erection it feels good to walk around with a big, proud flaccid. I would hate to have to hide my flaccid after were done fvcking. I like to let it all hang out whenever possible, especially after sex!

Totally agree with you, Big Girtha !

Girth rules, girth gives the bulge, the mass, the bounce when walking !

Even though a lot of people (?) know about the growers vs showers thing, I still don’t think it’s something that’s at the forefront of most people’s mind when they see a dick. (Or a bulge for that matter) When they see a small or average flaccid, they think “small dick” or “average dick”, they probably don’t think “Well, it’s only a flaccid so it doesn’t mean anything.” Well, it’s basically just a hunch that I have, but it’s one of the reasons I want a consistently decent sized flaccid.

Just to add to that, I think outside of the PE world, when most guys see a flaccid in the locker rooms, they don’t register ‘totally flaccid’ v ‘somewhat fluffed’. They just think ‘big’ ‘average’ or ‘small’. So fluff it guys, if you want it on show, or if you feel small. That may not work so well for the some very much younger guys who start to ‘lift’ as soon as any blood gets into it. :)

They’re probably thinking, “How big is he going to be after puberty hits?!?”

I jest, I jest.:)

:rolling:

Nice.

Soft, hard, what does it matter? All of our partners have seen and had bigger. And when we are gone they will continue to have bigger.

I’m just in a bad head space. I think my GF is moving on after a very volatile long time with me. I’m probably better for it but I love her and it hurts. And of course I assume there is someone else. Life sucks then you die. And in the end the size of my cock is of no redeeming value in terms of keeping her head over heels for me. That’s a key statement. Dick size in a LTR means jack shit.

Exactly. Most women judge men by their flaccid, with very little regard as to how big it gets when it’s hard, especially at nudist camps, but other places as well. With the exception of PG :leftie: most guys don’t stay bone hard all the time. Usually the first time a New woman sees your dick it is going to be semi at best; it may get hard quick, but first impressions carry a lot. Women look at bulges: (Flaccid.) Women look at men in nude scenes in movies (Flaccid) Just out of bed, or the pool or hot tub, at the gym, (Flaccid.) On the beach (Flaccid) The only time a man wears a hardon 24/7 is at PG’s house and in porn.

In the world of porn you will NEVER see a flaccid dick unless it is some vintage classics from the 70s and those are getting as rare as pubic hair. Women judge us by how we hang, and then in a lot of cases compare us mentally to the guys in porn, because those are the dicks that are always hard. I doubt any woman looks at a porn star sporting a huge erection and thinks to herself, “I wonder how he looks flaccid.” I think this is why there is such a misconception among women as to what is real big, average or small.

Men do this too, but we should know better.

I don’t believe most women or even most men understand the shower-grower concept.

I was reading an article the other day where a guy talks about how he has a slightly below average penis. And is a grower, with a 2 or 3 inch flaccid.

He talked about dating a woman once and making sure he was never completely flaccid in front of her when naked. He would always fluff, but without the appearance of being hard.

To make a long story short. her interpretation was “You have a big dick”. She bragged to her friends that he had a big dick. Even though he was below average when hard, she still thought of him as having a big dick because he was sporting a big flaccid around her.

Woman are really bad at estimating the size of a hard dick. If they see a huge flaccid they think that the erection is huge also. Women have seen my flaccid and told me my dick is to big. And others have reacted in a very positive way.

I think there is a bit of a psychological issue at play here as well. If a woman sees you standing there with a huge flaccid hang, they make their minds up that you are big, so when you actually fuck them they think you feel bigger than you really are.

There’s this one young lady I see on occasion. She is very small and was a virgin the first time we fucked. My first and last virgin, I might add. The first time she saw me I was sporting a post faux girth that was swelled into what looked like a 7X8 inch hang. We all know that extra inch of girth was nothing but lymphatic edema, but I was watching her eyes when she first saw it. She simply declined, saying basically there was no way that thing would fit inside her. After we finally got around to consummating the relationship, months later, she just simply could Not take it, in fact I’ve never been able to fuck her well because of her apprehension of being ripped apart.

I’ve felt tighter pussies and I really believe she would be able to take me balls deep if she would just relax, but even more-so if she hadn’t seen that first swollen flaccid. In her mind I have been pigeonholed as being too big to fuck without pain.

It’d be interesting to start a Poll thread here about whether men are typically hard or soft the first time a woman sees them naked. Probably because of porn, as you said, I always figured that if I weren’t fully hard by the time a woman takes my pants off (which I typically am, thankfully), I’d be perceived as impotent or something. If I’m wrong about this, it would definitely make me feel more at ease!