To the vets reading this I apologize for repeating myself, the following is for the New guys.
This whole flaccid size v/s erect size (Locker room aesthetics) has come up a gazillion times in many different threads over the years, and I’ve always held the same opinion. About 99 percent of the time anyone, and I do mean Anyone lays eyes on your dick the first time, it is going to be flaccid, semi erect at best.
This is what we are judged by, no matter how much bigger you get hard, the thing the ladies remember and talk about to their girlfriends is, how big that snake looked the first time you whipped it out. Women don’t go to bed with rulers and most of them can’t tell the difference of an inch or two in length by feel. Erect length is a guy thing; women are more impressed by a big flaccid hang.
I can certainly understand how some guys, like Saiyan or Titleist might feel differently. I’ve seen their dicks, and they are both showers and most likely have been all their lives. Both these guys are very fit, and have probably never been fat or had the thick fat-pad some of us have had to deal with.
After years of abusing my dick with PE and rough sex, I finally have a really nice hang. Before I started PE I had no visible dick at all when it was flaccid; it was a total Innie.
Here’s a good example that I’ve written about in several threads years ago. My urologist (A very attractive lady) use to actually have to pull my dick out of the fat pad with her fingers to examine it. Now when I drop my underwear it just flops out, and she more than anyone has been impressed with the flaccid gains I’ve made.
That kind of exposure is priceless to me. I was very fat then 330 pounds, and now at 190 pounds I have very little body fat, so I’m sure that counts for a lot of it, but what I think it really is that made the difference is simply the total penile volume or Mass we gain with aggressive PE, especially clamping and/or pumping.
Now my flaccid dick is just too heavy and fat to hide in the little bit of a fat pad I have. As far as Saiyan’s choice, I’d go with the first choice. Quite honestly I think the size erection we all covet (Mandingo) would almost be useless in bed.
I’m only 7X7 hard with an 8” base, and about 8-1/2 mid-shaft, and my flaccid is almost the same size, maybe not quite 8” at the base until I’m rock hard. Even at this size, which I don’t really call huge, I’m having trouble finding women who can or will take me balls deep, at least not when we engage in the kind of rough pounding I enjoy. So an 8” base is actually a bit of a problem for a lot of women. For me, an erection can actually get too big, but a flaccid dick can never be too big, the longer the better.
A 7X7 flaccid looks great in the locker room or at nudist resorts, especially just out of the hot tub, or for that first glance a woman gets in a new relationship. First impressions carry a lot of weight. This is why flaccid size is more important to me.