Keep working on it, you are getting it right. Try to tighten the muscles in between your bum hole and your base, as if trying to make your dick “lift” as well.
But it just takes time to figure out which muscles is which.
regards, mgus Taped onto the dashboard of a car at a junkyard, I once found the following: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." The car was crashed.
Primary goal: To have an EQ above average (i.e. streetsmart, compassionate about life and happy) Secondary goal: to make an anagram of my signature denoting how I feel about my gains