I need help with ejaculation control ...
Ok, so it’s not premature ejaculation exactly … but since I’m cumming before I want to … IT IS for me.
I can have sex (and often do) for hours, with my ex wife the longest Ive gone was 6 hours without myself cumming and only a few breaks in between. currently “official” sex last about 40 - 60 min …
What is happening to me is: I find it nearly impossible to keep myself from cumming when my fiance has a vaginal orgasm, her whole life (I was told, hope its true) her orgasms have been clitoral, even with me for the first 2 years, but then a break through happened in my technique and I’m able to get her to cum, she moans and shakes in such a way that even though I didn’t feel like cumming I’m suddenly so turned on that I pop!
I’ve told her not to moan, I’ve told her not to tell me shes cumming, but she cant stop the quivering or convulsions so I cum, It’s horrible too because once she cums shes a multiple, one after another after another, I’ve managed to last through the first one but then the immediate next one is too much for me to bear and I cum right with her, she doesn’t mind BUT I DO! I would be a world class STUD if I could just keep going and get her to cum until she passes out or begs me to stop, I do anyway we are up to 12 but that’s using the ole’ “lick and stick” method I use stimulating her clitoris. STRICTLY vaginal intercourse is a whole other and new feeling she said and its MUCH stronger so Its the preferred method now for both of us, but I have this problem.
I’m doing the “lick and stick” for the initial few orgasms then the patented super secret new motion for the grand finale so we can both cum together but I hate not having that control, I feel like such a puss!
Do you think hypno-therapy will work? how can I get desensitized to HER cumming, btw my ex wife used to cum and it didn’t faze me, but she wasn’t a multiple like my girl now is. like most my problems this is strictly mental. please advise …