I need help with ejaculation control ...

It seems to me that “she” (her actions) is responsible for your orgasms. I mean, she decides when you ejaculate. Obviously you gave her control. So, if you have no control (no responsibility = no control), you will not be able to last/stand “her super orgasm”, because you’ve already made your decision.

As long as you choose to magnify her behavior (super mega orgasm), you won’t have control over your body (unless you change in “machine”, learn how to become multi orgasmic, or stop behave like a “puss” – your word by the way).

Of course the simplest solution is to choose, that you want to give her more pleasure no matter of your urge to finish, so you will regain responsibility.

There is just one condition. Stop being “puss”.

PS I see some good advice for lasting longer so I hope you at least learn how to use those simple tricks.

Good advice, female sexuality’s yin or surrendering and receptive while male sexuality’s yang or dominating/controlling and penetrating. If she’s making you come it would help to adopt a more responsible, dominating, controlling attitude. For instance have the thought and attitude of, “I come when I want to, you can’t make me come”.

I’ve read Levitra helps against premature ejaculation (it was tried in some study in France I think where it was tested vs zoloft, and it worked even better than zoloft). Never tried myself though.

I’m not a great believer in alternative medicine (and I consider PE to be quite direct and to-the-point, not alternative), yet I’ve used hypnotherapy in the past for a different matter and found it quite effective. It was for an anxiety issue that always cropped up at a certain time. I don’t know if it was the hypnotism or the placebo effect, but it worked.

One tip, though: schedule a good-sized block of sessions (at least 5). It takes a few sessions for it to “take.”