Bi-sexual questionTestosterone related

I am sorry to hear that you were suffering from low Test levels but I am glad that you have iron things out and sorted it out.

My thoughts exactly, imagine T being the fuel that goes into a your BMW when it has no fuel it is not going anywhere however when
fuelled it will do what BMW do and will take you where you need to be as BMW will do.

However putting fuel into your BMW is not going to turn it into a Aston Martin.

You need not apologise for your sexuality we exercise a tolerant policy to and for all.

Thank you, that was very supportve.. I did have sex with another man and enjoyed it a lot and crave more sex with men.. I believe when I trustted wife to be faithful to me when I became very ill and she lied to my face it hurt my sexual thoughts towards womans. I know that may sound unfair to all woman but The one I trusted the most broke my heart so badly and now she’s bagging and pleading for it back because I’m working great and look great.. I feel bitterness and will heal in time surely but as of now, I love everything about a man and never felt this way b4.. I want everything usually woman want from men sexually.. I find myself becoming so hot lately towards them I’m wanting to do whatever kind of kinky sex or multiples just to enjoy.. I havent yet but with one man but looking and seeking men.. I’m actually scared of myself sexually at the moment as I just can’t wait to have a lot of sex with men.. Can one become a sex addict out of anger with testosterone abnormalities.? I’m very confident yet not.lol.thanks again for ur opinions.. By the way guy above made good point about all men compairing and I think thats normal but I have gone to extremes now. Big change for me

I got kick out of this.. Big smiles.lol.. We have had sex and I fucked her brains out and it’s the best she’s ever had.. Lol.. But as for trust I was pissed still.. I starting enjoying what I used to as a younger man.. Attraction towards men and went with it and love it better. She’s been going non stop crazy but I’m not doing this to be mean as we r seperated just she broke the ties and frankly I’m not letting anyone do that to me again.. I have had several woman hit on me aswell and I was thinking of trying it out again but men again have been very powerful to me.lol go figure.

You can have her buddy.lol.. Hey man.. First a tranny wouldn’t turn me on.but get the point man thanks

Wow great things said in here everyone.. THank you for your help.. I guess heres maybe another thing to throw in.. When I was teenager I had extreme issues with guys then grew out of it for most the way and loved sex with woman.. Then got married and really gave myself to her until I became very ill and she really screwed up.. I have always been still attracted to good looking guys and nice dicks but never had problems with wifes female anatomy.. Now I really don’t like it and love guys. Weird id say but hell I’m still enjoying my sex drive and my bods best it’s ever been not to metion orgasms.. Lol thanks again.

Thank you again for ur kind words that does help with my confidence.

Good to see you got out of the trap man,male or female no one should put up with that. Life is too short, I’m straight but if guys are where it’s at for you have fun man to each their own. Good luck and good gains.

Let it work,
“I have found one special man thats very sweet and I don’t want to just mess around like most gays do.
Any tips on divorce? Lol.. Thanks again”

I have never gone through divorce. I have gone through break ups however, those are nasty, stressful, unfun. I can only imagine that a divorce would be even more so because lawyers are involved. All I can say is I hope you find better days after everything is finished. I know a number of people who have gone through divorce. Amazingly, one person said he is actually friends with his ex wife, and there is a level of honesty afterwards that was never there before. But its not the same, and they could never be back together again.

I don’t know if most gay men just want to mess around. I don’t want to knock that either, as its an option for some reguardless of orientation. I sometimes think that I would like to try women sometime, but there are all these rules, emotional involvement, expectations I don’t comprehend. I also have a hard time thinking it would be exciting because I was brought up to believe family life was your moral obligation.

First of all, ty for responses to everyone again. Sorry I havent respoded tell now as comp was broken..
Anyway, What everyone is saying makes a lot of sense actually.
I have to say to your last response here man about my self image if I discovered I had bi tendencies and the challenge for me and my self perception really hit me hard right in the chest..
Ok, I have always been basically passive in life. Part of the reason I also didn’t want to be back with wife was the fact I’m growing up! I’m tired of saying sorry every few minutes or her trampling on me as a door mat. I admit, I brought this on myself as I didn’t set those boundrys as young man. However, she has even admitted to me she took advantage of the fact I would still be there no matter what and pretty much that I would blame it all on myself.
Ok, as of today, we r considered together again. I want to make it work as I have 3 young ones aswell and want to keep fam together. I’m noticing though that She said to me she wouldn’t sign papers for divorce and she loves me now more than ever. I started feeling the guilt but also do love her in someways but noticed again, I have become fearful that if I didn’t stay with her what everyone would say about me living gay life.
What the heck is wrong with me?lol.. No really, I’m wanting to be a man, mature and just say yes or no but it’s really not that easy. I do find myself more attracted to Men and their bodies. Noticed that catching myself fantasizing of doing things or them me with men sexually. When she wants oral sex, I force myself now to give it and I go limp right away and feel horible about it.
I think I’m finding that stress is probaly a key role right now in my ability sexually with anything.
Any advice men on maybe what I should do? I want to do right and be good man but what is right?

Honestly I think this story is fake. I have seen this same scenario on so many forums. Here comes a guy who sucked someones cock out of who knows what reason, and he liked it. But he “isn’t” gay. Hey we should all try sucking cock, we might end up liking it.

A lot of twisted people on the internet, very interesting.

That’s the ultimate neg on a woman. Divorcing her to date a guy. Epic!

Hey let_it_work, try to break up your longer posts into paragraphs. It’s a lot easier to read that way!

I have been married for almost 10 years but as far as I can remember I had this attraction to guys

Plenty of our members that NOW self identify as gay have lived this as well.

since testosterone is back in me wouldn't you think I would like just woman?

What do you think the T levels in young, fit, buffed up gay guys is like? Testosterone levels have nothing to do with sexual orientation.

Sometimes I guess I feel very manly and I look hot but then other times I just love guys bodies and get turned on by a good looking one and almost can't control my thoughts

Sounds like you have bought into some Republican-Christian version of what manly is. Some of the butchest guys I know are happily paired off with other manly men.

I actually ended up at one point hooking up with a guy and wow it was fantastic all around EMOTIONALLY AS WELL

Seriously? Wake up and smell the lack of perfume and feminine hygiene products in your future.

Does that mean I'm Bi?

Given your level of denial and the difficulty you have objectively looking at your self? Yes, yes it does. Baby steps my friend.

I’m sorry you feel this story is fake but it’s not.. However looking back at this stuff and what others say really brings to perspective. The more I think about this stuff the more drama I cause for myself.lol. In other words bigi82, thank you for ur willingness to be straight forward.

Time to grow up and just make decision and deal with it.

I agree, thank you!