Bi-sexual questionTestosterone related

Iamaru, That was the best message ever received man. Thankyou.
I have to say, The republican christian version of whats manly really does have an influence on what a man ought to be. I do have to say on the other hand, I’m 31 and a MAN. It’s quite embarrassing as I’m handling this very childish but then again, it’s hard as we all want to do right. I know some incredible men that you would never know they were gay.
Maybe I’m having a tuff time due to the fact that I hate to have my family break apart just to enjoy ensure my own happiness.

Please correct me if I’m wrong but would you say it’s better to make it work for the kids sake or just let go? I also want them to see me happy and there Mommy. I will always care for her but we r so different together. She’s a very bitter woman and day to day, the tension drains me. I let her talk and I just move on but finding out maybe this isn’t the way to deal with this.
I guess all can be done is just that, baby steps. Learn day by day by the mistakes made and grow from there.

Down right for me, my answer is simple. I grew up with incredible troubles checking men out and masturbating to thoughts of them. I believe I’v always been gay but never wanted to acknowledge it. I do have to say though, when I experienced woman sexually, I always washed myself very quickly after sex. The only 1 I enjoyed sexually was my current wife. At the time she came on to me in a way that made me comfortable and very erotic.
I could have simply been satisfied with her all my life but she truly broke my heart. When I became ill, she searched somewhere else and defiantly lied to my face and even cried with me and said she acted it out. I know now why it’s so hard for me to find that attraction again with her.

Thanks for comments, end of this chapter.lol.

LIW, I have two friends who have struggled with this issue. Both are Christian, by the way.

One friend is attracted to men but he’s married with a child. At one point he left his wife and went into the lifestyle, but felt it was wrong and went back to his wife. They’ve been married over 30 years.

The other was married with kids and came out of the closet. He’s now actively gay with a long term gay partner and is a minister.

Should you wish to talk to either of these two for support, PM me and I’ll ask them if they’d mind. But I think you need to speak with someone who can empathize with what you’re going through, Thunder’s might not be the best place for that.

Keep in touch!

Get your prolactin levels checked.

When I came out I got a lot of support from a friend’s parents who were members of PFLAG. That is an extraordinary organization and I am certain they can connect you with support groups or materials that are helpful while you figure out what you want from your life. Look for a local chapter online.

let_it_work,

I sent you a PM.

I can assure you beyond any uncertain doubt that low testesteroe DOES NOT make a guy bisexual or have any effect on sexual orientation. You’re bi because your bi and nothing else.

If this was the case any time a gay guy took steroids he’d turn straight!! Testosteronecand sexual orientation are totally unrelated.

I thought I was gay so I got a boyfriend 5 year from now but still feel like I want a woman. Masturbate thinking in a woman have all the time fantasy with women and men. But Relation ships with a man is a nightmare. I payed a prostitute a moth ago the experience was very nice. After 5 year with no woman.

I went to therapy the doctor says you are bisexual

If you are with a man you will want to have a woman.

If you are with a woman you will want to have a man.

My recommendation If you really feel bisexual stay with your wife.

There are no rules when it comes to defining yourself, to yourself.

Because of their limiting nature, when we put on a label, there always tends to be a gap that the label does not cover about who you are.

You could say, “I am Bi.”, or you could say, “I am not limited by gender as it is socially defined today, when it comes to sex.”

There is a very big difference between the two statements. One is an absolute definition, whilst the other is an attribute of your greater self.

The absolute definitions (labels), are meant for the consumption of others who then feel permitted to perceive you as the label.

When you literally describe yourself as your literal self, the only thing that can be described as absolute about yourself is your complete inability to describe yourself in absolute terms.

So in essence one way of self description caters to others in simplistic terms and is socially accepted (or not), whilst the other way caters to your own sense of self honesty and that what you really are cannot be contained in words.

You love who you love. There are no peer-reviewed scientific studies to back sexuality having links to hormone levels. It sounds like you are BI since you are sexually attracted to both genders and that is totally cool! I am a little jealous as a straight man as you can enjoy either men or women and I only have women haha.