Originally Posted by bassman70
I’ve got to say that I’ve had those conversations with my wife. She’s had 20 to 25 partners(from what she’s said). She claimed that the best sex was with the guy that was supposedly the biggest. She claims that he wasn’t too much bigger than me. Of course I’m supposed to be the best now, so he’s second best lol. I will admit that he was a tall and muscular guy with good looks, and she said he lasted over a 1/2 hour straight up intercourse. I guess that helps. I’m 7” nbpel, and she’s only 5 ft tall, but she’s got big childbearing hips, and she’s got a large vagina. I’ve put a true 8 1/2 x 6 1/2 in her doggy(dildo), and there wasn’t one wince of pain. Part of me wanted to find a 10 x7 to mess with, and the other half wanted to hit my dick with a hammer.
Man, I still don’t get why us guys “want” to know this shit. Because, we really don’t. Imagining my wife with anyone else, whether he was bigger, smaller, shorter, or taller does ZERO to enhance our relationship, and how I feel about her.
Once love entered the picture, at least for me, all of the ghosts in my head created by those “open” conversations, made me wonder if I was/am good enough. Call it evolutionary psychology, call it jealousy, but I don’t need to know that shit.
But, absolutely, in my humble opinion, women add an inch to length,………at least, because their ex’s told them so, or they measured the UNDERSIDE, and at least .5 of an inch in girth. (oops, “width”, cause they don’t measure around the dick.)
Finally, once a woman has had kids, pretty much all bets are off IMHO. What she felt as an 18 year old was “big”, is probably not big anymore in reality. Ultimately, I PE to make me feel good and sexually energized, AND to get to a point where it feels like the first time. It may not happen, but I am one persistent son of a bitch. (really)
Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.