A newbie to a newbie
Hello fellow PE newbs, I’m writing both to relate and to enlighten.
First off, I’ve been doing extensive research on everything from penis exercises, pills, pumps, and phalloplasty (funny how all penis related enhancements begin with “p”). I have scoured forums (including Thunders place), web articles, and medical sites regarding these various methods. As of now, I have come to some conclusions I would like to share with my fellow newbs who may not have already figured this out.
1) Pills simply don’t work. No, actually I have never tried them, but after doing some basic study on the physiology and anatomy of the penis, PLUS the lack of medical explanation from the pill companies, it’s easy to conclude that they are bogus. Even more so, is the lack of genuine testimonials that would back up these claims. Furthermore, the pills exaggerate gains, that in itself should draw a red flag. From what I gather, these pills do more to get you horny and hard than to truly enlarge you, so it’s simply an illusion.
2) Penis exercises seem to be mixed. Considering the idea of stretching and traction as having being demonstrated on other parts of the body (ear lobes, neck, etc), it is conceivable that the penile tissue is capable of the same process. But the stretching, and other forms of weight/traction are not for everyone, and can cause serious harm to your penis if done incorrectly or excessively. Jelqing shows a lot of promise (primarily from this website/forum), but it is one of the fields of PE that I’m not as familiar with yet. It seems all in all that penile exercises DO in fact work, but require caution, patience, and commitment.
3) Pumps, these are devices that I have actually used. Remarkably, they do get your penis larger, and almost instantly. The first time I saw my penis inflate like a balloon I was thrilled.but the thrill was short lived and, according to the penis pump’s manual, I would have to commit to at least 10 months of pump action. The negatives for pumping are that, if done incorrectly can cause injury to your penis (ruptured blood vessels), and it’s easy for this to happen because of the delight we all have in seeing our penises grow.
4) Phalloplasty, or penis surgery, seems to be the most permanent solution, yet the most risky. Keep in mind, vast research must be done to find the right doctor, scheduling and costs have to be considered, and you should never forget that it is still your precious penis that will be going under the knife. With every pleasure, you have trade offs. If you are willing to spend $5000 and up, you can eventually come home with a noticeably larger penis. However, due to the risks of surgery, everything from retraction (losing gains), to infection are serious possibilities.
Now that I have shared with you my descriptions of the 4 realms of penis enlargement, I want to note some conclusions: PILLS DON’T WORK, pumping is for true but temporary results, penis exercises DO WORK with TIME AND PATIENCE, and Phalloplasty is the most PERMANENT yet RISKIEST option. With this being said, I, for myself, have concluded that I will rely on stretches and traction for length gains and phalloplasty for girth gains.
I consider my size to be on the “skinny” end. I’m about 5” max erect, but 3’5” circumference at shaft. I want to, at the very least, obtain the “average” size, so that I can at least answer with honesty “I’m average.” That would mean I would need to gain 1 inch in length via stretching & penis exercises (very realistic), and as much girth as my penis skin will let me have for phalloplasty (hopefully achieve a gain of 1 1/2 inches, or more, circumference, this is somewhat realistic). Now as for the type of phalloplasty, that is something I am still currently researching.
I am, in fact, a good lover, and I’ve learned smaller guys have mastered the art of foreplay and nipple/clitoris stimulation. I can have her cum in minutes if I spend about the same time in minutes warming her up through passionate kissing and sucking. However, I feel that girth is still essential, it’s not only to please her even more, but so that I can actually feel like I’m filling her more. It sucks when you go to an adult shop and see that the only thing that closely resembles your cock is a mini training-butt plug, bah. Well at least I can offer women an incentive, lose your anal virginity to me because I won’t hurt ya! Yea..
Anyways, I will wrap this up by saying that I want to keep in touch with all you newbies who are getting into this PE thing Summer of ‘08, we’ll consider it a generational thing. I want to hear about your ideas, goals, activities, and results. I plan to share mine, photos when I get them. A penis, especially in modern American society/media, can be for some, the difference between a happy and unhappy life, and I wish that were not true. And though my current lover appreciates me for who I am (and I am ever so grateful), there is no reason I should not take it upon myself to do whatever I can in my ability to improve my physical being.