A Little Perspective on Penis Size

So I see some pretty absurd shit in here about people with above average length/girth or both panicking about how small they are. But I totally understand. We live in a big dick society, where big dicks are praised and small dicks are exiled. We’re surrounded by porn so our image of reality is just plain wrong. I’m here to bring everybody back down to earth. I hope your interplanetary travels were fun. Now it’s time to come home.

My dick is about 4.5” EL, and 4.31” EG. This is small. The smallest of all my friends. I RARELY ever see smaller. This is a real concern. I have a member that is literally unable to bring many women to orgasm. You know your penis is small when instead of people encouraging you with, “Your dick is fine, it’s just how you use it”, people are saying, “Try experimenting with toys”. That sucks. It’s hard to feel like a man when you know this fact. It’s hard to be confident or have self-esteem. Every girl you encounter you assume you will disappoint and if she does sleep with you will end in regret and thinking about her ex. But this post is not meant to be a sob story. I struggle with a lot of things in life, but I am a happy, optimistic person.

Next time you’re worried about your size, ask yourself this:

If I use my penis well, can it satisfy women?

If the answer is yes, breakdown onto your knees in tears with your hands up to God saying, “Thank you, thank you God.” You are blessed. Don’t compare yourself to the guy on this forum with great results. Don’t compare yourself to guys in porn. Don’t compare yourself to the hypothetical dick that you heard a girl wish she had. You shouldn’t compare yourself to anyone in any regard. Try to relax and look at life from this perspective. It can be easy to take something you’ve had your entire life for granted. Instead of thinking about what you don’t have, start thinking about what is good, that you do have.

Because if you don’t, I’ll show up to your house in the middle of the night and chop off your dick and put it over mine. I’m dark like that.

Sorry to hear your story, but you have very achievable goals in my opinion. Your goal size is 1.75” short of my starting BPEL, but I can tell you with my 2” fatpad I was 5.5” by 4.75” Erect, and I satisfied many women with that size so fret not. You’re not too far from being a size that I know was able to please at least 100 girls before I started PE’ing.

Keep your chin up and PE on.

Best of luck on your endeavor.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. This is just good all around advice!

Best of luck on meeting your goals, thanks again for sharing!

Great perspective and outlook.

As for your PE goals, definitely attainable. Just keep up with consistency and safety precautions, and you will get there.

Thanks for sharing.
Great goals, they are obtainable.

Ask for help if needed, read ThoughtfulGolds threads and advice… and don’t take any measurements more then once every couple of months.

Keep that great positive attitude, it will serve you well with your PE journey.

I started out not much bigger than you, and I know what you mean. The good news is that it seems like little guys like us tend to make very noticeable gains. I did, and I hope you will too.

Would you do me a favor and enter your measurements into the PE database? I have this idea that lots of my little brothers here don’t post their stats, and that skews the averages.

You’re a winner my friend. Happy gaining!

I was very similar to your measures when I started.

All I can say it that you must keep focused and don’t rush things.

I believe that 5.5x4.75 is totally able to satisfy a woman. I’m not too irrational when it comes to that. I would be ecstatic for that size. I don’t want to complain too much but I just past the 90 day mark and still no gains. I have been sticking to the newbie routine and getting worried I’m a hard gainer, or maybe I cant do the exercises as well because of my size. Or the blood doesn’t stay in my dick because it’s so close to the base, lol. I don’t even know how it all works! I know I need to take it slow and not go crazy, and I’m willing to put in the time, but I’m worried about gains being tough for me.

Thanks a lot for your friendly comment. I hope my post brightened your day a bit!

You think? 90 days in and still no gains. I am definitely being safe and taking it slow. All my PIs are solid, if not better than before PE. I’d love to reach my goals in 12 months time but that seems near impossible. At this point I’m just trying to see any amount of gains. Should I be worried it might take longer for me than most people? If even possible at all?

Are substantial gains (I.E. my goal) attainable for everyone? Or do some people just not gain?

Thanks for the advice, I will check him out. I am going to stay positive despite all my negative comments. I really just want more information. :)

Can you tell me your before/after stats and also how long you’ve been doing PE? I’m hoping to make some gains. I’m 90 days in, committed, and 0 gains. Where were you at 90 days in? How do I enter in my stats to the PE database? I am not ashamed of posting about my size. I will happily do it.

Thanks for taking the time to comment. Means a lot. Good luck to you. Stay consistent and reach your goals! Never give up!

Jesus Christ you made some serious fucking length gains! Good for you man. Please can you answer me these:

What were your measurements after 3 months?
What were your measurements after 6 months?
What were your measurements after 12 months?
What routines did you do and when?

I am definitely not rushing. I got a little antsy about a month ago where I ramped up my jelqs to like 17 minutes and manual stretches to about 10 min, to try to speed up the process. But after posting about it and getting a negative response, I went right back to the normal amount of time (newbie routine). I only did that for about a week though. But early on I was jelquing with 100% erections sometimes, taking some days off (on trips), had overall bad form. So hopefully that plus my overtraining are why I haven’t seen any gains. Any advice is greatly appreciated.