A few questions specific to this newbie.
So I started PE a while ago and then quit. My story is that I am waiting to have sex until I’m married but mess around quite a bit doing whatever else.
Since my first experiences with girls they’ve told me I’m not small and bigger than average (at age 14). But over the last 5 years (I’m 24 now) I feel like I’ve gotten significantly smaller without gaining much weight. I’m the same height I was in eighth grade and vividly remember it being almost at my belly button in high school. Now it is not that close at around 6” after starting jelqing 3 days ago and not real thick. I’m definitely a grower/shrinker: If I run in the winter it disappears if I take a hot shower it drops down quite a bit.
Reason to start again: New girlfriend and I were having a nice make out session when it switched to her pleasuring me, she got frustrated and said “It just never gets any bigger.” Earlier in the day she told me how she had a boyfriend that was just huge and I think she might have had sex with him. So I feel like I want to get bigger to try and guarantee pleasure.
I have a very vertical penis when erect. There is a lot of tension trying to pull it down, enough that she doesn’t like giving head from below and would rather lay on my stomach. It feels better when it is more horizontal or even facing down and personally I think it gets bigger. For a starter routine I am doing the jelqing every other day and some stretching. I also am considering the vacextender. Would weights be a better option given the vertical nature of things? Is there anything different to try because of the vertical state of things?