Went to the std clinic last wednesday. I have NSU

Which they tell me means nonspecific urethral infection. The gohnorea and syphilus tests came back negative, I get the chlamydia test back wednesday. The woman said it could just be some random bacteria, but that it IS an std. So does this mean i picked it up from a girl? If so I’m pretty sure I got it at the start of the spring semester, around january 10 or so. I got tested in november and the results came back all negative, but they didn’t swab my dick like they did this time, just had me pee in a cup.

Anyways, my problem is… I started seeing this new girl a couple of weeks ago. She gave me a blowjob about a week before I went to the clinic. Since then we haven’t done anything, I’ve gone down on her a couple times, but her period started saturday and I’ve weezled my way out of getting blowjobs ever since I’ve been to the clinic. I’m wondering what the likelyhood is that she has the bacteria now and is gonna give it back to me? She only went down on me a couple of minutes and got tired before I came. I’m on some form of penacillin that I will be done with wednesday afternoon. I don’t know how much longer I can turn down blowjobs, saturday night I just told I was so drunk I would probably never get off(which was true) but its gonna look bad if i continue doing this.

She’s 20 and has been with 2 other guys so I’m not sure if she has anything. She says she’s not having sex anymore till she gets a ring on her finger, she quit having sex 2 years ago. I think she mentioned that she’s gonna go get tested pretty soon, I really don’t want to tell her I have anything if I can help it though. She was already upset that I have been with 7 other girls. Should I wait till she gets tested before I let her give me any more blowjobs?

Honesty is the best policy. You’ll both be happier if there are no secrets.

Well, If I had been to the clinic before I met her and had already taken the antibiotics, I wouldn’t need to tell her would I?

What are the chances that she got the bacteria from one blowjob?

Also, how soon will the antibiotics have killed off the bacteria? They said 1 week, but is it possible it could be more or less time?

I have gotten a urethral infection 2 or 3 times in the last 6 or 7 years. The first one I got, I was with only one girl and I used condoms EVERY time. It had nothing to do with the girl. Doctors might say it is an STD but I think that it is just because it happens to be in your penis, not where you have been sticking it. If it has to do with your penis or vagina or whatever, out comes the guilt, every time. Some people are just prone to it urethral infections. Take your pills and you will be back on the road in no time!

I’ve taken 11 of the 14 pills. I’m really struggling, she’s trying to get me to come over right now… Guess I’d be stupid to not wait till I’ve taken the last pill, or is it possible i’m not contagious now. If its just some random bacteria, is it much threat to her ?

Doc told me that when you stop having symptoms(leakage, itchiness etc.) , you are ready to blow, um…I mean go.

That aside, just take her out for a nice time- you don’t have to bang it. Or come up with an excuse like you are going in to get a sperm count tomorrow and you have to hold your load.

I believe the truth is in order, you can get an infection in many ways it doesn’t have to be sexually transmitted. Doesn’t she deserve the truth? You would risk her health? She SHOULD be thankful that you are telling her. If not right away, eventually. Good luck.

Have to say I agree. Let her know- but do it while you are taking her out so she knows you are not only interested in sex, but you like her personality as well.

By the way, how was the swabbing? I have never had it done but, Damn, sounds painful!

felt like someone was running a knife through my penis. Once it was over it didn’t hurt anymore only a second. I wouldn’t let it keep me from getting tested, not painful enough to not do.

about telling her, I want to wait until hiv comes back, it takes 2 weeks. Hate for her to worry about it until i can tell her for sure it was only the bacterial.

I believe in being honest, I’m an honest person. I’m thinking if she gets tested soon, and doesn’t have anything, why bother letting her blow things out of proportion? I’m in college and I can see her telling all of her friends, and before you know it, my whole social circle, and then some, will think I have herpes or worse.

“I have a urinary tract infection and I don’t want to pass any bacteria to you. Let’s wait until the antibiotics do their job.”

How is that going to ruin your reputation?

Agreed. You should probably tell her. Or at least avoid her until the antibiotics do their thing. But telling her is probably better. She should know if she is swallowing diseased jizz.

That’s an STI. Not an STD.

Because people don’t always take things as they are, if I told her I found this out at an std clinic, she may not believe its just a “urinary tract infection”. Even if she does, she’d probably tell her roommate/best friend who might not. I don’t know what I would think if she told me that.

I haven’t had any symptoms, it’s definitely not gonorrhea or syphilis because those tests have come back, so does that make sense its just a random infection? If so how could I have gotten it other than sex? Also what would happen if she did get the bacteria when she gave me a blowjob 2 weeks ago?

I’m taking the last pill this afternoon, so I assume the infection is taken care of.

I’ve heard of too many people that have been pretty much ruined sexually because of stupid shit. This girl I used to hang around has had several guys turn her down, even after they been in a relationship, after they found out she had herpes of the mouth, which like 50% of the population has, they just don’t talk about it. I don’t think I have that, but if I had gotten sores around my mouth in the past, I wouldn’t point that fact out to anyone. And if someone thought you’ve had a history, or possibly a history of stds, it’d be even worse.

I haven't had any symptoms, it's definitely not gonorrhea or syphilis because those tests have come back, so does that make sense its just a random infection? If so how could I have gotten it other than sex? Also what would happen if she did get the bacteria when she gave me a blowjob 2 weeks ago?

The mouth has a number of native bacteria that are not friendly to the urinary tract. Maybe she gave it to you.

If she didn’t, not much is likely to happen to her during a blow job unless she has an open sore in her mouth or has had a recent cold or the flu. Probably the worst would be a sore throat, but that’s very unlikely. Of more concern would be how your semen tastes. Antibiotics certainly won’t make it pleasant. Drink some pineapple juice to help sweeten your cum or swallowing will probably be rather unpleasant for her.