Ultimate PE/Penis Health Aid

I’d like to start a discussion about non-ejaculation as a means to harder erections, bigger flaccid hang, increased libido, as well as a cure to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, etc. This is the most powerful tool I’ve ever run into, and I can assure you it’s far from a placebo effect. Give me your thoughts and I’ll be glad to elaborate or guide anyone who’s interested in trying this out.

I think it would be helptful to members if you gave your thoughts on it, for people to discuss.

Since non-ejaculation sometimes cannot be controlled as in night emissions. And would there be a different reaction due, to masturbation or intercourse.

Frequent Ejaculation Lowers Prostate Cancer Risk

How ejaculation helps reduce prostate cancer
An epidemiological study of 30,000 American men by Michael Leitzman, a cancer researcher at the National Cancer Institute in Bethesda, Maryland, has found that men who enjoy an active sex life do not risk prostate cancer in later life.

There has been a suggested link with greater sexual activity and increased incidents of prostate cancer in previous scientific data because of the link with the male hormone testosterone and its effect on promoting cancer cell growth.

Leitzmann’s findings were that men who ejaculate between 13 and 20 times a month had a 14% lower risk of prostate cancer that men who ejaculated on average, between 4 and 7 times a month for most of their adult life. Men who ejaculated upwards of 21 times a month had a 33% lower lifetime risk of prostate cancer than the baseline group.

I’m taking KoolJohn’s advice ejaculating 3 times a week, 0 times a week would probably not be good.

During intercourse, pressure is built up in the penis for two reasons: 1) for deep penetration, 2) to project semen into the cervix. Basically, your body understands that there is a higher chance for reproduction if your penis is robust. But when the pressure is released (ie. ejaculation), it’s like deflating your penis. In other words, the deed is done and the pressure which was built up in order to assist in reproduction has satisfied its purpose. But what if you rarely release this pressure, and your penis remains perpetually healthy and alert. Moreover, you not only learn how to stop ejaculations when they try to creep up, but you learn to to avoid the sensation altogether. But that doesn’t mean you don’t orgasm… There is a distinction between orgasm and ejaculation and familiarizing yourself with that reality will do nothing but bolster your sex life.

There are a thousand reasons to avoid ejaculating, and I’m not deterred by the research which suggests it can cause cancer. I think the conclusion is that an active sex life is more condusive to a healthy individual. Besides, correlation is not causation and 14% is a small margin. I wouldn’t let it keep you from learning something altogether new about your potential for great sex and satisfying your partner without the dreaded sense that you’re going to ejaculate if you really give it to her. If you don’t often have that feeling, you’re already experimenting with prolonging ejaculation (the first step!).

Some of you may find that ejaculating none is absurd, so limit your ejaculations to once or twice a week. Don’t be a retard and jack off three times a day until you ejaculate… You are disabling one of the most crucial tools in your life that can bring you a lot of joy and satisfaction. Powerful love-making is a good way to open up and release the spirit that’s held down in your busy hard-working stressful lifestyle.

I can tell you guys more about this, but I need to see an interest. But you guys should believe what I am telling you because, A) I am a seasoned PE’er, B) I have nothing to gain by sharing this wisdom except the satisfaction of knowing I helped someone out there reach self-control, confidence, stamina, bigger flaccid hang, increased libido, and a host of other positive effects which bolster the enjoyability for two partners to make love.

I would love to hear. My story is no success and im willing to try almost anything for bigger flaccid(main thing im looking for)

Great reply M_euphony .. I’m currently working on stopping this craze of wanking over porn several times a day and have been keeping a diary in my other posts .. Think it’s thread porn detox 2.. I understand what your saying as I am starting to gain benefits in my health after only 7 days of not watching porn and 4 days of not ejaculating. I am feeling more focused in my life at the moment.

There is a big difference between where you started with this thread at non-ejaculation and where you clarified your position of ejaculating once or twice a week that just about falls in line with the healthy prostate recommendation of about three times per week.

There is no question that for me, if I hold off on ejaculating for 1 or 2 days, I am much hornier, my erections are maximum hardness and cum load is much greater than when I cum everyday. This becomes more and more true the older you get. :)

I have been limiting my ejaculations as well and have noticed positive results. I edge every day, but only ejaculate about once (sometimes twice) a week. The day after I ejaculate, I notice that my libido is not as high and that my flaccid hang is not that great. But each day as I continue to withhold from ejaculating, my flaccid hang and libido start to increase.

I have also noticed that if I go past 7-10 days without ejaculating, that although my flaccid hang remains large, my libido actually decreases. For this reason, I feel the need to ejaculate at least once a week. It is important for me to maintain a certain level of arousal and horniness as it helps with my PE routine.

It’s a fine line, and I think everyone has to find what works best for them. As for me, in terms of PE (and ejaculations), less is more.

For me I hold off to at least once a week and I find that this is the right amount.

I would be interested in finding out more about this.

I’m going to hold off until I have a nocturnal emission, I haven’t had a wet dream for about 10 years so I’m wondering if what people say is true when you don’t masturbate you being to have sexy dreams and shoot your load while you sleep.

I actually don’t ejaculate at all, and I have the most raging libido I’ve ever had. Worst case scenario, I do retrograde ejaculation which somehow manages to leave me feeling undepleted! But I was only suggesting to people who want to try this out but don’t think it sounds possible to just quit ejaculating.

On another note, many of you have probably experimented with kegels. This “squeeze” becomes instrumental in preventing ejaculations during sex. But one of the main things to do when making love if you don’t want to ejaculate, be present through the act and don’t fall into autopilot with your own natural rhythm. In other words, get into a groove that you create rather than falling into whatever your body does. This is important because rhythm is crucial to making love, but the natural rhythm your body will create is conducive to reproduction— not prolonged sex or even satisfying your woman.

Another thing I’ve learned is that, as I mentioned a couple of posts ago, pressure is built up in the penis through the sex act. If you notice, right before you orgasm your penis gets the hardest. If you are a Taoist wizard (or just someone really good at avoiding ejaculation), you can use this to your advantage. Basically, you can make love to your partner while meditating on not getting anywhere near ejaculation, then you can move the whole thing up a gear with a little trick that will engorge your penis an additional proportion. What you do is allow yourself to get right to the point where you are about to ejaculate (remember guys this is an ‘advanced technique’), and then prevent the ejaculation with a hell of a strong BC squeeze for about 4-5 seconds. Now you’re left with a boner that’s bigger and harder than it was for the last half an hour. You can imagine how your partner can appreciate going now to another level. And to think, most guys ejaculate in 10-20 minutes…. That’s ridiculous and not anything near what a woman needs!

Just imagine quitting sex whenever you feel like it, opposed to being forced to quit when you just can’t hang on anymore. And you knew in the back of your mind that you could have given her that moaning orgasm if you could have thrusted a few more mere seconds… This kind of sex is filled with the most orgasms! However, you will have to get good at avoiding ejaculation before you begin experiencing the orgasms associated with non-ejaculation. By the way, they are different, but they are better. Rather than the sensation of cum flowing through your genitals (which certainly feels nice), you feel a powerful wave come over your entire body and it’s just a jolt of pleasure it feels like your spirit is unleashed for that little while. And the great thing is, you can have multiple orgasms this way, and simultaneous orgasms, etc. You just keep going until you’re both satisfied and worn out.

For anyone who wants to start experimenting with this, I’m going to outline a few pointers to get you started:

1. If you have a partner, be straight-forward and let her know you are trying to avoid ejaculating
2. In the early stages of beginning non-ejaculation, do not get yourself dangerously close as this will carry over to your next sexual experience. Instead, get yourself to the point where you feel that initial sensation that suggests you could ejaculate soon, then back off. Maybe reach this point 1-3 times before calling it quits this time. (It might seem lame to quit like this a couple of times, but I’ll be damned if it doesn’t pay off sooner than later)
3. Experiment with the deliberate intention of not ejaculating throughout the experience. When you begin, you know you will not ejaculate. Realize that ejaculating is the last thing you want to do because of how detrimental it is to your sex life!
4. Your goal in sex up to this point has been the biological necessity to ejaculate— Now you have a paradigm shift. Your goal now is to enjoy the sex, to satisfy yourself and your partner, and to avoid ejaculating at all costs!
5. If you ejaculate for any reason, pay attention to the state your penis is in after ejaculation. Notice how it shrivels up and how your sex drive goes away. And notice how your mood drops, and how this general state of weakness stays for up to 36 hours.
6. If you get to the point where there is literally no return, firmly squeeze the spot directly behind your testicles toward your anus as your body muscles contract and your body tries to release the load. What will happen is a retrograde ejaculation. Somehow this manages to save me from some of the negative effects of ejaculating. It’s a mystery how it works, but I use this as a very, very last resort. However, I almost always end up squeezing my BC muscle to prevent ejaculations. I might do this up to five times during sex. If you are committed to non-ejaculation, you will gain the skill of halting ejaculations with ease.

For clarification, I just don’t ejaculate at all. I might ejaculate twice a month just to cleanse my body, but I find no need to ejaculate in general. It is completely counter-productive, even though non-ejaculation seems counter-intuitive as we are hard-wired to do it. I’ve known for a long time that ejaculating was harmful to my sex life, but it was not until a few months ago that I really committed to this. One neat aspect to non-ejaculation is self-control. If you can control your ejaculations, and you are the captain of that boat, you are demonstrating in the most literally sense the virtue self-control. If you can control yourself in such a concrete way, you are the captain of your life and you can do whatever the hell you want to do. At least that’s how I feel, and avoiding ejaculations has been a great wonderful unexpected lift in the quality of my life.

I will continue talking with you guys and guiding anyone who wants to work with this. I guarantee if you don’t ejaculate for one single week, you’ll be hooked and your life will actually be noticeably different.

Humbly,

matutinal_euphony

By the way, to give you guys some background, I have tried just about every potent supplement and had great results with them, but frankly most of them made me a little violent. Some of the strongest supplements I’ve taken are L-Arginine, Prelox Blue, Enzyte. When I forced myself to quit these types of products altogether due to the instability they leveled on my body chemistry, I was searching for a boost in my sex drive and erection quality. Low and behold, I found it and I think you all know what I’m referring to. Non-ejaculation has been, hands down, just as powerful as any supplement I’ve ever taken without ANY negative side effects.

I can’t see any back-up for your suppositions, matutinal. Beside that, this topic has been covered many times and, resuming all has been said, it’s just garbage.

Well, some supplements that are targeted for erectile ‘performance,’ particularly those that contain Yohimbe and Tribulus Terrestris, and to some limited degree Ginseng as well, do indeed have a tendency to increase aggressive behavior a might. How much and with what intensity would depend on personal use and personal body chemistry, I’d say.

The same cannot be said about L-Arginine (which is basically what Prelox Blue is); and pycnogenol (the other ingredient in Prelox Blue) certainly will not increase aggressive behavior. If that were true people who eat Italian pesto would be constantly flipping out.

Also many of the ‘proprietary blend’ (read ‘rip-off’) male performance enhancement supplements (Enzyte, Vig-RX, etc.) have such small amounts of the guilty herbs that you would literally have to eat them by the handful to experience negative side effects of any consequence.

The other factor that many people don’t take into account is supplements they might be taking for other reasons.

Many fat-burners that people take, for example, with ingredients such as ephedrine, or guarana, will most definitely increase aggressive behavior. That’s because they are essentially speed in herbal form.

Amino acids? Not so much.