Ultimate PE/Penis Health Aid

It would be of interest and value to this discussion, to know what happens to the sperm and other fluids lost during ejaculation when there is no ejaculation and they are retained in the body.

I do a 2 days on, 1 off PE routine, usually I try to ejaculate after the second day session, so I usually come twice per week.

I do find holding back advantageous for erection frequency but if I only ejaculate once or no times per week, I end up having wet dreams.

I think as you age, decreasing the frequency of ejaculations definitely helps. HOWEVER, in my experience, nothing supercharges that like dialing in your PE.

Truly, if I get my PE right, I get wood most of the nite, raging hard erections and drastically cut refractory period, so much so that I stay hard after cumming for a long time. PLUS it totally feels like it boosts my testosterone levels, greatly increased horniness plus I can cum more frequently without losing that desire for more.

If I do too much or too little PE, I can lose my nite and morning wood completely, as well as all other catagories of EQ drop.

When I limit my ejaculations to a few a week,PLUS dial in my PE, its like I’m 18 again, and I’m 51 right now.

Wow! Thank you guys so much for the input. I felt like the man on the hill for a little while. I’m glad to hear many of you are interested in or have experience with abstaining from ejaculations.

marky, you’re exactly right about enjoying the journey and forgetting about the destination.

This is very interesting, looking forward to updates :)

Hi great post, I’ve been moving towards a 2 goals recently which have both given me a great deal of insight.

Goal 1 stop watching porn , this is going very well haven’t seen any for 11 days and I think I have broke that problem,and have gained real world motivation.

Goal 2 stop wasting my ejaculate, this is the goal that has lead me too you. I think your post is very insightful as I haven’t ejaculated for over 6 days. My dick feels hot and in good shape, with good blood flow and nice “testosterone energy” throughout my body. My question dose this continue to feel the same all the time or does the horny strong male energy wear off after a while and that’s when I need to ejaculate and start the whole process of building energy again. Or do I just reach a level that is horny and powerful and remain at that level as long as I don’t come.

I am interested in this whole process allot as I am finding stopping my sessions of sex before coming. I am able to just have bits of sex sessions all through the day, with no end.

Thanks for your posts so far.

In my experience, you will continue feeling this way as long as you limit your ejaculations! Obviously you have discovered some success already, and I encourage you to keep moving in this direction. While Westerners are wary of this radical concept, people have actually been practicing it with great success for thousands of years. The great thing I find is that instead of depleting yourself through each sexual encounter, you are cumulatively gaining prowess.

The book claims “Over three thousand years ago, the Chinese recognized that men can achieve multiple orgasms by delaying and even withholding ejaculation. This is possible because orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct physical processes, although they have long been equated in the West…. [In] the 1940s pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey reported similar discoveries. Yet even several decades later, after his claims have been proved repeatedly in the laboratory, most men remain unaware of their multi-orgasmic potential. Without this knowledge and without a clear technique, men are unable to feel the difference between the crescendo of orgasm and the crash of ejaculation…. Male sexuality in the West remains incorrectly focused on the inevitably disappointing goal of ejaculation (“getting off”) instead of the orgasmic process of lovemaking.”

Another day without release, I was in the gym last night and killed it, just pumping weights hard. Had an extra reserve of energy to tap in to when was pushing.

Not coming my dreams have been very sexually focused every-night so far.

Today is day 7 I don’t feel super horny today , yesterday I was buzzing. Thinking about girls and thinking I will sleep with you but your not getting my come.

Question, how does withholding ejaculate effect your partner? Does she try harder to make you come? Does stopping without coming make her crazy?

Looking in the mirror I look more masculine, I feel stronger and very very alert. I think my vision has sharpened!

Stay away from kryptonite!

This ain’t no joke , I’ve been able to edge for 3 hours today , and do a hardcore perfect jelq session and pump session, and it’s only 5pm . Think I mite need to spend a hour of so stretching this thing.. And not forgetting bed fowfers , without coming there is nothing to stop it.

I actually ejaculated last night and I was reminded of how depleting it is! My junk was shriveled up for hours after I woke up this morning, and only returned to somewhat normal after sex without ejaculation.

The reason I cum on the eve of my rest day is because it gives me 48 hours to “reload” my balls, by the next PE session, I return to the higher “full balls” excitement level.

After an awesome day yesterday and going on towards day eight , my morning was awesome an erection at the click of a finger, strong, hard, horny, very sensitive to the touch. I did an awesome 1 hour edge session, then went and got in the shower. Continuing to edge (as you do when you haven’t come for 8 days) I found a new technique in the shower. Instantly I was on the edge of the point of no return. Feeling cocky because I have had such control over the last 8 days and have put in some long edging sessions, I decided to play on the edge of the ponr in this new masturbating style/position. Very strong good feelings and I hit the ponr about 8 times in 30 seconds. Then with out thinking I took it too far. Spurt spurt spurt. Over the shower wall. I tried as hard as all my mite to hold back all that I could after but the line had been crossed , for the first time in 8 days.

Lessons to learn.

1. I have a new technique to master! In the shower I can hit the ponr very fast , and practice in this danger zone in a new way.
2. My penis is now dull and lifeless, there is no more fun to be had with it , it’s limp and numb. I’ve tried to get the erection but I think I have lost the power, that I’ve enjoyed for the last week.
3. I think that this is real , semen retention. I know that my PE session later will probably be rubbish or I won’t even bother.
4. I’m now tired.
5. I want to see if my interaction with people has changed, or if my motivation for the rest of the day has changed.
6. I have to rebuild my internal sexual energy again, I have no interest at the moment.

Any ways, that’s today’s lesson in penis, body and mind. I’m not going to beat myself up about this as I did push my self a little near the edge allot, I wanted to see if my boundaries have been extended and they have. Which I’m glad about, if I can get the new feelings from shower masturbating under my belt then I wonder what the next level of ponr will be before I shoot my load.
If I can get even stronger sexual/orgasmic currents under control. How will this change my interactions and energy levels in everyday life.

Aside from my own confidence, the reason I’m interested in penile health is for my pleasure. I get a lot of pleasure from having sex, from masturbating and then cumming. Limiting this to nothing seems like a waste.

However, like you have said the more you do it, the less intense it can be. It’s about finding a happy medium.

If you have found a way to get orgasm like pleasure without ejaculation, that is pretty much the ultimate. It’s something I’m confident I could learn to do if you were willing to teach….so consider my interest expressed! :)