Female curiosity

Many thanks for your interest, input, and proactive curiosity, zaneblue! I hope you’ll be around for a while — we don’t have many female members, but the ones we have have been around for a long time and we muchly appreciate their perspectives. After all, most of us (the hetero guys) are doing this for women in the first place.

-Jab

I’m sort of a funny person to have posting here. I was a regular member at measurection.com for a long time. From posting there I understand how important penis size is to men. But really I genuinely believe most all sizes are fine, and that it’s the woman’s responsibility to take control of her own sexual ability. I have had great sex with a man who was about four inches long and slender—he was perfect for hitting my G-spot just right. And I’ve had sex with a man who was so long I had to use both hands to blow him and he still hit the back of my throat. Each penis size and shape has some good points. I’ve counselled so many women who have difficulty and pain having sex with a large partner, and many many more who just are simply unable to have a vaginal orgasm at all.

On the other hand—it does seem like all this exercising and whatnot would help with erection quality, and if that’s the case I’m all for it. And I find it a turn on thinking about men spending so much time rubbing their cocks. :D And there is some evidence that large penises are a secondary sexual characteristic, in other words that human females evolved preferring bigger ones. However there is also some evidence that baldness is also a secondary sexual characteristic—so it’s not something that’s absolute.

Mrs. x is less than excited about my description of her/my “present”.

Oops. (:

Welcome to the forum zaneblue.:)

Yes, a certain amount of tact might be helpful—hard not to give the insulting impression that her pussy is too loose. Might want to stress it helps with orgasmic ability.

And will keep her from being a dribbler when she gets older. :) Don’t tell her I said that though, you take full credit for it.

I should warn you though, speaking of dribbling—really strong PC muscle tone will not only improve vaginal orgasmic ability, it often leads to female ejaculation. If that grosses you out, she can always let her muscle tone lapse a bit.

I’ll try some of these tacts…mostly she thinks I’ve spent too much time fucking around with my “pee-pee pals” (love muscle marauders, per MX) today…Thanks :) .

That would be fine!

Not in the least…look forward to it, in fact!

Hi zaneblue,

Welcome to the forum. Glad you could join us

Zaneblue,
This thread is sort of a breath of fresh air. Do your female friends have this kind of proactive approach to ensuring sexual compatibility? I’m wondering if more women are getting into this?

Society usually places sexual compatibility squarely on guys’ shoulders - thus, PE exercises. I bet if more women approached sex the way you did guys’ insecurities would be greatly alleviated, as penis size would be less important, physically speaking.

Anyway, welcome aboard!

Thunder,
You might have to create a section here for women’s exercises. It could be like a co-ed fitness center. :)

I don’t know what the hell a dribbler is, but I’m PDS that I don’t want to find out!

Damn right I will Chief! Shoot, this even better than hypno PE…as far as mrs x. is concerned I’m bigger and I didn’t have to do a MF thing!

B’sides, I love her and I want her treasure tunnel (along with the rest of her) to be healthy :)

I’m sure she’ll come to love it.

Thank you DiamondWinds

As I said, I’m working my fanny off trying to get the word out. It will certainly help with girth issues. On the other hand it might cause problems with length—if a woman wakes up her vagina this way, she might get a hankering for cul de sac orgasms, and those do take a bit of length, although generally not above seven inches. And g-spot orgasms are quite nice too.

Right now the situation is that most women think kegels are enough, which is just not true. It’s like trying to build up your bicep by flexing your arm. Women need resistance. I do run into a lot of hostility from women who are very happy with only having clitoral orgasms, etc. Although I think female opinion is starting to slowly swing around. The Kegelcisor sells well and so do vaginal cone weights, although neither works very well.

It just makes no sense to me that men are under so much pressure about this—it’s easy and healthy for women to get tight and helps with orgasms. Also fun to have a prehensile pussy.

Welcome Zaneblue:

It is always an honor to have new ladies join us here. The female perspective is something we hold in high regard, and we tend to put our lady members up on pedestals. I was late seeing this thread, but I’ve enjoyed your input greatly. You write with an intriguing sense of professionalism and intelligence laced with just enough sexuality to make your post interesting and slightly provocative, almost in the style of Jacqueline Susan. (You’re not her are you?) You’ve mentioned several times and even quote in your signature that it is easier for women to tighten up the coital fit than men. You also mentioned in post#7 that you are amazed by how hard men work to get a better fit. You also ask for any input we may have on exercising the PC muscle.

First, I agree that it is probably easier for women to tighten than for men to grow. The relationships that are truly blessed are those who work together. Most of the men here have to do what we call, stealth PE. They feel the need to hide PE from wives, girlfriends. I have always felt it is a shame to not be able to enjoy this with one’s spouse or S/O. However we DO have PE couples here and there are a lot of us. Women who work with their men to improve their bodies and their sexual performance together are blessed with a wonderful sex life. However, as I’m sure you are aware, doing PE for a tighter fit is only one of many reasons we do what we do at Thunderrsplace.

Other than doing PE for pure aesthetics, we do it mostly for ourselves, but the self esteem we achieve from our efforts and especially from our gains make us better men, this of course benefits the women in our lives, so in essence we do it also for them.

I have gained a little length and quite a bit of girth in the last couple of years, but more than actual size what I have gained is a much better working unit. I have completely cured my ED. My ability to control ejaculation through edging has made me a much better sex partner. My erections are harder and last longer, with a very short recovery period. The pressure behind my ejaculate is probably three times stronger than it was before PE, which I feel is due to edging and clamping, but mostly from doing kegals while hanging heavy weights. Because of an obsession to reduce my fat-pad for more visible flaccid length, I have lost an enormous amount of weight, and because the pubic fat-pad is the last area of a man’s body to go, I’ve experienced an overall body reduction of fat, but of all the things that PE has done for me, the mental image I’ve gained of myself has been the greatest gain of all.

Once again, welcome.

BG

I understand, and I’m very excited. Didn’t quite realize kegels with hanging weights was recommended here. I recommend that myself for men, quite strongly. Is that done with an erection or flaccid? Very curious. As you say, that will tremendously improve a man’s sex life. And of course losing weight will too, not just for the appearance and aerobic ability, but also from the changes in hormone levels.

Actually I recommend that kind of workout not just because of improved basic sexual functioning, but also because it can trigger kundalini awakening. High PC (or BC or whatever it’s called) combined with high dopamine can give a man the ability to have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms.

And of course self esteem is one of the biggest things a man can have going for him for sexual attractiveness. Personally I think it’s better if a man can have that at his regular size, but I certainly understand how some men cannot, which is what ultimately drove me away from the measurection site. I feel vaguely guilty for posting here, but for the reasons above and for the fact that you men are a veritable font of sexual information, I’m staying.