I have been edging for a very long time and I would like to say that personally it’s always been about what is happening in my head. I can last for however long, depending on how quickly my head wants to give in and not necessarily my penis. For example when I am close to PONR, I could possibly not go over the edge, even if I maintain masturbating, if my brain did not want it to happen. In other words me ejaculating depends alot on what is going on in my head, rather than how fast or strong my strokes are. The moment my brain gives in, the penis does and that is a problem as my head cannot comprehend high levels of arousal for a long period of time. I can control the urge mentally for about 5 mins after reaching near PONR but after that it is too much and I ejaculate. People say to think of something non sexual, but how do you do that? When I see a hot girl(real life or videos) all I can think about is fucking her brains out or my hand. Personally it is impossible to think of anything other than the sexy girl. If I think about what is best for her and not for myself than that just makes me even more hornier. Seeing a hot girl enjoy what I am doing to her, also makes so much more hornier. So what I am asking is, how do I train my head to not want to cum?