Edging to improve stamina?
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And do you think your edging without cumming has improved your stamina?
I think edging has improved mine somewhat, but I always have to end it eventually with an orgasm. It really takes willpower to stimulate yourself for that long and then not release. More willpower than I have! But do you think it actually provides more benefits to avoid ejaculation? When I edge I practice reaching the point of orgasm, and then backing off, so what is the harm of doing that several times, but then finishing with an orgasm?
My “stamina” of being able to keep an erection longer has improved. There are are a few variables though, so I don’t know if stamina has improved most because of jelqing, pumping, or edging. There are times when I’m edging and I think I’ve backed off in time, only to have a partial ejaculation. [I realize one can orgasm with ejaculating, and one can ejaculate without an erection. But I think some guys claiming “multiple orgasm” might be experiencing a series of “partial ejaculations.”]
Anyway, when I’m edging and have a partial ejaculation, it’s really tough at that point not to get back to “the edge” without losing my whole load. For various reasons, I really don’t want to j/o all the way to orgasm (long story), but I can only edge so many times without having sex with my wife. Otherwise, I get blue balls or an aching prostate. And if I’ve been edging too much and then try to last too long while having sex, I end up with premature ejac anyway. So it can get dicey, either way. I.e., too much edging “backfires” one way or another, but I think some edging is helpful. The thread on Sweet rewards - balloning works gets too technical and eastern-mystical for me; I wish there were more serious threads that explained how to use edging to better train one’s cock to fire off at the right time. So if you got any ideas, I’d like to hear ‘em!