Controlling ejaculation

Hi Friends,

Just another thread from myself. This is the second thing I want to tackle, the first being gaining girth and length, which thanks to you guys have encouraged me and put me on the right track. Right, I have a really bad problem in regards to this and I think it has really put my courage down and has messed my sex life right up.

1. I cannot masturbate more then about 5 mins max and I will just end up ejaculate.

2. Sex - I can never last more then 5 mins, which is very annoying especially when your really into your girl. It really puts me down from having sex. 5 mins and that too with small strokes not actually pounding, in regards to pounding i will cum in 2/3 minz and go soft, it takes quite abit of time for me to get hard again.

Regards

anyone please?

I think in general people do what’s called “edging.” I’m no expert so I don’t really know. I’ve done it a couple times but I don’t even think I’m doing it right.

Step 1: jerk off
Step 2: continue jerking off
Step 3: when you feel yourself about to nut, stop jerking off
Step 4: wait for the feeling to subside, completely
Step 5: return to jerking off

Repeat steps 1-5 for a given amount of time.

Eventually, you will train yourself to last longer. If you find yourself blowing after 5 minutes, make your first edging goal 10 minutes. Then slowly work your times up, maybe by 5 minutes every week or so.

It will be a lesson in self-discipline, but I’m sure you can do it ;)

raiderz22-

I have tried edging but it does not seem to make a difference to me, it makes me want to pump hard and just finish.

UFGator- Could you tell me the gain out of this, like how would it help to help to overcome this problem. I dont know how people can pump fast without exploding and have good control.

I’m quite sure what UFGator just described is edging, at least that’s how I’ve been doing it. I always want to just blow my load too, but you gotta stay committed. Instead of thinking about instant satisfaction, think about how satisfied you’ll be when you’re banging your girl til 4 in the morning.

Overtime you can train your dick to require more stimulation before reaching orgasm. Enough edging will desensitize you. I started edging when I was 15-16, somewhere around in there and I’ve always had great stamina in bed. There has to be a correlation.

Yeah edging is where it’s at. While you do that pay attention to the tension in your body. And especially your pc muscle. Keep that relaxed. It takes effort and discipline but it worked for me. I can bang and hold my cum now until I want it to go. And I don’t find any desensitization with edging. If anything I can hover closer to orgasm which makes it harder and more sensitive and more intense. That’s where it’s at. Being able to ride the sensations just before you cum. It’s better than he actual orgasm a lot of time. Keep practicing. You will get it.

And read this

How I cured my SEVERE premature ejaculation

I really think of giving up. I really shrug off the thought and even talking about sex. It is really putting me down…

I don’t think that’s going to solve anything. Seriously, just work on edging and slowly force yourself to go longer and longer. It will help you!

Makes you want to…….pump hard and finish? Man up and get control over your mind. If you really care about your problem, go to Amazon and order a copy of the book titled The Multi-Orgasmic Man. But it’s going to require you to snap out of your animalistic approach to sex.

I just cant control it, it is a very big problem.

Is there some sort of a ‘quick fix’ for this problem? Also i dont thing my errections are very strong aswell…

No quick fixes man. Just work, and patience. Just keep up with your routine, and incorporate edging into your routine. It kinda sucks at first, because you what the satisfaction of an orgasm, but like tootyfishy said with practice it will become fun and pleasurable. I enjoy my edging sessions, and you will to in time.