Scared but looking for solutions

Hello everyone,

I don’t really know where to start.

So, I’m 29. And for the past couple months I’ve been having issues.

I think I’ve come down with some for of ED. I have a hard time achieving erections and when I do happen to get one it doesn’t tend to stay for very long. I never used to have this issue. It literally popped up out of nowhere.

I also get a tingling feeling in the tip of my penis when it’s flaccid. It also tends to feel very cold to the touch. I’ve heard this could be a blood flow issue.

I’ve been doing PE on and off for some years now. Mostly just jelqing and light stretching. And for a while it helped at lot with general blood flow and overall erection strength.

So I’m hoping that starting back up will help with this before I have to result to possibly seeing a urologist or neurologist to possibly access further issues.

So I’m back to jelqing and light stretching. Will keep everyone posted on my progress

Wecome to Thunders :)

Firstly, I’m presuming that the PE you did in the past is not reason for your ED.

May I then suggest going to a doctor before starting PE again. It will be a lot easier for the doctor to identify the problem without adding PE into the equation. If not, you might find the doctor blames PE, and tells you to keep your hand off it.

If you feel embarrassed, don’t. Doctors have seen and heard it all before. I honestly can’t tell you how many times a doctor, or nurse ;) has had my penis in there hands. After a while, it just becomes normal. You’ll also probably feel a lot more sillier having to explain PE to him or her.

Good luck, and happy tugging :)

Welcome!

I’m sorry to hear about those issues!

Is there any numbness? Any discolouration? If so I would see a doctor before restarting if I were in your shoes, just to be safe, there’s no harm in getting a professional opinion before doing anything that may cause potential damage. Just my 2 cents.

Definitely some numbness.

No discoloration though. Since I’ve never had these problems I’m really just trying to figure out how to approach it. I didn’t really know who to talk to or even how to explain it to a doctor. .Or what kind of doctor to talk to in the first place.

I’m not the most endowed person. .But I at least want it to work when I need it to

See a urologist. They hold and work on penises all day long.

Is blood flow and or nerve damage fixable? Or should I be ready to hear that there is some unfix-able issue?

Most likely. I was using a pump and eventually it would take me 20 mins or more WITH PORN to jerk off. Desensitized too much. I quit the pump and started jelqs and clamping and I’m growing again and working like normal again. (Can hold off if I want or let go if I want). Stop everything and recover, see a doctor to be safe and just enjoy your dick for a while.

Before you diagnose yourself go to a guy that is trained in diagnosis. You have been given that advice already so please take it.

That’s the plan.

I’ve contacted my doctor and asked to see a urologist.

She had me do a urinalysis and said she’d get back to me after the results were in. So far everything is coming back negative.

But I still have a lot of numbness and a slight tingling from time to time. My erections aren’t strong at all and it still feels very weak when flaccid.

I hate how doctors make you go through all of this mess just to get checked out. But at this point I know it’s something physical. Just need a professional diagnosis