I'm Done.

Been working on my unit for several years and achieved some gains and was dedicated to continue until I finally realized when my wife says she’s not interested in my dick being any bigger, she is being honest. I always used to ignore those comments and assume she was afraid to hurt my feelings.

Gained about a half inch hanging bringing me to 7” BP

And then I went from 5” girth to 6.25” with clamping and shockingly my wife didn’t respond to it in any way. Moaning wasn’t different, she didn’t cum harder.. Nothing. The only difference was it took longer to get it in.

I eventually stopped clamping and lost all the gains. Went right back to 5” girth over several weeks. The crazy part was it seemed so permanent. It was solid girth, hard as a rock. No fluid build up so I thought it was permanent and kinda freaked out when it disappeared so I started clamping again. Once I started to get the size back my wife mentioned during sex that it’s much wider again due to the clamping and it will take a minute to get it in. I asked her “well it’s worth it though right?” She said “no” so I asked her if she gets any different sensations when its more girthy and she responded ” only in the beginning it’s really uncomfortable and then once she loosens up it feels exactly the same. There is no huge difference to her. Long story short I finally believe that she is being honest. My dick being larger than it normally is does absolutely nothing for her. She’s even given birth to 3 children and still just as tight as the day I met her and she always orgasms hard from penetration no matter my current size and wets the sheets. I’ve realized that I just need to be happy with what I have. Everything is fine with my god given penis

Hopefully this will help someone in a similar situation to trust that some women really don’t want a huge dick and they are being honest when they tell you so

You are spot on and this reflects my experience as well. My wife is perfectly content with where I am at and where I was.

Anyone reading your post should take note. PE is more for us than it is for the ladies. Great sex doesn’t require a big penis, it requires an attentive lover.

Well done drudge, don’t be a stranger:-)

YES SO MUCH THIS POST!!!

If the love is there, if the intimacy can be generated and consumed, if she is happy and having orgasms, and if YOU are giving them to her and helping her increase her orgasmic potential in anyway, your cock is PERFECT.

There are guys on other parts of this forum that require your sage wisdom and experience. I mean it. Some guys on this forum are delusional not just about what cock size means, but what they believe women want and need. You have figured it out and it sounds wonderful :)

Nicely said, my son

I agree with you 100%!

I’m working my unit to have better sex, the truth is I already have good sex and she is satisfied with my size.

That said for me personally its more a sex drive thing, the fact that I’m trying to improve makes love making more kinky, for her its a turn on.

Today received a text “hope you got your good training for tonight, your gonna need it!”. So its nice to joke and play around that, kinda foreplay if you want.

My PE is for me, visually its nice to see it thicker and longer. I know one day I will say the same thing and will take a break like you!

Good thread! I’m good also. I just want to learn more about myself and now my penis can do something other than have sex or frustrate me. Its job is to grow! And stay healthy as possible.

Enjoy life man, keep light jelqing in the routine for staying healthy and keep the blood flow going.

Wife and I had a similar discussion last night after great sex that afternoon and evening.

There really is no difference except it has allowed us to enjoy deeper penetration in positions where we have not always had this. I’ve had about a 3/4” gain and it has made a pretty big difference although it doesn’t seem like it would.

I love it - great thread man!

Absolutely. I suffered from that delusion for a long time. It wasn’t until recently that I realized how incorrect and unhealthy my way of thinking was. It was just flat out wrong. My dick being larger just wasn’t something my wife gave a crap about. To those guys still struggling with this, unless your partner has something medically wrong with her vagina, has some kind of mental block or trauma associated with sex or she just doesn’t have feelings for you.. Sex with your god given dick will be all she needs to be completely satisfied.

Great advice that I will do for sure

Truly wise words.