When it comes down to it though, when women are on top, all that matters is the size and how long you can keep it up. Your technique is much less relevant. So, no matter how bad a guys technique is, his dick can still give a woman earth shattering pleasure if it is big because she can just get on top and use it how she wants. Yet a guy will a small dick won’t be able to give that level of satisfaction penetratively no matter how good his technique because he only has techniue on his side and if a woman is with a man with a big dick, she can simply ride ontop and experience good technique of her own making and the full feeling and friction of the big penis.
Some women are too lazy to do all the work though so this is when a man with a small penis and excellent technique can outdo a man with a big penis and bad technique.
There is one thing stronger than all the armies in the world: and that is an idea whose time has come.
I’m thinking technique does matter with sizequeens also, so long as there’s a big dick in the equation. In other words, big with good technique outdoes big with bad technique. If he has bad technique then she can get on top and take over to make up for that. She will probably enjoy doggy or missionary anyway though even with bad technique because the size is such a key factor for her, just not enjoy quite as much as she does if he knows how to work it. For her a small guy doesn’t have a chance no matter how good his technique and an average guy with good technique can only hopefully get a so so rating from her. Agreed?
Agree complete with supersizeit…
In my opinion, except for those sizequeens, the rest of women can be satisfied without even a penis. You can make her cry only with a good foreplay followed with a good tongue work… (btw, lot of girls appreciate it more than penetration)
We always tend to admire the biggest, the highest, the fastest, the richest, etc… but forget that life is not a Guinness book of records, that is too self-centered and has nothing to do with make your partner happy but with make yourself happy. The reality looks more simple, you don’t need a big one to make a girl absolutely happy.
Stop your fears, unless you have a micro-penis, the real matter here is to be comfortable with oneself appearances and that not only depends from the size of your penis…
Originally posted by matti In my opinion, except for those sizequeens, the rest of women can be satisfied without even a penis. You can make her cry only with a good foreplay followed with a good tongue work… (btw, lot of girls appreciate it more than penetration)
We always tend to admire the biggest, the highest, the fastest, the richest, etc… but forget that life is not a Guinness book of records, that is too self-centered and has nothing to do with make your partner happy but with make yourself happy.
I’ve heard women chuckle about such sentiments. I’ve actually heard women say, “Yeah, the tongue is nice but hell I could get that from a woman. I like to have the real thing, and a big one.”
Foreplay is great, so is careful technique, but neither can really make up for a small cock (have you ever heard a man say, “Well, her technique was so good that I didn’t even notice my weiner was flopping around helplessly in her gaping chasm”?). And what is really a “size queen” anyway? Do we derisively throw around those terms because we’re offended that a particular woman prefers a size larger than what we have? In my opinion, a size queen is a woman who cares ONLY about size - and would screw an ugly, uncaring, unpleasant man JUST BECAUSE HE’S BIG. Those women I quoted were NOT size queens - most had been in long-term relationships. They were just comfortable enough about themselves, and my presence, to admit that a big dick felt really great.
So, let’s not kid ourselves. A big-dicked man does not necessarily have bad technique; nor does a little-dicked man necessarily have great technique (hell, I’ve heard plenty of jaded wives speak of their man’s tiny weewee and his 60-second sex).
Also, it’s a helluva lot easier for a big-dicked man to learn technique than it is for a small-dicked man to increase his penile volume by 50-100%.
I’d rather be big and need a few lessons, than tiny and need a few inches… besides, a woman can always take the top on a big-dicked man - then, it would be all about her technique, not his.
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>>I’d rather be big and need a few lessons, than tiny and need a few inches.<<
Wad, that’s good enough to write in the men’s room stall. Shit, I’m impressed.
Sorry to hear that Wadzilla… Don’t fall in this vicious circle where the best, the biggest, the greatest, etc… is the rule. If you think like that, you should really look as quickly as possible to get a big car, big money, big apartment, big balls, big muscles, etc… because without them you will be not really happy… (modern life requirements make us unhappy…)
Women commenting size of penis remember me on men doing the same whit tits…But sincerely, are those comments quite serious? . You know how we act in a group of friends…
If you ask a woman alone, who knows what she really prefer, she can of course say “a big one” butt is this all she want? of course not. Would you stand it to be with a woman that only wants you because your big penis? . I would feel myself used as a puppet…
Very often we look first the body and than the personality, but body or personality alone dosen’t make a big deal…
P.D: I have bring up this issue with a couple of women where im really know they are quite serious to speak about. They told me the same: They had every size…, but dosen’t make a big difference. Asking what would be the minimum size, they “showed” me the same length, around 5 inches
I’ve heard a couple of women say 5 inches is enough also. The problem is just how many women does this apply to? My girlfriend says 5 isn’t enough for her. I showed about 5 inches to her with my hands asking if that could work for her and she frowned and said “I’m sorry, that’s not enough for me”. She wants me to be a lot thicker and some longer (currently 7 1/4 l x 4 3/4 g) so I wasn’t surprised at all at her response of course , yet I wanted to hear precisely what she would say about 5 inches since some women do say that is fine and that everything else is just hype.
I wish I could go around asking every woman I see in public many questions, but I’m sure I would get slapped and arrested so that’s out of the question.
I’ve been around in my life and listened to women, spoken to women, and had sex with women and have asked questions, and my experience says it matters to many women. I believe there are plenty of women who would be fine with 5 inches ,but I also believe they are outnumbered by women who desire more.
I started a thread recently in the Polls Forum trying to find out exactly what everyone here thinks about it. I asked : does bigger matter to all, most, some or not any women? I pointed out that I wasn’t asking about the importance level to a woman, just how many women it counts with. Unfortunately, I didn’t get many responses.