Hellfire and Fury at my small cock!

Yeah, God thank her. Just think if she would have lied and said that they had puny dicks and you were the most capable she ever had. You would be having sex with her right now with a big grin of confidence and she would be one satisfied lady.

I lived with the last woman I had for about 4 years. I’m 5’7” and about 185lbs. Her ex-husband is about 6’2” and at least 210lbs. He is known to be the toughest guy in 200 miles. Hung like a horse too. A real bad boy icon. She loved me for who I was and we had lots of great sex. She wanted me all the time. I think I was one of the only guys who made it into her heart in a real way. So, when she was making love to me it meant something to her, and that probably doubled the size of my dick in her “mind”. Women are strange illogical beings. What makes sense to us is completely different than what makes them tick. I’ve seen skinny little 100lb. guys with small dicks score gorgeous model-type chics and make them fall in love with them. So, whatever you are trying to make sense of in your situation, it’s probably completely different in her mind.

thanks catman. That might make sense.

There is nothing wrong with wanting a little more. However you fall within the range of large average with a 6.6 bpel and your girth is average as well. Just like almost everyone else.

PE is great. After a short while she will probably notice your erections being harder and your circulation in the area will be better giving you the maximum possible erection. Good luck, I won’t bore you with the usual newbie stuff since you’ve been reading for 2 years.

Size

Grigli,

Go for it, just start with the newbie thing and work up from there.

I think you need to chill just a tad, too. This is something that will take many months or even years. A big dick is only one part of sex. If she is enjoying sex with you and loving you as a person, you shouldn’t feel threatened. She left those guys for a reason, and I seriously doubt any woman worth keeping is going to dump an otherwise good guy because of his cock. And if I am not mistaken, your current stats put you above the average, anyway. There will always be somebody out there with a bigger dick.

That’s a great story but I notice your at thunders looking for a bigger dick so some were along the line you must have had some issues with knowing he was hung like a horse. My wake up call that size matters was when I heard my milf ex and her milf friends giggling about penis size while I was in a different room and my ex going into the bathroom and coming out one of those dildo shaped cans of shaving cream and saying it was the perfect size and her friends all agreeing I would say it was a little over 8x6.

Any homemade ADS ideas? I’m thinking of using a bungee cord to a cat collar on my calf.

I think your girlfriend is telling you the truth, and your size is just fine for her. Just because she has had bigger is not a reason to assume she is not happy with you.

It is also doubtful that “all” her other men were big. Even if they have large builds it doesn’t mean large penis.

Do PE if you want, but you also need to adjust your attitude and be happy and accepting of your body. It really is bad for you, psychologically, to feel this inadequacy. PE takes time and you need to start feeling good about yourself now.

Remember, she has had those big football players but she isn’t choosing them, she is choosing YOU.

Gr,

I know exactly what you are going through, but don’t marry this girl if all you are ever going to think about is everyone else that she has been with. I have gone through rough patches in my marriage, and I am trying to help you, not criticize you.

Interesting though, to have a 6 inch pecker at only 5’7” to me is pretty damn good. My dick was under 6 when I started pe and I am over 6 feet and 350 pounds. Good luck buddy.

GO SPURS GO

Nah, fuck that grig. Marry her, because you’s love each other. Don’t let your (and only yours) issues get in the way.

You know how these kind of things are! Your making an adult descision, so for fucks sake act like one. If you don’t marry this girl because of all this I will.

THANK you! Couldn’t agree more, except where you put “mind” in quotation marks. :D

Dino,

The strange thing is I had no issues about her ex. He would even come over now and then, they had children together. We were completely sexually happy so I went with the flow. It was after separating and contemplating going out with other women that the penis size thing started to matter. I actually felt very confident about my penis size for about 6 months after our break up. Then, the bad thoughts started coming back after having no sex for a considerable time. I ran into PE on the NET and thought 8x6 would help my confidence with the ladies.

It’s funny, like I said, I know skinny little guys who are fantastic with women and I know physically I’m better in all aspects. So, what’s the problem? It’s a mind thing. But, having an 8x6 will undoubtably help. I only need 1/4” length and 1/2” girth midshaft. I have a 6” base.

I’m sorry, but everyone who keeps iterating that “the problem” is only in “our minds” has apparently never done the 1-2-3 test.

step 1.) 1 finger: “aaaahhhh, yeah!”

step 2.) 2 fingers: “OOOOOOhhhhh AAAAhhhhh” as she begins a subtle grind

step 3.) 3 fingers: Vocal activity vaccilates between incomprehensible gutteral cries and things you’d never expect from
someone who likes to shop at pottery barn- “OOOOOHHHHH YEAH DADDY, FUCK ME HHHHAAAARDDER…..”

Hey ye all doods! I’m newbie here!doods good to be here! Well doods we are on the same trials and hardship!you know doods I’m proudly to tell yah that I am less than your size! But I’m not ashame of it!I’m proud of it and it makes my inspiration to work hard for it! I have only a size of a tiny tini cutey dick! A 4.5 in length and 4 in girth! This is more smaller than your size! But after just almost a 2months of this wonderful PE now I had 5.3 in length and 4.9 in girth!it’s a wonderful result! I will keep on my daily PE till I reach my goal! Doods were both on your side!we are all! Time will come one of us will be celebrating the success of this wonderful PE! And I’m hoping and positive that I will made my goal victorious! Press on doods!Carry on!

I agree it’s all in your head dude.

I also like hearing about other short in stature guys opposed to taller guys and the relevance to dick size.
I’ve taken a certain amount of crap all my life about being short in height and how this somehow is indicative of my cock size or worthiness as a “man”. I know I’ve written about this before. It’s a pet pevee of mind because there is NO factual basis from which to make such claims.

Now after a year of PE, this little 5 foot seven dude is sporting a 7.5 x 5.5 cock. Not the biggest boy on the block by any means but not the smallest either.

But here’s were it becomes “in our heads”:

When I first started PE’ing I got a lot of unsolicited comments from the wife. I stealth also and she definitely noticed the difference.
Now I don’t get the comments like I used to. She’s also started taking 1, 2 or even 3 days off between sex for “recovery” as she calls it.
She tells me things like your pounding the hell out of it (a good thing she does admit), my pussy’s sore, I’m crampy from your dick, etc, and I need a few days to recover.

Hey Zane while I’m here maybe you could shed some light on this:
My wife does have some pretty intense orgasms and she’s also multi orgasmic. Lately she’s been telling me the more intense the orgasms were, the more crampy she is the next day and the length of crampyness seems to be in direct correlation to the intensity of the orgasms.
Your thoughts?

So after 23 years with same woman you think I would be thinking maybe I should be more understanding. Maybe the dick is tearing it up?
But what do I think instead? My fucked up head says; she lying, your dick isn’t enough. So, it was a sympathy fuck huh. And the worst shit my head wants to tell me: she’s fucking someone else dude and he’s got a HUGE cock.

Now I know all this shit has no basis in reality. It probably comes from reading (into?) to much shit around this place. LOL.
The sex is great and if anything it gets better all the time. She’s even made it her mission to be more open sexually with me.
So the bottom line is: my dicks been getting a lot bigger, she’s becoming more sexually explicit and aggressive with me, and I’m becoming more malcontent with it because my stupid thinking wants to tell me it’s because she learning new tricks with a different dick somewhere else. Now anything is possible, but if you knew how chaotic our life is you’d be telling me it’s a miracle that either of us has the time to fuck at all. Hell, a couple of our friends have even stated; you 2 fuck THAT much, when the hell do you find the time?

And here’s another example:

Tonight we got on the subject, hell if I know how though, of her older sister and her now ex husband. She tells me that her sister said she could fit her ex’s whole cock AND balls in her mouth at once. Naturally I had to bait it, and I said well your sister does have a big fucking mouth (she is known as the family loud mouth). My wife says to me; no! she said it’s because his dick was so small (but she did stay married to him for over 15 years). Now you would think I would be taking pleasure in this conversation but instead I cringed - mostly for him but partly for me also. Even though my wife has told me a thousand time what she thinks of my dick, at that very moment I once again needed to reassured. So I attempted to bait it again.

Well my wife just looks at me and rolls her eyes up and then says; I don’t know why that’s always such a concern of yours anyways. I’ve told you a thousand times I have enough trouble just getting past the head. Then she throws in: do you think I would have stayed around this long if YOU had a dick like that?… (pause).. you’ve got more than enough dick for me… (short pause) …. but if you start touching me again tonight I’m gonna slug your ass. (we had a pretty good night last night).

Again, you would think that I would be pleased at this point. Was I? Well kind of, but a little voice in my head did try to say: bitch is fucking lying to me - and that was the first thought that went through my mind, not the last.

Talk about sabotage man. Wow. See the truth is somehow harder for me to accept sometimes. That I love my wife and that she does love me. And although we have our differences and we’ve been through some tough shit together, she’s more of everything than I give her credit for. She’s also exactly that women I think I’m needing when I think I should be out looking for some strange. That “my woman” is that woman that I always wanted and things are just fine between us…. And still I feel this urge to go dropping spoons in the garbage disposal from time to time. My wife’s even started accusing me of having ADD because of it. Some of us guys just have this hell bent desire to fuck shit up when it’s going great on it’s own. They tell me my biggest trouble is getting out of my own way sometimes.

So yes, I believe it’s all in your head. All that other shit doesn’t really matter. Why sabotage a marriage before it even gets started?
But if you think you’re fucked up, just go back and reread this babble of mine.