From no vaginal orgasms to singles or multiples through PE

My wife has never been one to experience a vaginal orgasm (at least, to my knowledge. Maybe before kids). We’ve had the discussion about how penetration feels good most times but doesn’t cause an orgasm for her.

I have no problem her orgasming through other means, but I’m curious to know if anyone was like that in a relationship and found that PE helped change that. My hypothesis is that a combination of PE and her doing kegels would greatly help and possibly do the trick, but wanted to see if anyone else had experience with this.

And yes, I’m fully aware that not every woman can have an orgasm without clit stimulation, and my wife very well may fall into that category.

Well, if she is clitorical you are pretty much fucked.

You never know though.

Here is the thing. My wife comes with clitoris stimulation very easy. Too easy I would say.

But…when I give her the bull horn, stimulating the g spot she has an orgasm. I don’t touch her clitoris. If I stimulate the clitoris too, she just comes faster and her whole body shakes.She doesn’t squirt. She gushes.

Now, g spot orgasm is a vaginal orgasm. Meaning that any woman may be capable of having both orgasms.

You might wanna check the possibility that she actually has vaginal orgasms caused by penetration, but they might be not intense, like small, short ones, which women may find just as simple pleasure from friction because they have in their mind as an orgasm the big ones they experience from clitoris stimulation.

Just my thoughts.

I’m in the same boat as you. I also think her doing kegels is a good idea. It should be easier for her to do VE than for us to do PE I would think. The problem is of course motivating her to do it

This is 100% the issue.

I bought her the Lelo Luna Beads. They are meant to help her do kegels without her having to actively think to contract her vaginal walls. Of course, she said she didn’t want to use them, but she is not doing kegels either (although she said she would rather do that than use the beads). I’m going to gently press her on it.

I wouldn’t.

Sex for women is all emotion. You make it mechanical she nay resent it.

Now, if you could convince her that it was her idea, then the sky is the limit.

I agree with a unit.

So this thread is now: “how to trick your woman into “VE”“?

Haha

Well, for one, you can’t tell her something along the lines of “honey I’d like you to perform X amount of kegels Y amounts of times Z times per day”.

I’m unsure of how the correct psycological approach actually looks.

Always positive encouragement. ” I really like it when you”, ” I really like it if you would try…”, ” I love feeling you clamp down on my….I would really love if you….” Only thing that works in my experience. / Soulmedeep

4.75 is your base girth or mid shaft girth?

Hi there nshl,

I measure mid - shafts . Where my Penis is the largest , that’s my preference , I want to see if I am getting any larger !!

. Your friend ,

Mark Gross

( Paw paw 😆 )

Mid summer that was my MSEG measurement. I’m slightly smaller than that now (took a break from PE and had not cemented any gains in girth).

It’s my mid shaft dimension . I like to take the biggest size dimension, so I can easily measure gains .