Bib, Jelktoid, any married big gainers..

(Just posting this here because this subject was mentioned, mods move to the appropriate forum)

I’m curious about how your wives reacted as you got bigger. I’m 7.25” BPEL, and 5.5”EG midshaft. I know that I can get at least 7” into my wife. But, except in certain positions or at certain times of the month, I NEVER “hit bottom” that I can tell. In fact, as she gets wet it feels like it just slips all the way in to the hilt. The times it feels tighter are probably due to less lubrication, I really don’t feel the “bottom.”

Now, my wife was very promiscuous and had sex with many large guys. But, I’ve bought a couple of different dildos to play with. One measures 7.5” “insertable length” and 6” girth, it’s the Doc Johnson ” 8 inch UltraRealistic UR3” Using it on her, she can take all but 1” pretty easily but it feels like the dildo “bottoms out.” I can get the last 1” in, but have to push hard and feels like it’s stretching - it will pop back out if I let go. I think it’s the bigger girth that makes the difference. This leads me to believe that the vagina is more like a balloon than a cylinder, because the fatter dildo is bottoming out around 6” - 6.5”, while my 7” won’t - the difference is the increased girth. I’m amazed at how much bigger 6” girth looks compared to 5.5”.

I’m just wondering if there was any point during your PE career that, say she could take all your length at one point. Then you gained girth but not length - suddenly she can’t take the same length as she could before?

Thanks,

wesb

I can’t really help you with your final question. But in relation to girth, 1 inch of girth is actually more volume then 1” of length, which accounts for the difference in size of the dildos.

At 7.25 bpel you are probably bottoming out at least some of the time (If not all the time). At 7.75-8.0 I bottom out all the time. My wife only takes about 6.5-6.75 of a 8” dildo. I don’t think she could handle any more length than I have but I think she could handle 6” girth easily (I’m 5.375-5.5 egms).

wesb,

If my sons are reading this, stop now.

First, you have to understand that before PE, there was almost no friction. My wife has had two kids. Before kids, things were not so tight. After, it was almost a waste of time.

The better, more intense reactions started after about one inch in length. But I had also gained in girth at the base. At about 7.5 inches, we had some problems with me bumping the cervix. I was not long enough to get past it. As I grew, and was able to push the cervix out of the way, things got much better. Rubbing the cervix is OK. Bumping it is not. I learned.

In most positions, I can get most of it in. I would estimate 8.5-9 inches.

I had increased base girth fairly early in my PE career. I feel like this really increased her enjoyment. But that was nothing compared to when I was able to get into the CDS. Apparently, that sensation is remarkable.

Later, when I increased the upper shaft and head girth, I think that I got more enjoyment out of it than she did. She already had the friction from the base girth along with hair stubble. With more upper shaft/head girth, I got more friction on the coronal ridge withn the CDS. It did not seem to give her a lot more pleasure. Of course, these things are hard to judge without an official pleasure meter.

I cannot report that she could take less length, with more upper shaft girth. Seems about the same. But this will probably vary between women.

One thing she has commented on many times: She likes it when I bottom in the CDS, and it pulls the outer lips in, stimulating her clitoris as well.

Hope this helps.

Bigger

Wesb,

I think it really depends on the woman….I’m not large by any means (I’m working on it…hehe), but I’ve been with women that couldn’t take 5 inches before I hit the cervix and I’ve been with women that I put it all the way in and I don’t feel like I’m anywhere near it. Can’t say I’ve ever been past the cervix yet (but I know I will in the future)

RJ

I wonder how often guys hitting something think they are hitting bottom, when actually are just running into the cervix? At 7 1/4 bpel I don’t get past the cervix with my girlfriend. I wish her depth would be as shallow as a woman I had sex with when I was 6 1/4 bpel, when I went by the cervix (for just an exciting moment) with that woman. I could have stayed by it perhaps with this extra inch. I also wonder how many women can get off on having their cervix hit?

I wonder how often guys hitting something think they are hitting bottom, when actually are just running into the cervix?>>

For those of us who have done both there is quite a difference in the feel of it from both her and our perspectives.

If you can feel a ridge on the top of your head (assume missionary) and with a little pressure you can go past it, and feel the ridge go over most of your head, where are you?

Bib
Later, when I increased the upper shaft and head girth, I think that I got more enjoyment out of it than she did. She already had the friction from the base girth along with hair stubble. With more upper shaft/head girth, I got more friction on the coronal ridge withn the CDS. It did not seem to give her a lot more pleasure. Of course, these things are hard to judge without an official pleasure meter.

I cannot report that she could take less length, with more upper shaft girth. Seems about the same. But this will probably vary between women.

Am I correctly understand this — your wife actually found it overall less pleasureable when your girth was evened out?

I have been debating whether or not I want to even out the girth oh my shaft: I have a 7” base; >6” midshaft and 5.5” below head. I’m currently aiming for a girth disposition of >7” base; <7” midshaft; >6” below head; and, importantly a larger head with a larger ridge. All that girth over an excellent length, of course. :nodding:

beenthere
I wonder how often guys hitting something think they are hitting bottom, when actually are just running into the cervix?

luvdadus
For those of us who have done both there is quite a difference in the feel of it from both her and our perspectives.

I’ll be more than willing to attest to that. My gf has a copper spiral attached to her cervix; It is not uncomfortable to hit the spiral — It hurts like :cuss:

ICM
If you can feel a ridge on the top of your head (assume missionary) and with a little pressure you can go past it, and feel the ridge go over most of your head, where are you?

You’re rubbing the cervix, just like Bib talked about.

:-Y P.s. How to quote several posts in one reply, anyone?

Ideal,

>Am I correctly understand this — your wife actually found it overall less pleasureable when your girth was evened out?<

No at all. The pleasure level seemed to increase the entire time I was gaining. I just did not notice as much of an increase in pleasure while gaining, and after gaining the upper shaft girth and head girth as when I gained the base girth and length.

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