Will a bigger penis satisfy my wife?

Hey guys,
I want to start a routine starting from tomorrow. Many times I’ve lurked around the forums but not participated.

For the last 8 years sex with my wife has been confined to doggy, which as you can imagine is getting boring. I believe this is a result of the birth of several children. I have expressed how I would like to do it in different positions but she has said that she doesn’t get much feeling from it, and actually it doesn’t feel tight for me either. This is disappointing. I’ve had problems defining my feelings for her over the years, but have decided to try my best in the marriage for the kids. However, the sex isn’t helping matters at all. It’s not like she doesn’t enjoy it. She totally does and is an easy cummer but only from that one position. And the thing is I don’t consider myself to be small. I’m 7.25-7.5” x 5.6.

I’m figuring that if I grow bigger that my help matters.
Has anyone else had a similar experience and has PE helped?

You’re not a bad size at all, 6.5of9.

Are you saying that sex from behind (doggy-style) seems ‘tighter’ to her (and to you?) than other positions?

Good luck with starting with PE, and congratulations on breaking the ice with a post.

Yep, exactly.

Before the second child we would do it in all the standard positions and before the first one doggy was painful for her.

Maybe you should suggest to her that she needs to perform Kegel exercises to tighten up pelvic floor muscles which will make her feel tighter and able to squeeze you when you enter her. It’s really her that has the problem not you. You are more than adequate in size and in fact your measurements put you above average in size. It sounds like that child birth and other factors like declining abdominal muscles have weakened her pelvic floor muscles and therefore her vagina is not able to return to its more youthful and pre-child state.

I doubt that she would take this news lightly so you may want to recommend that you and her attend a gynecologist who may be able to point this out to her.

Sorry to hear about your experiences post 2nd child. You’re much thicker than me, but I’ve found ways around my average girth. When trying the other positions, have you tried positioning yourself at different angles? For instance, I’ve found I can create a lot of friction missionary style if I’m at an angle above her (rather than parallel to her vagina). Another trick that creates a lot of friction is when I squeeze my wife’s butt together. Another way is when she closes her legs more under mine (I don’t like that way so much but it might work great for you).

Also, I haven’t tried cock rings myself yet, but I’ve they can increase your size while wearing them.

Good luck with your PE. I hope everything works out for you!

Cheers guys,

Yeah I’ve heard about kegels for ladies but just can’t bring myself to talk to her about them. It’s a tricky one I guess. It’s not like I could leave a brochure by her bed or anything LOL.

Yeah, I’ve kind of messed around with different angles. I kind of thought that reverse cowgirl would be fine considering that is the same as doggy but upside down, but alas same problem as with the other ones.

Yeah I know how you feel as my wife was like that after our third child was born and so I was on a business trip in the US and purchased a Kegel device which is basically a large stainless steel bell shaped dildo that you insert into the vagina and then perform kegels. It was recommended by a gynecologist as a way for women to regain that tight and more youthful feel. Needless to say my wife didn’t like the idea but never said anything about my purchase. It makes a great dumbbell or paper weight too!

Its not a problem with you, its a problem with her, she was mean enough to say there isnt much feeling to you, she needs to do kegels.

You sure are not small, in fact you are quite big. So, it’s not a penis problem, neither a vagina problem (like others have suggested) but a “mental” one.

For women sex is (or should be like “experts” says) especially a mental thing. They want to be turn on. A big dick is sure helpful, but you also to stimulate her fantasy.

That’s why 99on100 female would prefere make love with johnny depp/bred pitt regardless their dimension rahter then with rocco siffredi.

(But if they can make love with johnny depp and rocco siffredi I don’t think they would refuse :) )

Only one way to know for sure. We will send one of the donkey dicked guys over to bang your wife.

I agree with this.

Communicating your needs and desires in a marriage is essential. And then having them met in a healthy loving way is essential too.

You could also try natural progesterone as that is a key hormone in the menstrual cycle, after a birth progesterone levels often drop. This hormone can initiate the desire in you wife.

And also kegals are a must for all women. I have my wife do them and she has no kids yet and is mid 20’s. It’s easier for them to tighten up then you to grow your dick (as zaneblue once said) but if you guys both work at it it could solve your problem even faster. Tell her you will do exercises too.

Are you 7.5 BPEL on NBPEL ?

A bigger dick will help, but I’m thinking that there is more to it then just the size of the ship (and it isn’t exclusive to the motion of the ocean either).

Also, making your penis bigger isn’t the only solution you have. Kegels are most definitely a thing your wife needs to consider. That aside, after three kids, I’m think you two are teenagers again, so act accordingly!

Frustration is a turn of for women, so get your A game out mister!

I got really curious so I found these

http://www.benwaballs.net/

Btw I advocate you both do exercises :) together even.