Wife and gains.

I’m new to this forum and have been Stretching and jelqing for a month and have gained .25 in length and about the same in girth. I’ve read other threads about other peoples gains that were more significant than mine and they mentioned that their wife or girlfriend didn’t know they were doing PE. They didn’t mention if their partner noticed the change. My wife does not know I’m doing PE and has not mentioned that I feel bigger. Has anyone been in this situation and at what point did their partner start noticing a change in size? Was it .25, .50 or 1 inch in length or girth??

Starting BPEL. 6.25. Present 6.5
Starting EG. 5.3. Present 5.5

Goal 8x6

Hi Mdb1970,

Welcome to the forum.

It’s worth remembering that a partner is unlikely to expect a change in size and so, even if she has noticed already, she might not say anything.

I’m sure you’ll get some responses from people in long term relationships shortly.

Welcome to the forum. Depends on the woman I guess. 4”-6” is the depth of a woman’s vagina. Her g-spot is somewhere in between, but the wider you are the more pleasure she’ll get out of it. A 1/4 inch in girth is actually a bigger change than you would think. She can definitely feel a change for something like that.

Would you notice if her breasts increased by a half a cup size over several months?

I’ve had decent gains, but it was over a long period and I have never told my wife, so I don’t blame her for not noticing.

She may NEVER notice or say anything…but you may notice she either wants it more or she cums harder or quicker or more times.

I have noticed this. My wife now really likes me to pound her hard when she’s close to climaxing. In fact it’s hard enough I’ll sometimes get a little sore from bottoming out.

She also seems to really enjoy it when we have sex and my cock is still plump from pumping.

Thanks for welcome everyone. I guess I can understand that she wouldn’t exactly notice over a one month time frame. She has mentioned recently that I was really hard though. Is it just me or is it common to see more gains in BPEL than NBPEL? My NBPEL hasn’t changed at all.

I noticed that she responded to the change in my size. I’ve seen her look at my dick a little differently but she’s not awair or sharing it with me if she knows. Actually I know she doesn’t know as she put me down again this weekend with something to the effect that I was 6” in my dreams. I’ll probably be 8” x 3” and she’ll still tease me like that. I think it has become an old habit of hers. I should just tell her that I don’t like it and if she continues then she will have to suck my little cock just to see if it’s less than 6”. That would be a fun conversation as she does not want to suck my dick ever! That’s too nasty! Oh boy. What a straight laced little farmgirl I married. :) I love her so I’ve accepted her shortcomings when I married her. She wouldn’t suck it then and she isn’t sucking it now.

Reading that hurt me! Jeez man. Unless you two are in the kind of relationship where quips are commonplace and not meaningful, that’s some unacceptable garbage right there.

I’d be sure to fire a verbal salvo right back at my woman if she said something stupid like that.

I totally agree flimflam. I would unleash on my old lady if she said that to me.

I think it is possible that you’d meassured wrongly at the beginning your BP lengh.

If the comments are perceived by you as negative, then you need to let her know how you feel and listen to what she says in response.

I’ve spoken about my ex before and it got to the point with her where I slept on the couch (there were other problems also).

I found that the way my ex treated me was huge motivation for me when I first came here to get bigger and still occasionally I will get tingles of dread remembering her words.

My new wife has never mentioned my size, but she loves what we do together, even though occasionally I fantasize about the things she could possibly say about how much bigger it’s become!

I’ve been doing PE for 2 years now and have gained around 2 inches in length and 1/2” in girth. My wife has never said anything like “My god, you are much bigger than when we met!” However, she makes frequent comments about my size being “huge” or “super hard”. In the 13 years we have been together I don’t remember hearing those types of comments prior to my new size.

Also, just as we have days when we are larger or more full because of increased blood flow, women too experience things that may make her feel tighter or looser.. Would you ever tell her that she feels loose? LOL

I want you all to know that I love my wife and she does not mean anything malicious. She isn’t put together like that. It’s my problem and I really should tell her that it hurts me. I’d rather just have her say once that I’m so big that I make her cum or anything positive for my ego. She does say some nice things too like “Wow that was sure fun!” This mornings comment. I don’t know if either of us came but we really did have fun and she liked it hard. I’m convinced it’s my larger size doing it cause she kegels a lot whereas she seldom did that in the past. She does it so hard that if I’m not fully erect she pushes me right out! I would hate to tell her and ruin the good thing I’ve got going with her. So she ribs me about being a small dick once in a while. I’m a bigger boy than I used to be in more than one way! :)

Wouldn’t that be the ultimate if instead of just saying you’re huge she suddenly came out and said, “I don’t where you got that sudden growth spurt from but I sure am enjoying it!” What an ego and EQ boost! :thumbs: