Also, it’s a matter of perception. It’s normal to notice what you are focused on and lose sight of everything else that is background. If you are a 6’3 basketball player and wish more than anything you were at least 6’6, and hang out mostly with other ball players who are all you height or bigger, and talk about how tall you all are and how much you all wish you were taller all the time, you will naturally start to feel like 6’3 isn’t really that tall at all, and that 6’6 is a reasonable height to wish for. You actually stop noticing people who are shorter because it’s not what you are focused on, it just doesn’t mean anything to you.
To the rest of us who are normal people with normal, you and your friends would sound nuts. Unlike you, we aren’t filtering out the 99.9% who are normal height. We see someone 6’3 and say they are tall. We recognize that 6’6 is even taller, but 6’3 isn’t exactly puny either.
When it comes to dick size, there is a whole industry based around fueling that idea of big dicks being normal, and huge ones just big. It’s not reality, but it’s hard to get out of that mentality and see the truth.
“I was like, Am I gay? Am I straight? And I realized...I'm just slutty. Where's my parade? What about slut pride?”
― Margaret Cho