What is the current recommended Grip while Jelqing?

That’s not what I meant. What I’m saying is that the OK grip leads to a counterproductive focus where people squeeze their CS because it creates a visual effect (glans inflation). It’s exacerbated by the fact that the natural way to tighten the grip is to flatten it by moving the tips of the fingers closer to the hand.

To take it a littler further, the fundamental problem is that people are taught a motion with no idea what it should feel like. So it’s natural to assume that whatever creates an intense feeling (overpressure in the skin, CS and glans) is correct, while in fact, it is not the productive way to go about it - not to mention that it carries more risk of injury.

You’ll be able to apply plenty of pressure by pinching the shaft between the first joint of the thumb and the forefinger and it largely limits the force to where it’s actually useful.