What are things that I can do to build confidence
Hi everyone. I have some questions and since I don’t really know where I could find answers for them, I thought I would try here. I know it’s sad that I am looking for advice in a PE forum but this place IS all about building confidence right?
Let me go ahead and start..
There is a girl that I liked. She liked me too. Right after she met me, a week later she met another guy. She liked him too. During the summer, my life took a turn for the worst. I was homeless and struggling. I had no home, car, or a job. I was a mess. While I was struggling, she began getting closer to that guy. I don’t know if they are together or not but I am assuming that they are.
She once told me that actions speak louder than words and now I am here. I have stabilized my life and I am trying to rebuild my confidence. Be different. Be better. I still don’t have a car or a job but I am looking into those things. For almost a year, I was practically in the streets. I’m going to be 24 this year and I feel like a kid. I want to gain back my confidence. Just that you all know, I am not doing this for her, I am doing this for me. Even still, I want her to see a different me. A better me that would make her feel like.”I’m missing out something great”.
Number one, I have began working out again and I am looking into a job and a car but I want to do more. So here are my questions..
1. What can I do to show confidence (I.E. Do I talk to her or not?)
2. What makes a person confident?
3. What are things that I can do in order to show her (and others as well) that I have things under control?
4. Any suggestions of things I can do?
5. Lastly, are there any websites or forums which could really help me out with this? I’m extremely determined.
Thanks guys, I hope I get replies. I know this is silly but my goal is to be seen as a man who can really hold his own and stands out from the rest. I am a humble person and want my actions to speak for me. I want my confidence back and I am going to do everything to obtain it so please help me!
Again, I know that it is pathetic to post something like this on this website of all places but you have to start somewhere. Maybe you all could direct me to a better website that could help me.