Too big

I’m sure this has been asked before but I didn’t turn it up on a quick search.

Do any of you guys feel that you became too big? Specifically, too long?

This may be worrying about something that ain’t ever gonna happen, but I think I would be frustrated if I became large enough to have to worry about “putting it all in” or became large enough that women had difficulty giving me a blowjob, or just didn’t want to because it was too uncomfortable.

For some women that feel pain with cervical contact, not being able to grind against your pubic bone in girl-on-top or missionary positions could be a real limitation. My woman gets off on my scrotum banging against her clit when “slamming it home” doggystyle and I would hate to screw that up.

I am currently looking at 56 years old and feel like I have lost a bit of size that I would like to regain. I am not poorly-endowed: BPEL 6.5-6.75 and EG 5.3-5.5 depending on quality of erection. I think I would like to get up to about 7.5 in long and 6.0 in girth. Have any of you guys who are this size had the types of difficulties I describe above?

Thanks for any help and advice in advance.

I’m right where you are concerned about and nada- no problemo whatsoever.

I find myself bottoming out with a fair number of women in certain positions- CG being one- but the women in question seem to enjoy rubbing off their CDS on my glans tip. Where exactly each pussy ends depends not only on that woman but also on that woman at that particular moment— the more turned on she be the less likely I’ll bottom.

Not a single woman that I have bottomed out with has complained- in fact it has been an eye-opener for me how much of a difference that it can make for them.
For the better ;)

Now get on it!

Here are several threads that you might find of interest:
The Size at which a Penis is Too Big: Info from 3rd Channel 4 Documantery
Painful Sex for my Sweetie: Why Do You And I Want To Be Seven Inches in Girth?
Anybody here have to much length?

Redbear52,

If you where larger when you where younger, through PE you will gain your old size back - pretty quickly and maybe even surpass it.

So that is the upside, it sounds like you used to be in the lower 7 in range - so you will get back to that, quicker than you would expect.

Whats funny, is I was basically around 7” in college without the bone press. I still remember feeling “tiny”, and now I realize I wasn’t.

There is nothing wrong with being avg, I personally believe the different tool sizes can provide different types of pleasure. Mental confidence is the number one key, and a huge aprodisiac for the ladies.

The one thing is true though, that there are some positions, that having a couple of extra inches do make alot easier to do.

The larger sizes, for some women are a huge mental stimulous - so you do get more into their head and the experience seems more intense to them, but it’s mental. Sex is mental. You can get that far into them mentally through your communication and confidence.

On the “too big” question, YES it is very possible. On the girths, once you get to 6” in girth you may experience tooth scrapes, and most women will not get a 7” girth past the molars - it will block - so you will simply be able to get a 3” blow job at this point.

Most of us who realize this, say that 6-6.25” girth and NO more.

Good luck on your personal quest and welcome to Thunders.

This question was in my head the other night. I realize, I envy the guys here that are open with their partner about PE. The guys asking their wives/boyfriend/girlfriend “do you want more girth? Length?” have a great setup. They can tailor themselves to what the other wants, and please them perfectly. I don’t want to date one girl who is a size queen, hit that 8x6, then have her say “oh wow I can’t even blow you now, let alone try anal.” If that happened I would be out in the rain, hands in the air, yelling “NOOOOOOOOOOOOO” to the heavens. I think I’ll hit 8x5.9, then see who I end up with and see what she wants. Or I could date pornstars.

That made me laugh.

I only know one guy that has had multiple problems with girth issues, but he is in excess of 7” girth. Case in point on length would be, and bare with me as this is the only case that I know is true, my sister is a very small girl. She is maybe 5’4” 110lbs. The guy she’s was dating could “drop his cock into a pringles can flaccid and hit the bottom of it”. She said his girth was the same as a “Smirnoff Ice bottle”. They seemed to have no difficulty as far as being “too” big. She recently left this guy, whom we called Juan-aconda, and started dating a guy that in her words is “probably about average” showing a hand gesture around 5-6” and what could best be guessed at 4-5”. How do I know this, my sister is very open in discussing her men. The scariest thing is Jaun said that he actually has a cousin who is larger than him. He didn’t brag about his size and was actually a bit embarrassed by it I think.

She hot? You got any pics? Naked pics?

;)

Ok, now that…. I would not be able to believe unless i saw it, no matter who told me.

I had a little “issue” the other night. I believe it was girth related not length.
Here is the post
Shunga - The Shunga Report

shunga

How did I know, it would be you to ask that first? LOL

I know that my sister is not one prone to stories aka lies. If she said it, it’s fact. Don’t fool yourself into believing that these are the things of myth because they are out there, anamolies maybe, but they are there none the less. I worked for awhile in a super-max (SHU) prison in Indiana. In this unit, it is one offender to a cell and they are locked down 23.5 hours per day. They never leave the unit. When they come out of their cell, they are required to be cuffed, leg shackled, belted and then a leash goes under the leg shackles to a ring on the belt and you walk them to the shower, nurse and everywhere leash in hand.

Now, when your new to the West wing of the SHU, the old guys will always send you to one cell in particular at first chance. Inside this cell is a caucasion male offender, mid thirties, about 5’4” tall and 125lbs. or so. You have him stand with his back to you and extend his hands behind him through the cuff port. Once he’s cuffed, you have the pod open the door. You put the belt on him and then bend down to put the leg shackles on. He is already wrapped in his towel and shower ready. As soon as you bend down you are greeted by about 2” of cock hanging past his towel! In the meantime, your trainers are rolling on the floor laughing at your shocked reaction. The little guy (oxymoron for sure) turns to me and says, “they do that to all of you cherries”. Now, just an educated guess would be atleast 11” soft and 6.5” girth. Believe this, because I was there. I was face to face with the largest penis that I have ever seen in my life and it was of insane proportions!

Both my first ex-wife and my second ex-wife introduced me to a stripper “chocolate shake” in chicago. Probably 9-10” soft and 14” erect. It was longer than my forearm, and thick as my wrist, easily over 7” girth.

The first ex-wife, I got the honor of seeing him on her bachelorette party video. It was bigger than a baby arm on this video. It looked like it
Couldn’t be real, because it made all the porn-stars look avg.

My second ex-wife, took me to a party, which sent out a female stripper first, then the male. In the guys G-string he had a sleeve on the front,
Sleeve looked nearly a foot long and was packed. It was “chocolate shake” again..

Of course I assumed the G strings sleeve was full of stuffing.

Well the guy pulled it out, and he got an erection. His erection was easily 5” to 6” past the right of his hip.

I also got the honor of being in about 2 ft away from this thing, he draped it over a womans shoulder and there was 5-6” of hang down the chest.

Now when I got the honor of seeing that, of course mine turtled. My wife wanted to be pounded out that night - I nearly couldn’t get an erection.
Mentally I felt like a weiner in a soup can.

I told my uncle (Big Al) about the story, who we knew as the biggest at estimated greater than 8” on a 5’4” frame. He said it was “gross”.

What ethnicity was Juan? Funny story about the hung inmate though!

ive heard of these “chocolate shake” guys on HBO real sex. They wet to some male strip club where all the guys would get a semi, then tie off at the base before putting their g strings on. The g strings has a sleeve for it to go in. It looked like the smallest was 6 or 7, and only 20% to 50% erect. But would you want to be chocolate shake? I wouldn’t. It’s good for being a freak show, and for walking into a locker room and winning an unspoken contest. But I get off when i go all the way in a girl, and feel the base in her. If that couldn’t happen, I would be bummed. That is def. too big.

“Chocolate Shake” was the guys stage name. He def was over 8” soft and over one foot hard. It is a freak thing. He was 5’6” tall,

Ripped and when it was erect it went down to his knees, probably very close. It looked like it weight at least 5 pounds when it was erecteded.

I realized even then, that he would get 8” or so into most women and the rest would be outside and “dry”.

Today, I realize that he cannot even get oral sex, not even a bit, that most of the affect will be showing it off to woman who are acting like
Men looking at a big set of boobies.

Actually the guy could stick it into a adult horse or cow and make it breathless, probably knock their uterus out of place.

These exaggerations are not necessarily a bad thing, for us here. We know we don’t want or need to be that big and will never be.

But if you do need motivation, IE: feeling avg again or slightly less, then look at them make you feel small.