I have some personal experience with this. I had dated this girl for a couple of months and things were going really well, but we had not done anything really sexual except for some heavy kissing and fondling. One night we were fooling around on the couch and she asked me why I had not “tried anything yet.” I felt comfortable enough with her to tell her about my insecurity in the size department.
We had a great talk about it and afterwards my insecurity about my size was somewhat gone. We had mind blowing sex, and she said all the right things to fill me with confidence. We got married a year later.
I think all relationships are built on complete honesty and wide open communication. Hmmm…maybe I should tell her about my PE!
Gut Scramblin' goodness.