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Small guy help

Hey, guys! This is my first post here. I am 4.5” BPEL, 4” EG. Because I’m this small I’m still a virgin (I had to reject a few offers, because I didn’t want people to find out that I have a small dick). Now I have a girlfriend and I really like this girl. We used to be friends before this. Should I go on with this relationship, or it would be better if I get out of it while I still can? Is there a chance that I won’t lose her because of my size? I really don’t want my friends to find out about me having a small dick. Are there any guys here close to my size who had sex and it didn’t go bad for them in the end?

If you’re insecure about it, why rush it my friend ? You are at Thunder’s place and that means you’re gonna add inches. So it’s up to you to feel the way and do so.

You should at this moment back off. My girlfriend rejected me because of my size (6 inch nbpel) and this really hurted me. Of course not everyone is like this, but there is an chance so get a bigger before you proceed.

But then, in case she really would shout your numbers all over the place it would be really funny to prove her wrong later on.

Ask anybody (outside TP ;) ), you can’t increase your dick size ;)

On a sidenote:

If she really likes you as you seem to like her I wouldn’t worry too much (especially since you two were friends to begin with).

In other words:

Stop worrying.. worrying won’t get you anywhere.

Start feeling better about yourself every day.

As unlikely as it seems, a bigger dick won’t change your insecurities.

So start working on these first (and do some PE.. just for yourself.. After all PE is a marathon, not a sprint..).

Good luck on your gains,

Ys


She said you had a small dick huh? Well just remind her of what Tom Arnold said about his soon to be ex-wife, Roseanne, when she said very publicly that he had a little dick - "Hell, even a 747 looks small when you put it in the Grand Canyon". START: 2004-12-06 EBPL 6.70" BPEL, EG 5" CURRENT STATUS: Full Healing Break (Plasticized ligaments need time to heal -- Beware the rotating manual stretches ;) ) 2005-01-07 EBPL 7.68", EG 5" GOAL: EBPL 8.5" (ENBPL 7.9"), EG 6"

I wouldn’t worry about it to much man. I had sex and I was worried about my penis size as well. She liked to give oral so it was a plus that I wasn’t all huge. Besides if you get to the point of sex and you keep pushing her off she will think you don’t find her attractive then you will create more problems then just your own. If your relationship is really good maybe you can tell her yourself. There is a lot more to a good relationship then a big penis. Besides that’s why your here to improve your size so if you stick with her maybe you can surprise her throughout the months to come.


Current measure ment 8-2-06 EL- 5.5, EG- 5.25, BPEL-6 7/6, BPFSL-7.25

Short term goal EL- 6.0, EG-5.5

Long term goals EL- 7 to 7.5, EG- 5.5 to 6.0

Originally Posted by latency
You should at this moment back off. My girlfriend rejected me because of my size (6 inch nbpel) and this really hurted me. Of course not everyone is like this, but there is an chance so get a bigger before you proceed.

Mr. latency,

I suspect that isn’t the reason she dumped you. She wanted to hurt you, and that’s one of the easiest ways. 6”NBP isn’t small.

Originally Posted by sandudan
Hey, guys! This is my first post here. I am 4.5” BPEL, 4” EG. Because I’m this small I’m still a virgin (I had to reject a few offers, because I didn’t want people to find out that I have a small dick). Now I have a girlfriend and I really like this girl. We used to be friends before this. Should I go on with this relationship, or it would be better if I get out of it while I still can? Is there a chance that I won’t lose her because of my size? I really don’t want my friends to find out about me having a small dick. Are there any guys here close to my size who had sex and it didn’t go bad for them in the end?

I suspect she’ll be fine with it. Definitely find a good PE routine and stick with it though. ;)

sandudan, from one smaller guy to another, I highly suggest you go for it. If you don’t learn to get over you’re penis size insecurities, you’ll always be afraid. Sure, maybe you’ll make some great gains from PE. Why wait though? There’s no time like the present, make a move and hope for the best. There are other ways to please women, and if she dumps you just because of your size, she’s not worth it in the first place. As for your friends, even if they do find out, so what? Sure, maybe they’ll tease you a little about it, but it’s all good. If they’re real friends, they don’t mean any harm by it.


Small, but growing!

The name keeps me motivated.

Originally Posted by sandudan
Hey, guys! This is my first post here. I am 4.5” BPEL, 4” EG. Because I’m this small I’m still a virgin (I had to reject a few offers, because I didn’t want people to find out that I have a small dick). Now I have a girlfriend and I really like this girl. We used to be friends before this. Should I go on with this relationship, or it would be better if I get out of it while I still can? Is there a chance that I won’t lose her because of my size? I really don’t want my friends to find out about me having a small dick. Are there any guys here close to my size who had sex and it didn’t go bad for them in the end?

Don’t get in the habit of rejecting sex. If it is “I’m too small” now, it will be some other insecurity later.

Do youself a favor and screw this girl. A fairly dark room is a bit of an equalizer. Use you fingers and tongue to get her going. By the time you put your cock in her, she should be dying for it. It won’t be a time when she gets picky.

Go for it!

My girlfriend likes good sized cock. Still, her previous boyfriend was about the same size as you, yet she stayed with him for over a year because she loved him (and he knew how to use his tong).

It’s not only about your penis size. There are a billion ways to satisfy your friend sexually. Be confident in yourself, if you really like her you’ll please her.


If I had PE as much as I have lurked, I would be hung like a donkey.

I have heard girls say that they have had amazing sex from guys even smaller than you, like thenatural said, learn to use your tongue and turn it into a machine and she will compliment you for years to cum ;)

Remember, most girls when they masturbate use their finger, and you are bigger than a female finger for definite.

6 months after an amazing and well-planned PE session, you will have a harder, bigger and stronger dick. A lot of the smaller guys gain really quickly. I know from previous PE experience.

Good luck and post again soon.


Currently doing manual stretches, jelqing and starting ULI's. Still trying to lower my tight and very high erection angle.

BPEL: 6.2 inches / NBPEL: 5.7 inches / EG: 4.5 inches

Thanks for all the support.

You got to take risks in life my friend. If your friends find out, they find out. Hell, most guys know that woman scorned may spread the rumor that their ex-man had a small penis even if it was over 7”.

Let’s see, what would I do? I would sit her down and have a long honest conversation. Let her know what is troubling you without sounding too much like a pussy.

Say something like “It seems like things are getting pretty close between us. I need to let you know something about myself before we decide to get even closer. First off, I am a virgin. Secondly, I was not blessed in the downtown department. There is really nothing I can do about the latter (yeah, I know, PE, but this is not the time to talk to her about that and the road to a bigger penis is not an overnight thing). You need to let me know in advance if either of these are an issue with you before I let myself really fall for you.”

Whatever you do, don’t go whining about it, just state those issues as fact and that is that.

Good luck.


Gut Scramblin' goodness.

Honesty is the best policy. Tell her you are insecure about your size. If she truly cares about you, she will understand and try to encourage you. Remember, most meaningful relationships are built on much more than sex. Also, women in general view sex differently than men. If penis size and sex were the only things that mattered I would still be a single virgin, not married with three kids!

Here’s another thing you can do that will separate you from almost all of the other guys: Pay close attention to her, and her pleasure. Be really unselfish, look into her eyes and let her know that she is all that exists for you at that moment. Many, many guys are selfish lovers, and women often go without satisfaction. See that she is satisfied and she will care little about your dick.

Thanks, guys! I’m more confident now and I think I’ll go on with this relationship.

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