Should I be scared?

I was just finished with today’s linear routine for newbies and it got me thinking about injuries such as ED and loss of sensitivity that kinda horrified me. I’ve been doing a lot of insane and crazy things when I was a young, horny kid (sticking it in a hole on the couch and such things which I can’t believe I’ve done), masturbating it every day for a few times and literally beat the shit out of it. I also tried stretching only for one month and those very pretty nasty stretches as I remember.. But never ever had any problems with my little dude. But now when I’m little bit smarter I’m worried about jelqing but I desperately need gains. So taking all of the beating in an account and that I never had any problems with it, could a mild grip jelqing cause an injury if done properly? It’s a silly question and situation but I would like some support as I don’t know what to think anymore.

Follow the linear newbie routine after you’ve read and reread what it’s all about. Start slowly.

Jelqing is a really nice and effective penis exercise, it’s also really safe when practiced with brain. Do not use too much pressure while milking and try to avoid high erection levels if you are a beginner, the max that can happen by doing this is overtraining your unit but serious injury happen when you really fuck up too much.

You’ll most likely be fine. Also, I’d bet you don’t desperately need gains. Usually it’s us that worry about this. Women really mostly don’t care I believe. Problem with reading about dick size on the Internet is that the only women responding are the ones that searched something about dick size. You sound young still, your most likely fine. Enjoy

I am very glad you have your concerns. Because the above statement scares me. Like others have said start with the linear newbie routine. Listen to the feedback that your penis provides.

Give it time.

Well about that I desperately need gains.. My gf and I were sexting one night and the thing looked like this: me: Do you like my buddy?
She:yes I do, but I would love it even more if he was bigger hahahha :D
And I got so mad at her and we had a fight about how she can tell me that and she said she was just kidding and all but that didn’t help. I do see she enjoys during intercourse, but that got me really bad. And I do suffer from sexual anxiety because I once ejaculated too early and she attacked me about that so bad I don’t even want to think about that. I had improved my stamina and can go really long now but I still am anxious every time.

Thank you all, I shall continue the routine and hope to some gains until the end of the summer. :)

Dump her don’t waste your energies with toxic girls.

You don’t need a new penis, just a new girlfriend.

Usually the chicks with their own anxieties love the power they can wield over you by making comments like that. You ejaculated early you just tell her you were so turned on by her. There are methods on this site and elsewhere that will help you control that.

You can increase size but unless you are lucky it is a marathon not a sprint.

I can almost guarantee that even if you found a genie that made it 2 inches longer and 2 inches thicker she would still say something to cut you down. If not about your penis then something else. The problem with the penis is they know it is a sensitive area, so the ones with problems will make comments if they sense any weakness.

She isn’t like other girls to whom size matters, she was just stupid and immature earlier in the relationship. Now she is more supporting than before because she learned some things.

But I would still love a bigger penis to feel better about myself.

And premature ejaculation is not a problem any more, I last more than an hour know thanks to thicker condoms and start and stop technique :)

What is your size?

If you are willing to answer, I will tell you something useful about your girlfriend.

I am 5.0 erect length and 4.7 girth.

And sure, tell. :) Send a private message if you want.

Do you think that maybe she meant to see it bigger as in not on a little picture on a cell phone but in person? It may look bigger in person. You had a fight over that?

I didn’t send her picture, she mentioned because we had sex few times before that and she knew how big it is. And she keeps telling me it was just a joke and she didn’t mean that but damn that increased my anxiety even more. And I’m only 18 for crying out loud.

So who’s got the issue; you or her? Wanna ruin a relationship over a joke?

It didn’t bring our relationship in question. I just got really offended and told her that she can’t tell me things like that but we solved that out. It was 2 months ago but after that I realized I should do something about it.