Sex instead than PE

Ok this is weird. My girl stayed over last night and we were intimate last night and this morning. However this morning was supposed to be a scheduled PE day. Obviously I wasn’t able to do it this morning. I guess my point is I feel that I missed out on a good session this morning even though I got to have sex. Has anyone else experienced this feeling?

I have.. I don’t think its a big problem.. You’re just really focused on achieving your goal!

I have that problem but I manage to take a long shower do jelqs and a pumping session I hide my pump in the bathroom in a spot she wouldn’t look so far so good 2nd month of hiding things. What is your routine?

My advice is to always pick sex instead of PE. You will be happier, and your girl too.

Never, ever turn down sex with our girl. It’s the very reason we PE. To have more enjoyable sex is the goal. Why would you run a race get in the lead and not want to cross the finish line. PE can wait.

It’s one of the reasons I gave up clamping so regularly. The wife wanted sex but I couldn’t get it up due to clamping. That will never happen again.

I totally understand where you’re coming from. I enjoy PE and really want to adhere to the program to get the most of what I’m trying to do. At the same time, my relationship has to come first and I would never turn down sex because I wanted to PE instead. Mostly, I’d be worried that if I kept turning down sex my wife would start to think I was cheating on her. That could lead to a terrible conversation which goes something like this:

Wife: “You never want sex anymore. Am I unattractive? Are you cheating on me?”
Me: “NO! I love you and love having sex with you. It’s just that our sex is ruining my PE sessions.”
Wife: “So instead of having sex with me you’d rather grab a bottle of lotion and play with yourself?”

You can see how that conversation would spiral out of control very quickly. Long story short, keep your relationship healthy first, worry about PE later.

Co-sign this.

Good advice here. Sex is way more important than pe.

Sex takes priority over PE. ALWAYS. :cheerlead

What do you want to remember 30 years from now? Great sex with your girlfriend or a 250 jelqs?

I have to agree with what everyone is saying here. I just wanted to share this conflicting emotion. Thanks everyone for the feedback.

Listen to this guy.

His pointing on the time that you can’t PE because your girl is next to you. So yes I pick up sex. Do you really think 1 or 2 days off will hurt you :D Take my advice, If your gf is in your bed, Don’t think of PE, or just go to the bathroom jelq 10 minutes while taking a shower. And if she really want to take a shower with you, then just forget about PE. Your doing PE to have fun after all, So have fun, and when she leave, you continue.

Why not include her, put on a show for her or just tell her you need 20 minutes of alone time. I do 100% agree with the previous posts though that sex is the whole point of PE in the first place. I am married and just started PE and haven’t told my wife that I am doing it but I am not going to hide it, I just want to see if I get some gains what reaction it will garner from her!

Good point the above poster said, regarding the fact the you could include her in your “program” .

Also if you love her and you mean to remain with her for a long time, always choose sex, but if you really want to PE, think that you’ll have more pleasure in the end(resulting from PE) than the pleasure on the short term(sex) and don’t plan to stay with your gf for much time, choose PE .

I enjoy pumping, putting on a tight cock ring, and kegeling while inside her which engorges my erection even more. Sort of like having sex and pumping/clamping at the same time. I occasionally feel guilty about replacing my PE with sex, but the guilt feeling rarely lasts more then 30 seconds.