PE When Always Flaccid

So, before I get to far into this I’ll say that I don’t have issues with PD ( I don’t believe) because when I’m with a women I can get it up , go like a jack rabbit and then do it again .. Up to 5 times in a night ranging between 5 to an hour and 25 mins ( the sessions get longer exponentially). However, porn does nothing for me anymore and I can beat my dick till it’s black n blue and still not get it up.

I had a bathmate hydromax X30 that I used for a bit until it sucked in one of my balls in and I decided it was a tool of Satan and threw it away. ( Not my smartest choice ever but I missed the return window). Anyways, the bathmate helped with morning erections a bit but they would only last for about 10 or 15 mins before disappearing.

I now have a leluv 1.75 cylinder with a hfs brake bleeder set up but since I’m doing flaccid I can’t get a good seal without some testicle pain. I end up pumping continuously and then have maybe a 25% erection to jelq with if I’m lucky and that’s if I can get the seal to hold. (Maybe the cylinder is too big?) I’ve read everything I could find for the last 3 or so months via advanced search and I’ve hit a brick wall.

So I’ve been doing everything flaccid from pumping, jelqing, stretches, you name it. Anyone else had this issue or have any advice.

I’m currently 6.5 BPEL and 4.5 EG my goal is 7.5 BPEL and 5EG .. I believe this to be completely possible but need some guidance as to what can be done here.

Please help

Anyone?

Sounds bad man, I would consider getting some information about ED cure

I don’t think ED is an issue when I can get it up over and over again when not alone.

Unless you are 50 or older, i think it’s highly unlikely it is ED. With ED, you can get it up and use it for a bit but it deflates before you are done or you just cannot ever get it up. I’m thinking this is more of a mental issue. Perhaps, excessive porn or some kind of trauma.

Btw, porn does nothing for me, which is good since it is so harmful. Additionally, i never come out if the tube erect. I am between 25 and 50%, at best.

You jelqing at 100% flaccid? I shoot for 25 to 50% when i jelq. I avoid jelqing while fully erect.

One last thing, you have the same stats i gad when i began this journey. :-)

How old are you? I’m 51 and have trouble getting hard for this stuff too but I can rail a chick no problems. I get up when they kiss me! I’ve started using Cialis so I can clamp sometimes or pump when it’s really hard. I know my progress has suffered because I can’t get hard by myself. I’m gonna quit drinking and keep a log of my training and see if I can improve.(been drinking excessively due to possible divorce looming)

Sounds like excessive drinking, divorce and a lack of proper stimulation may be the culprit. I am 51, too, and when i am by myself doing PE, i struggle with an erection. If i am having sexy time with the Mrs then i have no issue at all. It’s a mental thing.

Well yea that makes sense

I’m 33 and in pretty decent shape. The only thing I can think that caused it is promoscent. I took it once for a hair trigger issue that has since all but disappeared from that 1 time use somehow. (it does work wonders for making you last longer in my experience tho.)

The other thing it could be is I used to use cockrings a lot so maybe I wore it too long?

And yes 100% flaccid jelqs .. Which is an issue.

As for porn I haven’t really watched porn to get hard in well over 5 years. Nothing but a woman’s touch seems to do it and even that I can get bored of at times.

Maybe it is trauma 🤷‍♂️

I don’t drink or smoke . I don’t even drink caffeine unless it’s in tea.

Glad to know it’s a quite possible goal to reach!

Divorce was over a year ago so I guess that’s possible at first but now I’d think I’d be past it.