Online dating with big dick

Being hung only benefits you if that is something she is attracted to. Otherwise, only hookup sites would get you more attention. And that’s assuming you include pics or measurements. On most dating sites, women will steer clear of profiles mentioning penis sizes, and most dating sites don’t allow nudity in posted pictures. But the women who truly care about Penis size, and there are plenty of them out there, will typically go to sites that not only allow nudity, but let her search by endowment. Adult friend finder is one good example. Paid members can actually search by size (small, average, large and thin, average, thick and very thick). But if they’re looking for a relationship, they won’t likely have a large Penis atop their requirements list. There was an actual study that revealed women want a larger penis on a one night stand than on a man she’ll fall in love with. Gist : it only benefits men seeking no strings sex.

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I have been out of online dating for years but I do remember certain girls asking on their profile or if I turned the conversation sexual that a couple asked.

What is the name of this big dick online site?

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Adult friend finder and insights into female size preference

"Me being a complete psycho stayed up all night reading through 100s of adverts and jotting down the number that made reference to wanting a well endowed man. Guess what… Just 6% of women included a large penis as criteria for a casual lover. In contrast being good looking, in shape and passionate came up again and again… Now these were by and large, experienced women advertising exclusively for sex and penis size was only an issue for a minority."

This TP member adressed this issue more than 10 years back and interestingly enough, he came to about 6% of the women on Adultfriendfinder-com who *mentioned* penis size as an important criterium for choosing a SEX / hookup partner!

This aligns well with the ~7% of all active users number on Joyclub-de who are members of the special interest group "Big Dicks and Chicks", as well as with my mentioned anecdotal observations on Joyclub.

So I assume we can quite fairly say that the percentage of women for whom penis size is very important (even in a very directly sexually focused context) should be around 7-10% max of the existing sexually active population.

Just like with political polls, it depends where you got your data set from. I’ve been on social hookup sites where there are very large groups of women solely after well endowed men. Then there are the big Penis dating sites like 7orbetter.com, which requires proof before you can join as a man, and abitbigger.com, which doesn’t exist anymore. There are a lot of women on these sites. Compared to the global population, I couldn’t tell you the percent. Maybe it’s still 10%, I don’t know. But I can tell you, there are plenty of women seeking a hung stud, just not all of them advertise their preference. And some simply don’t know they prefer it until they’ve experienced it. I know of a few women who didn’t realize they were fans of big cock until they saw mine, so I doubt they’re the only ones.

Interesting to read further as thread goes on! :) I would also add a bit to my primary comment here - that WE are (thunder’s residents and PE-ers as a whole) just these not so numerous men around the world who improves size as time goes on. With this in most cases have relative competitive advantage in building relationships with women(may be men too, for gays) or attracting them not only by personality, well-built or technique)) In my current Europe/East-reality, girl could say like “Wow, you are such a cool guy, job-physique-etc-etc and have such a good size! Dreamy dream!!”

So, nice, growing size is another plus in our “personal CVs” in women vision. Relax. Enjoy. And bring joy to a woman!)

I’d love to chime in on this because I have a lot of experience with online dating. I have what I would call a small penis, or on the lower side of average. I’ve slept with over 30 women from online, most of whom I didn’t even do much foreplay, but most still came back for more. Of all of those women, I think only one brought up wanting a big dick, the context of which was “I heard the drummer in your band has a huge dick.” Needless to say, she was one of the few I never saw again. But, I still made her cum, from playing with her clit while I was sexing her. Go figure. The few girls I felt comfortable asking, both before and after I had sex with them, said it really doesn’t matter unless it’s too big or too small. I frequently hear “it sucks if it’s so small that you can’t feel it. I’ll take an average one any day.” Also, almost ALL of them hate dick pics, even the big beautiful ones, unless you start having a genuine connection and get sexual really quickly. The bottom line is, if you have a big dick, maybe it will help with sex, but I think it will help VERY LITTLE with getting a date. If you mention it, it’s more likely to work against you. They don’t want to hear that stuff.

TL;DR - I have a lot of experience with online women, and 95% of them never brought up a big dick and didn’t seem to care that I was small, seeing as many got off from just penetration and came back several times. Most of the time I cut it off.

Most of my best friends for the past 25 years have been women. I’ve heard 2 comments in 25 years about dick size from all of them put together. One comment was about a guy having a very small penis and she couldn’t feel it during sex. Another comment was from a different friend with a boyfriend with such a huge cock that they had to go slow getting into intercourse.

As a gay guy, I’ve heard my gay friends reference dick size more regularly, but interestingly, though most of us find big dicks exciting to look at and touch, I’ve heard from very few gay men who actually care that much either.

Even if just for casual sex, most people seem to want confident, healthy and compassionate partners. That said, I think you should be proud of your size and if you’re into putting yourself up on any hookup sites - go ahead and see what happens! Perhaps compare your experiences on that site with your experience on another site where you don’t mention it?

My Ten Tens in Southern California (picking up online babes that are way out of my league)

So right out of the gate and just starting the whole online dating thing —- I struck gold. Wasn’t sure whether I’d be retiring in the Midwest, the Pacific Northwest, or Southern California. New to Match.com, so checked out California first. Put my old zip code in with a search radius of twenty miles, and asked to see all the women who were 58 to 60 years old. Damn, over 1,300 profiles came up. So that first night, skimming through those hundreds of photos, picked ten profiles to read. Those ten were definitely all tens — beautiful women who had aged extremely well and taken care of their gorgeous bodies. Oh well, doesn’t hurt to dream.

The very next morning was surprised to see that one of the ten had messaged me. How had that happened ? Oh, when you call up someone’s profile, they see your photo and that you’ve checked them out. Damn, this babe was one of the two hottest looking of the ten. Her message went something like this, “Wow, you’ve really kept in shape. Hard to find a man who does at our age. Meet me at eight tonight at ‘this’ restaurant right near the beach. Later, we’ll take off our shoes and walk hand in hand along the ocean in the moonlight”. Well shit, that’s going to be hard to do when I’m two thousand miles away from the ocean. So just as I was starting to compose a message, she sent me another. Reading closer, she saw where I lived, but said the invitation would stay open for whenever I visited California. Hot damn.

A few days later, started getting messages from nearly every one of the ten women I’d checked out. Their messages were all pretty similar and kind of went like this, “Well, I see you read my profile on ‘this’ date. Was waiting to hear from you. Didn’t you like what saw? Let me know if there’s a problem so I can make my profile better. Would really appreciate hearing from you.”. So damn, it seems that very hot women are intrigued or maybe just bothered when some guy checks them out but then doesn’t follow up with a message. Learned something valuable, and over the next six months only hit on the hottest women by checking their profile and then waiting for them to contact me. It really does work.

Actually kept up messaging conversations with several of the women. Thought I’d get around to taking a trip out west. A few were real characters, and their messages got very suggestive. One gardened as a hobby. She said that when I visited we’d lie down together in the grass under her shade tree, and I could enjoy the intoxicating scent of her garden. Don’t believe that she was talking daffodils. Another said that every morning we’d make love in bed, and she’d mark me by leaving her scent on my face. That way, any woman I met would know that I was taken, and her scent would make me hungry all day for more of her love. Wow.

But now the best. Got quite a scathing message from the blond who was the hottest of the ten. It was nearly a whole page long. Only remember a few lines that kind of went like this, “Just what is your game buster? Are pulling some kind of scam or what? “. Couldn’t understand why someone would get so bothered that I’d looked at her profile. Almost was going to ignore her message, and just chalk it all up to having looked at a crazy woman’s profile. But instead, wrote a very nice letter explaining my intentions. We got to be friends. She said that she also exercised daily and had a complete home gym. Only difference is that I exercise alone while she has a personal trainer. But she invited me for an ‘exercise date’ where “we’d go and go and go, until we couldn’t go anymore”. After showering, she’d put some steaks on the grill and open some wine. Just the kind of date that I knew I would be ‘up’ for.

But then I did some home detective work. Found out that this woman was formerly a ‘B list’ Hollywood actress, and noted for her sexy voice. She had transformed herself in to a very successful entrepreneur who ran several companies. Had homes all over the world, and still hobnobbed with Hollywood entertainers. Couldn’t believe that someone like her would actually be on match.com. Definitely WAY OUT OF MY LEAGUE. So never have taken her up on that exercise date. My sons always say, “Dad, go out and see her”. Nah, never will. But we’ve remained friends. She actually sent me a short note just yesterday. It’s nice to know her, but by now we both know that’s all it’ll ever be.

Wowww, just like read a whole other approach to relations in terms of age, country and many other things….

Would like to ask first, does B list - it is this list? or some other? B-list actors and actresses - IMDb

In Russia 50+ considered almost as "grandma age" and people reaching this milestone….not so open-minded, don’t use PC or date-sites at all, also after 50-55+ becoming HELL grumpy. Hard to talk, unreal to "date", even hard to get some interesting story from them :/ So, your post really impressed me much!!!))) Seems that actual theme of topic, big dick dating, don’t affect older ages at all)

No, not on that list. I used the term ‘B List’ more as a general descriptor of someone in the entertainment industry who never makes it to the point where their name is widely recognized outside the entertainment industry community. In her case she got out early, but used her connections in the industry along with her business sense to create a couple very lucrative businesses which she still oversees. She lives several months a year in Hollywood, Europe and the Orient.

Great story but I’m a bit confused lol :)

What has been the key to this apparent success? What do you attribute it to?

It only gives you an advantage if the woman finds the big dick as a bonus, or the tie breaker. The women I’ve met online all met me because they already saw my cock, and knew what they were getting into. But the ones that want to DATE me find my size as a huge (pun intended) bonus.

Most Match.com profiles seem to have the person zip lining, scuba diving or parachuting. Had nothing like that, so used a photo of me exercising in my home gym. I’m in pretty good shape, and weigh the same as when I graduated from college. Most commented that they liked a man who takes care of himself because they all work hard to remain sexy and attractive. I also think that they had many men contacting them. So when a guy came along who read their profile but then didn’t act on it by messaging them — it got them wondering why, Why, WHY. Enough so that they all messaged me in order to find the answer.

There’s a very good lesson in that lol. :)