Online dating with big dick

Hi,

I was thinking about something. Now that I am growing my dick, do you think that when it gets real big, that I will have a lot of success in online dating? I have seen some dating sites where women ask for big guys. However, there was also a guy on a forum who stated that he had a really big dick and the only people who had contacted him on those same online dating sites were transvestites and gay guys, so not so interesting for me as a straight guy.

I found a dating site specifically for guys with big dicks. Interesting. I’m 7,6”, so quite good, but still not enough to be “the big guy” on an online dating site. Waiting for some more growth to get in to that.

Curious to know your thoughts.

All the best!

Hi pingador,

I have found it is completely worthless. Not one person in 10 years of online dating asked about the size of my dick on a dating site. I also did not frequent “7orbetter” or any competitor sites, though. So if that is where you’ll be fishing for women, your mileage will vary.

Some of the women I’ve slept with have stuck around for the big dick experience but without exception those women were absolutely horrible outside of the bedroom (and not really earth-shaking in the bedroom).

I’d work on your selection criteria and confidence. A big dick doesn’t make it easier to date on its own merits.

My .02

Online dating is more about your attitude and less about your dick. You really have to find the right ones and sell yourself. That’s not by bragging about your dick size. The women have heard it all, from so many guys. There has to be a common interest between the two of you, other than you having the big dick that can fill her up. I have found that getting a woman on one of these sites is extremely difficult, no matter what. A lot I believe are just cock teases and don’t have any intention on meeting. Then there are the ones that want to meet, but shy away from it because of the assholes that send them messages like, “Hey baby, wanna Fuck?” Remember, there are probably 100 horny dicks to one pussy on those sites. The women get flooded with nasty messages, scaring many of them away quickly.

There are also a lot of crazies. Beware!! I look at it this way. Why are they there? They must have some sort of issue getting men? Any woman can go out and pick up a guy if they want to. It’s something they can do. Wake up, say I want to get fucked today, go to a bar, and take home any guy she so desires. They don’t need to be online, if they just want to fuck. Us guys don’t really have that ability. We have to work for it. If it happens, it’s just mere luck on our parts.

Take it from me. Get out and mingle. It’s the best way to pick up chicks. Be yourself and have a good time. Online dating got me a nasty fat woman who didn’t clean up other men’s condoms before I came over and more recently a cat lady. Though the cat lady is in my life now as a fuck buddy, I am not stopping on her. I am still going to keep going out and having fun. I’m sure I’ll find something better. I know I have a good attitude and because of recent events and PE in my life, I have re-found my confidence.

You have to do what you feel is right. But I really believe getting off the computer is the answer for you and anyone serious about finding a good woman. Sitting there and typing message after message while there’s so much pussy out in the world passing you by. Think of it that way.

Good Luck.

Well, here is my 2 cents. Since gaining I have gotten more attention from females, but I won’t say it was about my dick. I would say it was about the confidence I gained from knowing I had that in my trousers. I use to have a big issue with confidence, and that hampered my dating life. Even so, I managed to find my woman and marry her. But since doing PE and gaining what I gained, my confidence went through the roof and the ladies almost instinctively pick up on that. For me at least, its as if they know you’re packing a monster, but I think its more the confidence that they pick up on more than actual dick size.

I’ve never really did online dating. So can’t help you out there, but I also don’t trust online dating. Why are the women on that site if the can just go out and pick up any guy they choose. So word of caution using online dating sites. You might get into trouble.

Hope this helps.

The “women” who are looking for big dicks online will usually turn out to be gay guys looking for pictures, etc., most women don’t care about dick size very much, if at all.

Hi. Ok, I am not looking for a relationship, just casual sex. If it was a relationship I would only go out and mingle. I still do this for sex, but I just thought I should draw water from all sources and was thinking about big dick online dating too.

It won’t make a difference.

Tried online dating for six months shortly after retiring. Actually, it was a full time serious pursuit over those six months. Spent many hours every day either messaging or phoning scores of women living all over the entire country (at the time wasn’t settled on where I might retire to). Probably dated fifteen women over that time, traveling as far as 250 miles to meet them. Man, do I have the funny stories to tell.

But limiting things to penis size, there were actually three who brought up the subject — and I didn’t ask to meet any of them. One former playmate bunny wanted to know “if everything below the belt was ‘adequate’ and in good working order”. A gal from California confided that she was “a normal sized woman down there”, but her longtime boyfriend was “too tiny for her to even feel him, and that he really needed to find a very tiny Asian woman for sex”. The third woman actually used the phrase “size matters to me” a couple of times in her emails. She never specifically mentioned penises, but I got that impression. But the babe who really scared me was the practicing witch living in the Louisiana bayous. Actually had snake tattoos coiling up both arms and shoulders. She didn’t mention penis size, but said she was putting a spell on me. Wanted me for my “big strong arms” because during sex she’d change into a “wild cat”, and her man needed strong arms to prevent her from clawing him to death. Damn, even to this day when the song ‘Witchy Woman’ comes over the radio I can feel my SUV being pulled towards Louisiana.

I was just going to say “zero difference, zippo, none, 0%, etc.” but thoughtfulgold said it best with his first sentence. Most woman are looking more for attitude and confidence.

That said, if you have truly a monster cock, then there is a certain element of people (often it’s couples who engage in “hotwife activity”) who look for that. But that’s not dating; that’s just sex, and you do have to be pretty big.

Well, I would add rus-reality dating experience. It really doesn’t matter in terms of size initially. I mean - first sex obviously just good sex, then you could prove yourself bad lover in case your technique and conservatism are at it’s worst, but it is personal things.

But in some cases with some really speedy pick ups or when you feel that woman QUITE open-minded one, using a bit of strength you could easily force a kiss. Some wow-effect and so on. Here, if you manage to get some good hangy-erection in pants and lead her hand to your genitail-zone, it could add some points. But here just fat-risk, pervert accusations and so on. So yes, size doesn’t matter at all, it just makes you better lover/better choice for her in the future, after first sex/oral

P.S. as a whole personality really works most and the breadth of your views, knowledge and experience. May be positivity also here

Ha ha,
The witch sounds like a bit of fun.You will have to share some of your stories one of these days.

@magicwand9 - funny stuff, lol! :)

I’m on the German platform “joyclub.de” which is one of the very well crafted and serious Swinger sites with more than 300K regular Users and good balance of couples, singles, M / F. Not many fake profiles there, good quality management.

There are groups for any special preferences and tastes. The group that unites the big dick lovers is called “Big Dicks and Chicks” and it is about only 6-7% of the total active population of Joyclub who are members of that group (and half of them are males with supposedly big dicks).

That platform is really only about sex (and some BDSM) and people post very explicit pictures of themselves and are pretty open about their preferences, also the more exotic ones, I would say that female profiles mentioning a preference for big dick size is probably also around only 5-10% (my own anecdotal evidence) - therefore confirming the 7-8% figure from the specialized group.

If you go and date online or in a dance club, you go into the most competitive situations, where women have all the selection power.
Any women on sex dating platforms (even those without pics) get dozens of requests every day. So it takes a lot of labour to get their attention.

I have found that picking up women at the tram stop, in the book store, in the library or even in the grocery store is much more fun and NO COMPETITION. Also, it adds the element of surprise to them.

P.S.: Besides that, picking up women in a book store already is a great pre-filter as you can be sure they can read.

To continue this part of the thread just a bit… As an observer in the local sex club, it’s interesting to note that some of the toughest “masters” really don’t have big cocks. While it certainly wouldn't hurt to have a massive dick, I do not see a strong cause/effect relationship between a big dick and a dominant nature.

My anecdotal observations confirm yours, DonLogan.

In addition, I would say the distribution of cock sizes among men who are naturally dominant or like to play such a role is most likely also standard-normal distributed; hence your impression - as the biggest part of “really existing” cocks out there are +/- 1 inch around the REAL average -

and NOT +/- 1 inch around the PORN average….